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I might if we were on good friendly terms... Hey wait a minute! Your boyfriend has a friendly ex... That's kinda awkward... While in a relationship with someone else... I'd at least wait until they are married so they are in a picture with another guy. Otherwise it's just super arkward, if it's her again, I'm not liking her paris 😠15
My ex and I "dated" in 9th grade. We're both now married and living on opposite ends of the country. I guess I'd put it up if, for some reason, my ex (who I haven't spoken to since 2008) sent me a Christmas card lol21
I have already done just this, simply because we parted years ago on the very best of terms and have remained friends ever since.
In fact we both attended each others weddings.27
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Would depend. If it had pics of grandkids, probably.11
Not if I was currently in a relationship with someone new! That is an explosion waiting to happen!11
No fucking way! At least not from the exes I have. If it were a good person I broke up with, then maybe I could do it, I guess, but sounds like a really sad thing to look at, doesn't it? It's either someone who hurt you, or someone who was great but left for some reason. Either way, it's going to be a sad thing11
I would only hang the card up if it mentions my woman too. And how would an ex even get my mailing address? That can't happen without the ex contacting me -- my exes are all from many years ago when I lived elsewhere. They know how to find me online. Point is that them mailing a card to me tells my SO that I've been talking to them. Ha ha. That's going to spark a 2 day FBI investigation if I never mentioned it before.11
In my case yes (i should say was my case) when me and the ex split the scene. She would send cards for the kids.
Just because they are your ex. That dont mean that they are the kids ex.
Why punish the kids, they are just got caught in the middle11
Would you really consider it a good idea, Paris? What would your current SO or any potential others interested in you think about it, Paris? No, not unless you're hoping to get back together with your ex, Paris!11
NOPE. Not when I'm single and definitely not when I'm in a relationship like I am now.
An ex is an ex. Someone in the past. That includes anything they give. If my ex happened to send me a card, I'd throw it away11
No, I would only read it and depending on how the relationship ended and if we were both single, I would send another one to thank him.22
You'd find it burnt, in the bins, RIP... (lol).22
I burned them when we broke up.
It was very satisfying.11
Depends on the ex. Last one? Hell no. I’ll be moving or he’d be dead.12
If the inside of trash cans have nails, that's what I'd hang it on.12
That’s a tough one. I might if she was just a friend and I didn’t have feelings for her.12
It would go straight in the bin. Though would wonder how she got my address11
It depends which ex it was. I am still good friends with a few and others we hate each other lol11
It would depend on how we parted ways. The last ex I would the one before that I would burn it.23
Would be really inappropriate if you're in a relationship lol.11
I would never get one, so it's not even something that I'd ever have to consider. 😂13
Well I don’t hang them. But I do keep them and yes I did get one from her and kept it. I guess eventually I will have to recycle them.12
I wouldn’t hang it up just show the family then put it in the drawer12
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Depends if I am with someone else at the time
Depends how we broke up.
Like, if we broke up on good terms then yeah, I would accept a card and display it, but if the reason for us breaking up was because we hated each other, then I obviously would not.
If I was dating someone new then I wouldn't want them to feel like I still had feelings for my ex so I wouldn't accept it unless they were cool with it.
A example may be if the Friend and Yourself and next Friend were together. Both the friends like you but only one makes the move, you start dating and later on in life they realise that it just isn't right, they feel no anger to you but just say that it doesn't click, so you become Ex's in a friendly way and in the future you get together with the other friend who loves you dearly and you click perfectly, since the three of you were always friends, your partner is okay with still talking to the ex.
Very Mature for Sure. xx