If you had to list the qualities and traits that make you a good woman, what are they?

[Anonymous]

I see so many of us ask what we can do to win men over. I see questions bout how to get his attention and etc...

But I would like to turn the tables and ask what is it about you as a woman that you have to offer a potential BF? What is it that you want your relationship to be like. Are you "promoting" those qualitiies so that men see them.

MEN----when you think of a girlfriend (besides her being hot and sexy) what are some of the qualities that your looking for?

BTW this isn't if YOU were perfect or what does your PERFECT girlfriend fantasy look like...

Things like...I am very responsible, I handle my finances and it wouldn't be an issue on my part.

I love to cook, so my boyfriend would have the benefits of a good home cooked meal.

etc...

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+1 y

Thank you to the ones that have put their two cents in. Seems to me we get caught trying to make a reality of what we want versus capitalizing on our own natures, attributes, and strength. We all have a combo of what a man wants. Me...I decided that the one for me will appriciate and love most if not all of my traits. We're not perfect but ladies each of us has a lot to offer, you just need to know what you offer.

[purpleprincess]

I am hard working, passionate about my job and finacially independant. I am loyal to friends and family, loving, caring and supportive of them to achieve their goals, I too am ambitious, artistically creative, self motivated, romantic & passionate. I enjoy a variety of hobbies and pastimes, I maintain a good fitness level, I can cook & enjoy doing so WITH a partner & I am a nurturing mother to my 3 children whom are all academically successful and enjoy embracing life. I am a little wild at times when in adult company, fun & flirty, and if were talking how I view my physicalities I would say I am cute, possibly pretty for my age its a matter of opinion. x

[Asker]

Wow! That sounds like you know yourself. I'm sure that a smart guy would not let you pass! Thanks for chiming in!

[purpleprincess]

My motto in life is embrace the woman within, we are all different, highly skilled in our areas of strength and can all support our partners if we embrace his/her qualities also. A good woman in my mind, putting confidence, ambition, creativity etc... aside is a woman who embraces her partner and supports him to achive all of his goals and vice versa bringing out the best in one another.

[rdabby]

- I honestly take good care of myself, hygiene wise. Am over obsessive with being clean and smell good all the time.

- I would give all the love and attention I have, if I really fall for him.

- Am a fighter for what I want and need, and I never give up.

- I love sex, all the time and he wouldn't have to worry about creativity and keeping things spicy!

- Am always up for an adventure regardless what it is.

- Most importantly, patience is my key.

[rdabby]

Oh and I forgot, am a feminist, my career is very important, and have rights just as much as he does. I hate to be a brat or a house wife by force ( I see that as an advantage others see it as a disadvantage) and I have strong opinions and thoughts yet am a very easy going if understood.

[Asker]

Ok, so your a very direct to the point kind of person. A man that is looking to have clear answers would be lucky to be with you. Thanks for your comment.

[rdabby]

Yeap you just said it.. That's me ;) good question

[Anonymous]

When I really care about a guy, I will take the relationship seriously and really try to make it work

I am entertaining

I plan to have a good career and take life seriously

I am responsible

I have a good head on my shoulders

I have a high sex drive (but I don't sleep around so only a relationship would get to really see it)

Interesting question, it really made me think, especially since I haven't been in a relationship for a while

[Opinion Owner]

I'm confident

I'm not a doormat

I have my own thoughts on things and like to have random discussions

I have passion