The smart athlete or the bad boy stoner jock?

[Anonymous]

Let me start off by saying there are a lot of different kinds of people at my school, but I was wondering if high school girls are more likely to go for the smart athlete(honor student who plays sports, cares about school) or the bad boy stoner jock(doesn't care about school, smokes pot, disrespects teachers)? I am more of the smart athlete, I run cross country, play varsity tennis, and will be playing lacrosse(which for some reason is considered the weirdo sport by some girls), have multiple AP classes and over a 4.0 GPA, and am generally a kind person who is becoming more social and less afraid of taking chances with girls as High School goes by.

I'm not planing on changing myself, but I'm just curious as to what other people would consider more attractive qualities.

[pswimmermann]

Seriously, would you date me? I am like the exact clone of you, only girl version. I am an elite level swimmer with a 3.9 and I'm really nice to everyone! I have the same problem with guys, they only want to date the "popular" girls who don't play sports and have bad grades, but you just have to look for your equal. I stopped going for the "bad boy" recently, and I am amazed as to how many nice/ cute guys out there that I mesh with that have the same morals as me! I know sometimes the stoner/jocks seem like they have all of the confidence/luck with girls, but that's only because they are not afraid to approach girls. You'll be better off in the long run, trust me :)

[Anonymous]

I don't know any bad boy stoner jocks, but I guess I lean more towards them. This isn't meant to attack you personally, but I find that most of the intellectual athletes are just as pretentious. OR even worse. At least the stoner jocks have a life outside of school, which is hell. We are only young once, so why not party now? Plus it's not like relationships in high school last after graduation.

And where I'm from, lax boys are hotttt

[BunnyToast]

Honestly I'm going to have to say the stoner, no not the "bad boy stoner jock" because guys like that don't exist. Usually guys that are actual stoners, and don't just do it to look cool for their friends, are awesome guys. They are calm (no getting mad or hitting you) and pretty nice, I would take them over any uptight "smart athlete" or bad boy.

[Anonymous]

The smart athlete would have the advantage. The whole thing about bad boys is they show strength and courage. Smart athletes can also show strength and courage.

[Usemyname]

My boyfriend is more of a stoner jock, but he's not disrespectful. If he was, I wouldn't be into him. I also wouldn't be into him if my friend, who is more like you, was into me. But he's not into me and I'm now super into my stoner jock boyfriend.

[Jazz_92]

nice guys finish last, remember?