I'm a former Marine. 6'1, 215lbs (muscle). Work out 5 days a week. I've done BJJ, Krav. I work as a bouncer. I don't know about "most guys" but you definitely couldn't defend yourself against me. Good news is you wouldn't have to. Because my job is to defend overconfident, underprepared women from the trouble they might get themselves into at bars/clubs.
Of course you can, but the golden rule is: run if you can. Always avoid a fight. If you have to fight, remember that legs are a girl strongest muscles. Your body looks very athletic, so your body strength will be OK
Yeah legs IS the best weapon for most girls. If i lock a guy with my legs on the ground its pretty much over for him 😅. But you're absolutly right best is to avoid it
Good one! I'm always impressed with how creative some attention/validation seeking women can be in finding ways to post their attention seeking posts without coming right out and saying "please give me attention and validation".
I'm also 5'11 and my weight is 165 but I don't work out, let's say I'm out of shape... taking a man like me as an example, why should he be stronger than you? just because you're a woman?
I can’t defend myself at all there’s always people left , right and centre at me all the time and I just want to say your body is so beautiful not meaning that in a weird way 🥰
People who train for self defence know the difference from combat sports but good thinking for explaining. You seem strong and since you have BJJ brown belt I'm sure you can handle yourself in most cases. However, on the streets you can never know. There're too many variables like strength and skill of other person, weapons involved, space to run, walls..
You're doing BJJ... there is no way anyone can get to you unless they try to punch you or throw things at you and run away... but if they stick around to find out I think you will let them know...
Somebody could be the best fighter in the world or never have fought at all. All their plans and expectations for the fight go out the window when they get punched or kicked in the right place at the wrong time. There's no rules.
Yeah but kicks Can easily get you of balance and you might end up on the ground. And i ussualy wear heels so its pretty impossible to kick 😅. Plus if i kick someone to the head with full force i would be worried about hurting him more than i want to...
Real fighting is not that nonsense you see on tv like the ufc mma whatever. Unless they stunned or aren't expecting it, trying to kick people in the head doesn't usually work out well. You kick their stomach, knees, balls, liver, etc. Those kind of kicks don't throw you off balance and leave you wide open like a head kick. If you always wear heels then you aren't going to be fighting anybody
As a matter of date she did. She met a guy at a party and he kept feeding her drinks and he tried to rape her. She was able to fight him off and he ran away.
I dont care about compliments from strangers 😂 its a serious question about self defense but you're jealous i Guess so you have to type something like this... Im really sorry for you
Hard to say really, I was in an abusive relationship with an athlete and was unable to defend myself when the time came and my dad taught me to box and did some karate/ work out. He was taller though.
It's not really about fitness, it's about the element of surprise most of the time or them being in numbers, I knew a woman that got sexually abused by a group of like 8, I wasn't there so she could be lying but last thing I'd wanna do is not believe a rape victim, I don't see why they'd lie, if your area is like mine then they don't use hands anymore and you'll most likely have to avoid some kind of weapon as well.
One can only hope you can fight off whatever threat approaches or at least I hope you can, as someone that has lost the advantage even while armed I can say such scenarios of being out numbered or losing the advantage exists, unfortunately.
Okay yes you're right but im talking about different scenario... When someone won't leave me alone or follow me becouse he thinks he Can spend a night with me... Ofcourse when a group of guys attack you with weapons you can't do pretty much anything
Well in scenerios like that then I believe you can and you should but realistically also think of the chances of esculation as well because if the person isn't on drugs the chances of their ego taking defeat by a woman lightly are slim, they can always come back sadly
The best way to assure them not coming back it to kill them, or cause irreversible damage, break his knee caps and he won't ever walk the same again, you're welcome lol
What can I say I've known many people that I've lost due to escalation, I guess if you are going to knock someone out just make sure they can't find you again
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I'm a former Marine. 6'1, 215lbs (muscle). Work out 5 days a week. I've done BJJ, Krav. I work as a bouncer. I don't know about "most guys" but you definitely couldn't defend yourself against me. Good news is you wouldn't have to. Because my job is to defend overconfident, underprepared women from the trouble they might get themselves into at bars/clubs.
Of course you can, but the golden rule is: run if you can. Always avoid a fight. If you have to fight, remember that legs are a girl strongest muscles. Your body looks very athletic, so your body strength will be OK
Yeah legs IS the best weapon for most girls. If i lock a guy with my legs on the ground its pretty much over for him 😅. But you're absolutly right best is to avoid it
Good one! I'm always impressed with how creative some attention/validation seeking women can be in finding ways to post their attention seeking posts without coming right out and saying "please give me attention and validation".
Well played, well played.
What the hell are you talking about? 😂 This Has nothing to do with attention im just curious about my chances when defending myself...
Of course you are, of course, lol.
What kind of attention do i even seek according to you? Trust my i have plenty of unwanted attention on my ig i dont need any more 😂
I'm also 5'11 and my weight is 165 but I don't work out, let's say I'm out of shape...
taking a man like me as an example, why should he be stronger than you? just because you're a woman?
Right i work out with hard weight for 3 years 😅 hope you won't get offended but since you dont work out i think im easily stronger than you
you are muscular and have a great body! how tall are you in cm? How much weight can you lift?
Thank you ☺️ Im 180-181cm
I Can do deadlifts and squats with 150 kg for a few reps
And on bench its only 75kg😅
I can’t defend myself at all there’s always people left , right and centre at me all the time and I just want to say your body is so beautiful not meaning that in a weird way 🥰
Thank you ❤️
People who train for self defence know the difference from combat sports but good thinking for explaining. You seem strong and since you have BJJ brown belt I'm sure you can handle yourself in most cases. However, on the streets you can never know. There're too many variables like strength and skill of other person, weapons involved, space to run, walls..
I don't know what the last J in BJJ is.
But if you give me BJ I'd probably be to distracted to remember what happened before.
😂 good one
I haven't been logged in to GaG for a while and now I see a response to this...
It was a joke, but kinda embarrassing to find now.
Anyway, I am not a violent person.
I do not start fights.
If we ever met IRL,
Unless you force me to a position I need to self defence,
Otherwise you'd never need a weapon sharper then your wits against me.
I don't go violent even for harsh insults.
Only if I am actually in danger.
You're doing BJJ... there is no way anyone can get to you unless they try to punch you or throw things at you and run away... but if they stick around to find out I think you will let them know...
Exactly punches might surprise me but on the ground i have an advantage against someone inexperienced
Somebody could be the best fighter in the world or never have fought at all. All their plans and expectations for the fight go out the window when they get punched or kicked in the right place at the wrong time. There's no rules.
You need to learn how to kick with those legs
I know how to kick with them 😅 and my kicks are pretty strong i just dont really know how to use that in a fight...
Umm... If you don't know how to use kicks in a fight then you don't know how to kick
I knew how to use kicks in a fight in like 3rd grade. You kick them when they are coming towards you, before they get close enough to punch you.
Yeah but kicks Can easily get you of balance and you might end up on the ground. And i ussualy wear heels so its pretty impossible to kick 😅. Plus if i kick someone to the head with full force i would be worried about hurting him more than i want to...
Real fighting is not that nonsense you see on tv like the ufc mma whatever. Unless they stunned or aren't expecting it, trying to kick people in the head doesn't usually work out well. You kick their stomach, knees, balls, liver, etc. Those kind of kicks don't throw you off balance and leave you wide open like a head kick. If you always wear heels then you aren't going to be fighting anybody
Hopefully you can. Just remember there is alwhas someone bigger and better out there. A gun is the best thing to carry in a worst case scenario
I had a female friend that is about your size and weight and she could really take care of herself. I det you could defend yourself.,
Has She ever had some conflict with a guy?
As a matter of date she did. She met a guy at a party and he kept feeding her drinks and he tried to rape her. She was able to fight him off and he ran away.
And did She have some fight training?
No, she was a collegiate swimmer and a good athlete. She wad 5'11" and just big all over. She was in amazing shape.
Swimming is great for strenght. Huge respect to her for not getting scared ❤️ by the way do you know how big was the guy?
He was bigger than she is. I doubt she could take him in a fight but she was able to beat him up bad enough that he did not want to mess with her.
Amazing woman ❤️
Yes, she was beautiful too.
Lmao, come on girl, at least be honest about why you're posting this.
Sorry but I'm not going to give you the compliment you're fishing for here.
I dont care about compliments from strangers 😂 its a serious question about self defense but you're jealous i Guess so you have to type something like this... Im really sorry for you
Nope, I'm never jealous of people who seek attention like this. It says something about them, and I'm glad I don't have that something.
Hard to say really, I was in an abusive relationship with an athlete and was unable to defend myself when the time came and my dad taught me to box and did some karate/ work out. He was taller though.
Against most men, sure you can. Men are loud with their opinions but very weak in reality.
Exactly most of them are exactly like this...
I am short but pretty strong and have good adrenaline. I can probably defend myself it need be.
You look fit to defend yourself.
How tall are you? Im curious if i Can be as curious as you 😁
*as confident as you
I guess drunk joes perhaps but I guess that depends lol
Yeah it always depends on the type of guy... But most are not very fit
It's not really about fitness, it's about the element of surprise most of the time or them being in numbers, I knew a woman that got sexually abused by a group of like 8, I wasn't there so she could be lying but last thing I'd wanna do is not believe a rape victim, I don't see why they'd lie, if your area is like mine then they don't use hands anymore and you'll most likely have to avoid some kind of weapon as well.
One can only hope you can fight off whatever threat approaches or at least I hope you can, as someone that has lost the advantage even while armed I can say such scenarios of being out numbered or losing the advantage exists, unfortunately.
Okay yes you're right but im talking about different scenario... When someone won't leave me alone or follow me becouse he thinks he Can spend a night with me... Ofcourse when a group of guys attack you with weapons you can't do pretty much anything
Well in scenerios like that then I believe you can and you should but realistically also think of the chances of esculation as well because if the person isn't on drugs the chances of their ego taking defeat by a woman lightly are slim, they can always come back sadly
True but it won't escalate if i knock that guy out 😉
The best way to assure them not coming back it to kill them, or cause irreversible damage, break his knee caps and he won't ever walk the same again, you're welcome lol
Thats pretty cruel 😅 knock then out seems like the best option
What can I say I've known many people that I've lost due to escalation, I guess if you are going to knock someone out just make sure they can't find you again
Basically what I'm trying to say is that people hold grudges
You can defend yourself. Love the hips and the panties there. Very hot
Even after being trained you had to compare yourself with average men because even slightly trained men would murder you
Girl you already lost 😂
You are stacked. You should be insanely proud of that body you have built. Wish you went to my gym!
Oh cmon im not that good 😅
Haha yes you are THAT good. So strong looking but still have the feminine curves… yummy. Perfect.
Thank you ❤️
You’re very welcome 😉
You are fortunate to be able to defend yourself
Its never too late for you... Selfdefense course IS great you learn so many things in just few hours 😅
@Viola_456 can you give me some tips?
Sure in DM
@Viola_456 you have a beautiful body
Thank you 🥺