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So this guy, let’s call him Pancake, talks to me daily. Today I denied that someone else was the world’s biggest Swiftie and I was like, “no! l so he said, “name 10 Taylor Swift songs.” I did, and he’s like, “How DARE you not say You Belong With Me!” he talks to me daily, and is really nice. Plus one time @ a school thing, I got there before him and knew he was coming to it too, and I was about to start something when he slipped his hands over my eyes and said hi. I’ve crushed on him for around 3 months, could be love, I don't know, but I have NO CLUE if he likes me or not. I suck at reading guys, and always get hopeful. Also he’s Aeroace, so that’s great. I looked into aeroace, and it said (correct me if I’m wrong) they don’t really get romantic feelings but can still have partners, and I know he dated someone for a little, so please end this confusion!
Guys, This guy I like… I CANNOT tell if he’s flirting or being nice. Which one?
What Guys Said
Hmm that does sound kinda confusing. Based on what you said it seems like he might be into you a little bit, but it's hard to say for sure.
I mean yeah guys can just be nice sometimes, but slipping his hands over your eyes and stuff, that kinda seems flirty if you ask me. And knowing a lot about Taylor Swift songs just to jokingly quiz you shows he's paying attention.
The daily talking is also good sign he likes hanging out. Some guys wouldn't bother that much if they weren't interested, ya know?
And from what you said about aeroace, it sounds like he can date and stuff even if he doesn't always feel super romantic.
My advice would maybe be trying flirting a bit back and see how he reacts. Smile extra, playfully tease him back, find little ways to touch his arm when you talk. Thata usually a pretty clear signal you like a dude.
See if he seems happier after and keeps talking more. Might help make things clearer for both of you!
But try not to get hopes up too much either just in case. Just have fun with it for now, and hopefully you figure it out soon! Keep me posted how it goes.
Ask him out for coffee and be sure to exchange numbers