Is it normal or common as you’re aging, you want more privacy?

[bobalife]

I feel like this past year, I’m slowly starting to feel my age in my 30s era like I’ve never before other than my career focus that have always been there lol. Usually I love being on my social media and I’ve always been posting my life away like it’s natural since my 20s on Snapchat or Instagram. Oddly lately, I am starting to question what or who am I really doing that for? Is it for all the likes and validation? Technically I don’t really need it and it was just fun. But I am actually starting to feel like I should be keeping my life more private and not everyone deserves/needs a glimpse of it. I just want to bit more peace and quiet more than I’ve had before lol. It’s getting weird, is this what being in my 30s era really like 🤔😂 am I finally getting into the stereotype of “boring” lmao.

[Screenwriter]

It's not boring to be judicious about what information you put out there about yourself. Some vacation photos are one thing. But everything about your personal life? Do virtual strangers need to know it? And remember, once in the cloud, as far as we know, it's FOREVER there? And people offering future jobs can access foolish postings. (We were so wasted in Aspen!) Postings that might make you look careless or foolish and not a worker someone would hire... or a partner someone would choose.

Makes sense you're thinking through that privacy also means safety!

[browsingthroughthe]

No if anything it's the same if not I'm more outgoing 🤳🏻🤳🏻🤳🏻🤳🏻 📱

[bobalife]

You became more outgoing? Lol. Maybe aging is the opposite effect.. 🤔😂 I don't know I still enjoy being active, exploring, or night life if I want. But I just mean I don’t feel like showing that off anymore and I don’t need it as bad as before if I didn’t choose to.

[browsingthroughthe]

@bobalife well i enjoy my selfies and my Activities with friends 🫣😈 lol the "public" aka "socials" don't have to see or know. I just love and live my life. Most days are normal, sometimes I'll go out to town and have a blast an ordinary blast 🥳🎉 🛍️🛒

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thats growth the things that you think are important in your early 20's mean nothing in your late 30's.

[bobalife]

I wasn’t sure if I’m growing in maturity or becoming boring 😂 what are some growth you develop in ur late 30s? I low key is thinking my mid 30s and turning 36 soon is finally hitting me I’m at my 30s afterall.

[bobalife]

Even when I’m talking to people in their 20s or 30s irl, they often think I’m still in my 20s bc my looks and personality. But maybe this might change soon with my new perception and changes I want.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well you do look young but that's a good thing right? Just so you know your definitely not boring your a fascinating young lady your just maturing and that to is a good thing. I'm very proud of you

[bobalife]

Thank you! 🥹🫶🏻

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your so welcome !!!😉

[browsingthroughthe]

Well said original answer 😄

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, I guess you tend to prioritize emotional meaning, selective relationships, and personal boundaries more as time goes on.

[OneViewpoint]

You're maturing and evolving. It's normal. Change scares the crap out of a lot of people but change is inevitable. Learn to embrace change.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Boring! 😂

I think it's okay to want peace

[browsingthroughthe]

Peace is good 💯😊

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Maybe the illusion is breaking away what you knew as entertaining and normal is changing like what's the use of it.

So yeah it may be perceived as boring or it could be just awakening.

[AngryCarl3]

At 35 you should definitely know what you want to do, and who you want to do it with.

[bobalife]

Lol absolutely, but my question is about the natural evolvement of wanting more privacy in our age development.

[TonyMetal___1986]

So no showing your boobs anymore on your profile photos? 🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

I always have places to get away to if I want, and knowing that is really all I need.

[Thecuriousmind1]

At some point, peace and privacy start feeling way better than likes and validation. Not boring just evolving.

[browsingthroughthe]

Indeed - life and learning as much as "been there done that" 👍🏻✅

[Thecuriousmind1]

@browsingthroughthe definitely. You start caring less about drama as well if someone says 2+2=5 you say ok and walk away

[robocop666]

Normal I think. we change as we get older.

[bobalife]

I noticed we’re close in age. What are some things that you’ve changed since your early 30s and mid 30s?

[robocop666]

less going out and more relaxed

[bobalife]

I’m slowly getting there… 👀 oh noes lol.

[Paige2006]

I've always wanted a lot

[browsingthroughthe]

Lol I hear that - can't believe I'm 32.
29 or 24 felt no so long ago 😀😉

[jahaims]

I've always wanted privacy.