Why are girls always sick?

[Anonymous]

Why are girls' health never seem to be at 100%? Seems like something is always happening to them.

[Mwolf]

If you REALLY want to know you can message me. You may regret it though. Long story short for most in general probably due to stuff only females have: menstruation and female anatomy. All I know is I am never 100% due to dealing with: vaginismus, vulvodynia, dysmenorrhea, migraines, and IBS-M and often accompanied by nausea, vomiting, heartburn, and either having the runs or the opposite💩🚽.😂 Guys can't and don't get vaginismus, vulvodynia, dysmenorrhea and are less likely to have IBS (they can still have it, but women are x2 times more likely to have it than men.)

[Asker]

Is there anything else I need to know?

[Mwolf]

Just the nitty gritty details. Some may prefer to stick to the basics which is why i wrote if you REALLY want to know all the full specific in depth details, feel free to message me. Others might be appalled by the details if I were to leave them in the comments.😆

[Asker]

Appal the G@Gers for me please 🙏

[Mwolf]

WDYM?

[Asker]

"Others might be appalled by the details if I were to leave them in the comments."

[Mwolf]

Vaginismus: ½ time it's painful to insert a tampon and I have to retry (takes way longer than normal) sharp🔪/burning🔥 feeling. Often have random spasms not due to penetration and those take several minutes to completely vanish before even a Q-tip would fit. Constant unintentional muscle tension.

Vulvodynia: daily soreness. Burning🔥, stinging🐝, and frequent feeling of a 🔪jabbed up there.

Dysmenorrhea: bad cramps, heavy🩸, irregular🩸,🩸lasts more than a week or next cycle starts 2 weeks later, all other symptoms heightened.⬇️(Both GI and non-GI symptoms are daily. Every day has some abdominal pain and other symptoms. On a 1-10 scale, 7/10 (&+) ½ half the week. 1 week a month (♀️🗓️ ) is always for sure worse.) GI Daily:

Pelvic/Abdominal IBS-M Pain: sharp like a🔪, twisted like juicing a🍋, gutted like a hungry fisherman🐟, throbbing like a🔨, achy, dull, crampy, burning🔥, (pelvic pain) constant unintentional muscle tension.
IBS-M: unpredictable/random/sudden🚽, worse after eating, in morning, and when moving, alternative 💩 types (diarrhea or constipation), mucus or🩸💩, sometimes unpredictable enough that it changes within and throughout the same day, irregular amount of🚽, excessive gas, bloating, sometimes pain is a tad better after using the 🚽 then slowly creeps back, stomach gurgling/indigestion.

[Mwolf]

At least half the week I have the whole list⬆️&⬇️:

Non-GI Daily: nausea🤢, vomiting🤮, migraine, light sensitivity, shortness of breath, sweats and chills🥵/🥶, dizziness, fatigue, insomnia, lower back aches, low energy, (once or twice a month blacking out), heartburn❤️🔥, shaking/trembling, weight loss, loss of appetite.

I'm small, so losing even 4 pounds is significant for me at 4' 11". Due to vomiting🤮, I have lost 15 lbs. in 6 months. At just under 5 feet tall for my BMI, that's a lot especially unintentionally.

[Asker]

And I thought my life sucks because I woke up with a cold this morning. This sounds so overwhelming, I couldn't comprehend it all if you hadn't added emojis lol.

How do you find motivation to keep going on with all of this?

[Mwolf]

My motto is "life is a bitch and shit happens", "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger", "suck it up buttercup." Only my boyfriend knows because he heard me at work in the bathroom puking.🤣 Surround yourself with nontoxic people and avoid those who are dishonest, narcissistic, and any of your pet peeves, sarcasm helps some. That's only the ½ of it.😆 I just bury it and try to focus on something else, usually resulting in me putting a 🎭 on at work acting fine pasted on smile. No one knows as I am good at hiding it/don't let it show and I have a high pain tolerance. I'm not one to be dependent, having cry sessions, take sick or PTO days, seek/need physical or emotional support (like I said no one knows cause i don't let it show. If someone asks me if I have those symptoms/conditions, I won't lie/deny it.), Between that (physically) & mentally+life stuff it does a number on me. Hoping insurance will cover costs, otherwise I'm flying solo.🤞🏻

[Mwolf]

I'm am an open book on most things, but some hit close to home. Those won't be on a public comment, but if you want to hear/know the other half of mental+life stuff, feel free to DM for details.

[Mwolf]

May not be officially physically/medically sick but feeling crappy, yes. Every week or every other week at least for me due to female anatomy and conditions only females assigned at birth can/will experience (along with: migraines, nausea, vomiting, heartburn, & IBS-M). During🩸week time other non♀️ symptoms are like Spidey senses tingling, a. k. a. heightened greatly.

[NathanDavis]

well... I'm no girl, but I've been sick all week, lol

[Sonorous]

Because they're human/mortal¿

[Anonymous]

Maybe they are avoiding men like you.

[Asker]

They're all one step ahead of you

[Surferboi_02]

You don't want to know

[Asker]

Oh yes I do