Why do women need the husbands consent to a hystorectomy?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[Gwendoline]

She doesn't but if she's deciding for non medical reasons or at a young age when they've no kids yet or could have more she should consult him. No different if my husband decided he is going to have a vasectomy, he should talk to me first.

[Agape93]

That's a myth they tell us. You don't need anyone's permission but your own to get one, don't let people lie to you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i responded to someone elses comment on here with a link, check it out

[Agape93]

Nope

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes i did?

[Agape93]

I'm saying nope in regards to reading it. I'm not here to debate you, I'm not here to discuss shit countries. I'm speaking for my country and every country I've been in and lived in. Yes that includes Sweden where you live.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay then dont? well i care for other women than myself. ur country isn't the center of attention.

[Agape93]

Again I'm not here to argue with you. So when you ask why something is and people give you legitimate answers, then you can either accept it and move the fuck on or you disagree and move on. But don't sit there and ask questions and immediately argue with everyone who answers.

[Anonymous]

Because a marriage is a partnership and her decision directly impacts him. I don't believe a woman has a right to mutilate herself out of so called convenience

[chocolatetwopointo]

why not? its her body? and how does that impact him?

[Opinion Owner]

That's a shallow view. It's about family formation which is one of the most important thing anyone can do. Tearing out a woman's womb without medical necessity is anti-life and anti-nature.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well not for everyone, and if they’re married im pretty sure they’ve got it sorted out if they want kids or not. who cares if its anti-life and anti nature? basically everything humans have created are anti-nature, not everyone wants 10 kids like women were forced to have 200 years ago.

[Opinion Owner]

The average woman wasn't having 10 kids and large families were a necessity in farming cultures before industrial technology. There's a different between simple convenience and overriding the biological order. Have you ever noticed everyone is miserable?

[chocolatetwopointo]

sarcasm. what makes u think everyone is miserable? and what makes u think kids will make people less miserable? if anything it’ll get worse.

[Opinion Owner]

Because having children fulfills a fundamental biological imperative. It's generally a good thing and destroying your body is a bad thing.

[chocolatetwopointo]

as i said, not for everyone. honey id destroy my body more from having kids than getting a hystorectomy. thats why i won't have any kids.

[Opinion Owner]

Having kids "destroying" women's bodies is something that doesn't happen that often. A lot of it is meant to scare women away from a process that is safe with modern medicine.

[chocolatetwopointo]

it is tho. a woman gets stretch marks, scars and will probably never look the same as she did before. that sounds like a nightmare, i think ill skip. women die from giving birth tho.

[Opinion Owner]

Everyone has their body age and change and maternal mortality is at an all time low. And what about when you're old or what about your country's future?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what ab when im old and what ab my countrys future?

[Opinion Owner]

Who will take care of you and who will take care of your country?

[chocolatetwopointo]

first of, i probably won't live long enough to be taken care of. secondly, i can js pay somebody. and even if i had a kid id be an awful mom so they wouldn't wanna take care of me lmao. did u know kids rarely even help their parents out bc they have a life of their own?
and who the fuck cares ab my country? the world won't end js bc one person doesn't have kids, dramatic much. there's 10 million people in my country, im sure most of them want to have kids that can take care of the country. we’ve fucked up this planet enough, we should go extinct.

[Opinion Owner]

If that's your opinion then why should anyone take you seriously on anything?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? so js bc im not having kids i shouldn't be taken seriously? make it make sense

[PaleDale]

Jeez, do they really? In the US or elsewhere? That's like a husband needing his wife's consent to get a vasectomy

[PaleDale]

Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

HER BODY , HIS CHOICE ! aaaaaah

[chocolatetwopointo]

such a troll💀

[Opinion Owner]

Such a crybaby

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok troll

[Opinion Owner]

Assault it is?

[chocolatetwopointo]

troll

[Opinion Owner]

Do you have anything else to say? Are you really 17 or a 45 year old unmarried cat lady coping on a little site aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaj

[Anonymous]

Where does it say that?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i responded to another comment with a link, check that out

[QuestionObsession]

Because the alternative is most likely a divorce.

[chocolatetwopointo]

if he divorces her for that they should’ve already gotten a divorce

[QuestionObsession]

Already when? Before getting married?

[chocolatetwopointo]

before she decided to get a hystorectomy.

[QuestionObsession]

Then that means your question is invalid

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no shit. but only if he would divorce her over it.

[QuestionObsession]

He would divorce her if they never agrees to it before getting married and suddenly she decides it after.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i said before getting a hystorectomy tho. i think u missunderstood

[QuestionObsession]

I understood right. But you misunderstood me

[chocolatetwopointo]

what did i not understand

[QuestionObsession]

Whatever I said

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u dont even know? got it.

[QuestionObsession]

I know. That is why I replied

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[QuestionObsession]

Read the whole thread again

[chocolatetwopointo]

i have. ur making shit so confusing bro

[QuestionObsession]

For the last time then. If the wife decides to get her uterus removed suddenly one day after getting married, when all along there was no discussion about being child-free or whatever, then the guy is right to divorce her, if he wants a child and she does not. Get it?

[chocolatetwopointo]

if you’ve gotten married without talking about kids ur js downright stupid. thats rarely the case tho. who gets married without talking ab kids r u dumb?

[QuestionObsession]

You are the one asking dumb questions here and spreading hatred against men. Something is very wrong with your head

[chocolatetwopointo]

gosh men r emotional

[QuestionObsession]

Also, if the wife gets her damn hysterectomy done without consulting her husband, if something goes wrong, the husband should not be forced to take care of a selfish wife like that. That is why she must seek her partner's consent. Or else she can go live with her parents if something goes wrong with the surgery.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is that selfish? if they agreed not to have kids how is it selfish?

[QuestionObsession]

It is selfish because she wants to get a surgery that her husband may not be comfortable with because if something goes wrong, the poor husband would have to deal with it which is not fair on him. If he does say Yes, then it is all good whatever happens.

[chocolatetwopointo]

if he can't take care of her when something happens to her he shouldn't be married. what if she got cancer?

[QuestionObsession]

Cancer is not something you decide to get, like getting a surgery to take the uterus out. That is like saying, a guy shouldn't be married if he does not approve of his wife deciding to one day to suddenly get her whole body tattooed. Are you that stupid or do you hate men that much?

[chocolatetwopointo]

onfg. ”in sickness and in health” is something you promise when u get married. if he’ll leave her for having a hystorectomy then what if she had cancer? would he stay or not?

[QuestionObsession]

Deciding to get a hysterectomy is not a sickness scenario! It is like wanting to get breat implants. Totally not a necessary health choice.

[QuestionObsession]

breast*

[chocolatetwopointo]

ITS AN IF. god men r retarded.

[QuestionObsession]

You just hate men, admit it for what it is.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah that too.

[QuestionObsession]

You are a misandrist 👌🏻👍🏻🙂

[chocolatetwopointo]

proudly

[chocolatetwopointo]

the same way you’re a misogynist

[QuestionObsession]

I am not, never have been. I am just allergic to bitches.

[chocolatetwopointo]

calling a 16 yr old a bitch, real mature of u

[QuestionObsession]

I didn't call any 16 yr old a bitch. Read again. I just said I am not a misogynist and I am allergic to bitches, in general.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u js did.

[QuestionObsession]

Stop hating men and go do your homework.

[chocolatetwopointo]

stop being a misogynistic retard.

[QuestionObsession]

You are the retarded 16yr old with hatred for men despite never having been with one

[chocolatetwopointo]

riight

[GuybrushFunkwadd]

Because nature requires it that way

[chocolatetwopointo]

how?

[BobbyLee789]

Do they need it? Where?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah I've heard of iy

[BobbyLee789]

Fuck that sucks. Iran?

[chocolatetwopointo]

racist?

[BobbyLee789]

Yeah, that's bs

[alice55]

They don't?

[chocolatetwopointo]

I've heard of it

[alice55]

In Japan yes but not in Europe

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? Europe isn't the center of attention is it?

[alice55]

Is it and aren't your Swedish anyway xD
Just give the list of countries cause I doubt in traditional Middle East or South Asia they'er even gonna propose a hysterectomy it most likely does not even exist

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes? whats ur point? how is Europe in the center of attention?
list of countries that? u gotta specify🤷‍♀️ and being racist isn't helping u.

[alice55]

Cause we're the best, also I'm French so I know about French laws the most then Europe I don't care for the others.

That's rich coming from you saying in Sweden it's immigrant raping women and not Swedish men when you tried to defend the fact that feminism helped women while it did not...

List of countries that need the husband permission cause except Japan I don't know any and like I said religious and traditional countries aren't even gonna propose this option to women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no we’re not. oh i know. bc u always say in every. single. comment. ”in france” like 5 times in ur whole comment, like touch grass bitch. who the fuck cares ab the french laws? when did i bring up french laws?
when did i say its immigrant raping women and not swedish men? r u delusional? do u seriously not know that feminism is why im not in a kitchen rn, pregnant with my third kid i have with a 30 yr old man? god u really are dumb.
kk sure ill be back in a sec.

[chocolatetwopointo]

here u go!
Brazil, Chile, Ecuador, Guatemala, Honduras, Japan, Niger, Taiwan, Rwanda and Turkey. and by the way I've heard doctors still ask ab a womans husband in the us and probably also in france..

www.ogmagazine.org.au/.../

[alice55]

Brazil, Chile, Ecuador, Guatemala, Honduras, they're all religious Catholic countries so no surprising if they ask for husband opinion on the matter as in Catholic religion it's the man that decide what happen to his wife, his wife body belong to him.
So they're just following their religion.

Niger, Taiwan, Rwanda and Turkey. are also traditional countries not very religious (except for Niger and Rwanda) but just traditional

And Japan it's most likely becuase there's not enough birth already so they're not gonna encourage women to not have children they do the reverse.

[chocolatetwopointo]

is it really a moral religion if a woman doesn't have rights to her own body?
doesn't matter, women should have full rights to their own bodies.