Would you dump if your SO didn't get you gifts on Christmas?

[Anonymous]

[moondazed]

Questions for you…Has be taken care of you, as far as being a proper partner and treated you the way you want to be treated? Has he made sure that you have the things you need to be successful in life and supported you in the things that you want to do in life? Would you describe him as a “good” boyfriend in general?

IF yes, then I would be grateful to have found a partner that takes care of you in the ways that are important….

The whole “gifts” for Christmas is just a money making machine designed to increase the profits of large corporations and NOT really a great way to show that you love someone… Don’t buy in to the whole “have to give gifts for Christmas”

Be grateful that you have someone to share the holidays with…

That being said, just have him agree to make it up to you when he has the financial means to do so.

NOOWW,

If on the other hand he is a complete jerk and doesn’t treat you properly (such as an equal and taking care of your needs), then you have the right to be mad… NOT just about the Christmas gift, be pissed about all of the things he isn’t doing right by you with. Take a serious look at your relationship and see if it is even worth fighting for… Might need to cut the “dead weight” for the New Years ;)

[moondazed]

Thank you for MHO

[Agape93]

Nope, my love is not predicated on gifts, especially not on a holiday I don't even celebrate.

[Truth0225]

It would depend on the circumstances. Did she get everyone a gift but me? Did she have the funds to? Is she going through a rough time in her life?

[Anonymous]

No, I don't think gift giving is a good thing.

[JosyJosy]

No. I don't even like most surprises.