Do you need a six-pack abs to have a girlfriend in 2024?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

No, need a six pack abs for YOU and if a girlfriend tends to come up based on your character and personality in accepting you for who you are then sure. Attraction is a plus - not the main course

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. I see big guys dating beauties quite frequently.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Big as in fat slobs?

[Chthou95]

Those are anecdotes

[UnicornLobotomy]

Get the six pack and find out. At least try, you’re gonna like the way you look, I guarantee you.

Do Girlfriends in 2024 need those cute 4 packs to date you? No, but it’d be a lot cooler if they did.

You’ll like your six pack more, or you might like PRing in the gym more on your weird but common journey of many young men today to get a 6 pack to get “a” gf” until that dream is wither shattered by getting your heart broke or watching your KD ratio go down in Call of Booty Modern whorefare.

[HawkPerception]

Absolutely not and there are tons of girls that are actually advocates of the "dad bod" (which personally blows my mind). Some women even associate having a 6-pack with being a workout junkie that's shallow and narcissistic (which can sometimes be true, so I don't entirely blame them for it).

All most women want is a guy with financial stability, a decent personality, makes them laugh, and puts effort into romantic gestures.

[Chthou95]

a lot of women don't even know what a dad bod is. They sure as hell aren't talking about chubby or fat slobs. Usually to them a dad bod is a man who's still in somewhat shape but has some fat

[HawkPerception]

@Chthou95 I went looking for content to prove you wrong, but I'll admit it. You seem to be correct. Clearly I was talking outta my ass or what most girls on social media were saying they liked.

https://youtu.be/LbwgABvQdUA?si=eHIPxH2Yh6ZjK2NF

[HawkPerception]

on what***

[Chthou95]

Bingo

[SweetJoyGirl]

Once upon a time I wanted a guy with abs. Over the past year or so, I have started to care less for it. Now, I look to see if I can connect with the guy intellectually and emotionally. As long as he is not obese, and on the verge of death, I am cool with him. 👌🏾

[DizzyDesii]

I've never been into abs. I do like slim guys with good posture but abs have never been a desire nor requirement

[Val713]

Do you NEED a six-pack to get a girlfriend, no.

Does having a six-pack HELP get a girlfriend, yea absolutely.

But you should be working out because YOU want to build muscle or have a six-pack, not for someone else. Otherwise you won't stick to your routine.

[TheLovelyIntrovert]

No, I didn't fall in love with my boyfriend based on just his looks. Connection and personality matters a lot. I personally like a guy with a little bit of a dad bod... not fat just normal if that makes sense.

[Nik1hil]

Not necessarily!..

6 pack abs is like an add-on package that every girl likes. But do it for yourself, not for girls.

If you make 6 pack abs, are broke financially, and act like an asshole, talk shit. Then you still will not get any girls.

If you don't have 6 pack abs but are financially strong, act very good, and talk great. Then you will easily get girls.

And MONEY matters more than 6 PACK ABS. Anant AMBANI proved that.

[Taniisokay]

No you don't. You got be you. Personality wise. Of course you have to take of your physical health for you not for someone else because it's your body.

[genericname85]

no. what you need is a stable job or income of whatever other source, being in the habit of taking good care of yourself (not being fat and unkept), having some (mostly male) friends you regularly hang out with and a bunch of things you enjoy doing that aren't videogames or anime.

if you have all that, you should be good. just raise your exposure to the outside world and hone your social skills.

[silvermoon84]

Depends on the girl. The last guy I dated had Homer Simpson’s body type. The guy before him did not.

[silvermoon84]

@Chthou95 I can’t (won’t) answer that question because I don’t speak for other women, only myself. Every woman is different and has different preferences.

[silvermoon84]

@Chthou95 I’m not being politically correct lol. I never answer for anyone other than myself and my preference differs, but since you insist yes, some women prefer fit guys. You’re right, there’s nothing wrong with that but women are also more likely to overlook that if the guy brings other value to the table (personality, charisma, etc). A fit body and good looks don’t mean anything to me if he has the personality of a doorknob.

[Chthou95]

You are being politically correct. Most women prefer men who are in shape. Are there outliers? sure but the generality is all that matters here. And yeah but you're also not going to date a man you don't find attractive first regardless of how well his personality is. This isn't shaming. It's reality

[silvermoon84]

@Chthou95 I’m not being politically correct if I’m talking about my own preferences, and don’t think you’re the first guy who’s tried arguing with me on that. I’ve gotten it in other posts as well. Attractive is subjective, and what I find attractive differs from other women. Also thank you for telling me who I’m not going to date. I was starting to question that, but thankfully I had some random guy on GAG to educate me on that. Thanks again. Deuces ✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻

[Sonorous]

Think of a 6 pack like a bonus positive feature. But not one that will be a deciding factor for selection, generally speaking.

[ChillNsweet32]

Nope, a 6'2 250 gym guy constantly sent me videos & pics of himself flexing and in the gym often and it was a turn off for me after awhile

[PeachyPie93]

Yes you do if you are looking to date the shallow, high maintenance, had a train ran through her type of girls that you see on tinder. You actually will probably need more than just abs lol.

[luvstoned4him]

Gonna be honest

Maybe that, a car and a lot of money to spend.. for the materialistic women

[Ironco]

A real man will always see through your bullshit, good luck

[luvstoned4him]

@Ironco hello am not saying I practice that behaviour so please dont mix me. I am saying based on my observation and talking to many women , thats what they themselves pursue a man for.

[Asker]

Don't forget to add gold guns!

[Ironco]

I'm assuming that was a "Deadpool" reference?

[Asker]

nope, you need gold guns and lots of money where im at. yep and thanks

[Levin]

Well clearly not.

Most people with girlfriends do not have 6 pack abs.

I have 6 pack ab's and don't have a girlfriend...

[OfMiceandMen]

Sure do!

[blueonblack22]

I’ve had visible abs for most of my adult life. While nice it’s like reason 28 of 50 for a (viable) woman to date a man.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Focus on shallowness? Receive shallowness. Causal link intensifies.

[beefcakebradybatson]

No. Plenty of schlubs and skinny chaps have a hot broad.

[MemeSupreme]

yep

that's why every boyfriend on the planet has one

[RingOfFire]

🤣🤣🤣

[ephemeralife]

Not at all! I think a man who can look after himself, loves life and is confident are way attractive and desirable qualities.

[Anonymous]

Just work out normal. And get fit body.
Money talk more no days….
Your good looks will fade with time, but your money not.

[MizzArtFreak89]

No. A woman should like you for who you are. Plus not every woman likes six pack.

[art84]

My brother is a big guy like 250 pounds and was able to get girls without any problems.

[Chthou95]

Will it increase your chances of attracting women and finding a potential girlfriend? You'd be a fool to say no

[Surferboi_02]

Nas. you just need to be good looking and have game.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Nope. You need a sweet personality like a big teddy bear.

[samantha_17777]

Just have ideal body weight according to BMI , i prefer leaner and fit physique.

[Kingofkings1992]

Questions like this make me want to leave GAG

[Asker]

Stop dating, stop asking for friends with benefits, and one night stands, stopping being friends with women and live your life 😎

[Anonymous]

Sure dude. Because EVERY guy who's regularly banging a girl has six-pack abs! *eyeroll*

[whereismyjohnny]

Nope.

[Pohjolan]

Mordred abs are acceptable too.

[Fightersoul95]

All you need is a full wallet

[Gdude9]

No not at all