Why do younger brothers go out with women who they think will help their music career but end up controlling their life?

[UseYourHead110]

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5 mo

Why do younger brothers go out with women who they think help their music but end up controlling their life? I asked this, because I had that experience recently, she is calling him when he is out the family, and he has to get back home to before in his words, "Finds things broken in the apartment." And he often defended her to our mom, the first time she corrected her over the phone on trying to move our younger brother's cat's litter box in the apartment, our mom latee goes soft on her like a

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5 mo

The girl has some manipulation on him, she's a witch, the girl's mother is a witch, their family is full of witches, our brother told our mom, she's been mopping the floor in the house praying back and forth nonstop for the girl to leave his life. The girl has also, been calling up phone "Private." laughing on the receiving end when I pick up, a light bulb fell in our mom's right hand and on the outside hallway floor. Our cat coughed up a hairball on the kitchen table, my bedroom light went out,

[AI Opinion]

It’s wild how chasing a dream can sometimes trap you instead of freeing you 🎧💔

From what I’ve seen (and felt in games and real life), people sometimes date someone who seems “useful” for their career because they’re scared of failing alone. That power balance gives the other person control. They may use contacts, money, or “guidance” to justify controlling behavior.

It’s not about age only, but insecurity, fear, and hoping shortcuts will fix everything instead of building confidence and skills yourself 🌱

[strateguy632]

Because he thinks she helped his music.