My girlfriend treats me like a child?

[Anonymous]

Before you start laughing my girlfriend treats me more like her child than her boyfriend. I work I own business I went to college for my masters. I work pay the bills she don't have do anything. Yet she acts like a disgusted mother towards a no account son. Like she's ashamed putting me down to friends and in public. Slaps me in the back head in front of people. Telling me I am stupid no good for anything. I have asked her to leave but she threatens to tell the cops I'm abusive to her have me locked up; She has done it. Then dropped the charges. To prove to me that she can in case. " I got any funny ideas". I have tried to be prove what she doing to me. The people I tell call me a p-ussy and man up. It's so hard with the corner she has me in, it makes me want to kill myself!

What do I do?

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+1 y

I own this place. When she had me locked up. when they released I had to stay awayfor 3 days even though it was my house.

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+1 y

I am on the deed. if y'all can give me an answer. To this I'll get rid of her ass tonight

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+1 y

OK I have called a lock smith. I don't know why I ain't thought of that. He'll be here in about 30 mins.

[Anonymous]

you poor thing, I would honestly leave her and change the locks...if she calls the cops, let her... just explain to them that you have just broken up with her and she's very bitter...make sure you start to document things that she does eg when she hits you , puts you down etc... the cops are interested in facts and evidence...even if it does go to court, you have all the documentation to give to your lawyer and she won't stand a chance... good luck

[Opinion Owner]

After you change the locks, you need to contact her to grab her stuff... if she carries on etc, call the cops straight away so they can escort her in your house to grab them and then they will make sure she leaves...

[Asker]

the locksmith is bringing them with him he said he has to in cases like this she is at her zumba class. The sheriff is gonna contact her when they get here.

[Opinion Owner]

beautiful :)

[Asker]

you calling me beautiful :)...lol I know I'm just excited to be getting rid of her

[rudy37lee]

Good advice. I have a guy friend going through something like this too. She sounds spoiled rotten and you deserve so much more than that. No appreciation, puts you down in front of others, manipulative, blackmailing, physical and mental abuse? SO GLAD you're getting her toxicity out of your life. Good luck and hope we get a positive update from you.

[Asker]

Y'all will be getting a play by play all night as it happens

[Asker]

Thank all you guys for your support. It's finally all over with, she did try to get me locked up. She is gone finally. It was sad they drug her out of here. She was so pathetic I was laughing the whole time and so bad the cops had to ask me to stop. Then ask me why I was laughing My buddy Darren told them they understood. I loved it. See Darren is a Stanly Sheriff, He was the one that didn't believe me before. He was the one that came with the lock smith. She didn't know he was here at first.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm glad you finally got rid of her :)

[rudy37lee]

Yay! I bet that was some sweet justice for you, watching her ass get hauled out!

[Asker]

Yes it was, I loved it. She came back mess my truck up about 3 oclock this morning flatten my tires, bust the windows out and lights out. so much damage my insurance guy told me it was totalled. I got to watch her go to jail then. No one will get out.

[Opinion Owner]

wow that's really one crazy slut you had on your hands...i hope you reported the damages to the police and had her arrested

[Asker]

oh she is my neighbor was the one caught her and called the cops. My called me after the cops and walked over me him and his 2 sons walked out there. she try to run dofus got her trapped against the fence. Dofus is saint benard that's about 300 lbs and 4'8" on all fours. she was drunk

[Anonymous]

Get away from her and quick. It sounds like you are in a very unhealthy relationship. If she gets out of control, just call the police and have them escort her out with her things. Then you can get a restraining order so she can't come back and start trouble.

[Asker]

i have that when she had me locked up

[rudy37lee]

Ouch I feel bad for your poor truck! At least they caught her. Isn't karma a sweet sweet thing?

[kheserthorpe]

Do you live together? Rent or own? Who is on the lease?

[kheserthorpe]

You're not married, and you own the house.

Change the locks. Tell her its over.

[kheserthorpe]

If you really think she'll freak out, call the police and tell them she's lobbed fake threats before, you're kicking her out, and maybe they want someone there so they can vouch nothing happens and not have to deal with a false investigation later.

[Asker]

Yes man that's what I am doing