What do you find most attractive: Physical Strength or Physical Flexibility/Mental Strength or Mental Flexibility and why?

[thegreenyogi]

[HawkPerception]

If I absolutely had to pick only one, I think I'd choose mental flexibility. I associate flexibility with femininity, both physically and mentally, even if it's a good trait for both men and women. As someone with strong opinions that don't really conform to society, I think I'd be most attracted to someone who is open to my opinions and has the ability to change their minds when presented with a solid argument. Not someone who is unable to see and challenges my opinion at every turn.

That being said, all of the above are attractive qualities. It's very attractive when a girl has physical strength and is able to use her body well. I personally want a girl who can physically keep up with me in life. Physical flexibility is very attractive, especially sexually, if ya know what I mean 😏 Mental strength is attractive because you don't really want someone to be negative about themselves 24/7. Don't get me wrong... we all have moments where we get into a slump, myself included. I'm not the strongest dude mentally, but the more mental strength you have, the better. And it's very attractive when someone has a strong sense of self and knows what they want in life.

[OneViewpoint]

Why not all of it? Physical strength can be handy. Physical flexibility is useful too. Although I'm about as flexible as a brick. Mental toughness is good. But mental flexibility, problem solving, is not without value as well.

Physical strength and mental toughness will often get you through adversity.

Physical and mental flexibility offer an alternative to simply being the rock that survives battering by everything in life.

[7Phoenix7]

Oh I’d probably say mental flexibility… Physical strength and flexibility are definitely attractive but being able to adapt, see different perspectives, admit when you’re wrong, and grow as a person is way more impressive to me.

[Nikki1989]

Mental Strength, Intelligence.

[msc545]

Mental acuity and mental flexibility are two of the most attractive traits since they allow the person to engage with others in an interesting fashion and to learn things about themselves in the world that are important. It's a lot harder to achieve these qualities than it is to achieve a few muscles

[Zack-Bann]

A strong mind and a flexible body can handle most of the troubles in the world.


As for a strong body, I already have one of those so I don’t need to attract to it

[NathanDavis]

flexibility requires both... so, that's a bit more impressive to me

[exitseven]

Brute strength and sheer brilliance wins every time.

[sage2021]

Both

[bear34]

A mixture would be better.

[AgentG111]

I believe they go hand in hand with people.

[Cidknee]

Physical flexibility & Mental strength.

[Cidknee]

Oh, why? Shit, I don’t know i guess Physical flexibility is sexy. A strong mind is sexy too.

[Anonymous]

Mental Strength

[wkhan_87]

Both...