Hey ladies, is a little pudge in your 30’s ok?

[Anonymous]

Granted, I know I COULD do more to be in better shape, but it is what it is at this very moment.

It’s been a stressful few years, my hair is receding and graying now, a bit baby-faced but starting to show a little age. Coming to terms with aging as well. Been having to put a lot of work into my job/career. Got some money in the bank, living below my means, and like I said, a little pudge (but by no means obese looking or anything).

Just… could be better.

[northerngal]

OK women can be shallow too... I do enjoy oogling a hot guy every once in a while. But we do tend to look at a man as a whole. So a man with all kinds of positive attributes is still attractive even though he may be a bit out of shape.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

You are doing your best in your life. That's all that matters. A little pudge? Huggable! 🥰

[chrissykerdock]

what are you trying to say

[Asker]

I realize that I could be in better shape, but there are reasons why I’m not. Trying to find a better balance. That’s all. Hopefully there are people out there that can read between the lines a little bit.

[rachel776]

on a guy yes