Is it shallow, to ask a guy to work out to compensate for his height?

[kaitlovesyou]

Well what's your opinion? I don't know random question and asking for a friend ahaha

Yes it is

No it's not

[Tamikaze]

I don't know that this is shallow but it certainly is inappropriate.

1. You would have to tell that person they need to compensate for their height. Ouch.

2. He doesn't need to do anything. If he would like to be more fit or muscular, well that is an option but I don't see any really polite way of bringing it up.

3. If you are not physically attracted to someone and are trying to come up with ideas on how they would be more appealing, time to move on. This is just not a good match.

It's okay to want what you want. If a certain person just does not do it for you, you shouldn't be trying to date them. I know, especially when we are young, we feel like we can actually give hints to someone as to how they could change to get us going, but it really isn't nice. Don't do it.

[MrOracle]

Yes, it's shallow.

Just like if he told you to lose weight to compensate for small boobs or something (which I'm not suggesting you have; it's just an example.)

If you can't accept someone the way they are, you have no business being with them. Most people don't change that much, and when they do, it's because they themselves wanted to. it's almost never because someone else wanted them to.

[ricke92m3]

I guess its kind of shallow, you do see a lot of short guys at the gym by the way. I'm one of the tallest guys and I'm about 6 foot one lol. A lot of short or old guys feel the need to compensate, but a lot of short guys end up looking funny if they don't know what they are doing and end up looking bulky.

[Konnour]

Actually many guys do.

Here those pals who got the biggest muscles are either with an ass-ugly face or very short.. or both.

As what else could they do to possess any chance with the ladies?

Height is genetic.

Face is genetic.

But big muscles is something that is possible to get for everyone.. through blood, sweat and a lot of time and effort.. but possible to improve unlike the last two traits.

And about your question. Is it shallow? That's very misused word.

In my opinion shallow means if the woman wants only a very rich guy even if he looks like sh*t, the President or a business owner for example.

But every sane person wants a good-looking mate.

Not just guys. Girls aswell. That's normal.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Virtually all girls like some muscles. If a guy doesn't have much in the way of the height department, he might at least consider working out to try and make himself more attractive to the girls out there if he hasn't had any luck so far. Also, compensating with a really good personality can help, I've seen some short guys that were really good with the ladies and they were almost always really funny dudes.

[GymStatus]

Assuming she is a genetic 9th wonder of the world her self she could but I bet your friend like not that so I think that it is shallow... One day your friend will encounter a guy who will tell her to do something to compensate for her shallowness... Prepare to offer your shoulder to cry one when that day happens lol

[PoeticNinja]

Haha

[GymStatus]

I had to say it PoeticNinja lol. Even a hot woman will some day meet her match.

[PoeticNinja]

When pigs fly..

[GymStatus]

I know some that got dumped/divorced lol.

[cyrus7]

No, it's good to tell him so he knows which way to run :P

[c7777]

b.a

[sixstring]

Yes it is. Height has nothing to do whatsoever with his physical capabilities or the ability to protect someone.

[kheserthorpe]

I voted no. I wouldn't tell him that's why, but I think telling someone 'XYZ' would make me more attracted to you, if its going to make the difference, why not.

[c7777]

and your just a perfect girl eh? Victoria secret model?

[kaitlovesyou]

IM ASKIMG FOR A FRIEND cill out

[TedStar]

What is the importance of height, that a short man would need to compensate to be his ëqual?

[Caustic_Fox]

Yes. Even if he got crazy big he'd still be short and that's the main problem

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Yep.