How effective are physical imperfections in relationships?

[themolecular]

First of all, I wish everyone a healthy, peaceful and happy new year. As seen in the question title, I have congenital physical defects. I have squint eyes and scoliosis on my body. I will turn 21 with this new year. I've never had a girlfriend before. I think it is due to physical defects. How effective are physical imperfections in relationships? What can I do?

[Anonymous]

Vibrating saddle. I was babysitting her kids while she went out for the first time with her husband after giving birth, I was being noisey looking through her room and some of her things when I saw it hidden in a plan brown box. I decided to pull it out and take a look for no reason other than I was bored. It had dildo attachments but I just turned it on without it and straddled it, felt really good and I came on it quickly and hard just sitting on it still wearing my leggings and thong which were completely soacked around the crotch. I had to put a bedroom dressing gown on and put my clothes in the wash and checked on the kids. I knew my sister wouldn't be back until late so while I waited for my clothes to wash I had a few goes on this sex toy this time with the dildo attachments and omg. I sent my boyfriend a random snapchat of it because he had just got off work and told him how good it was and a week later despite the expense he bought me the same one and made me use it while watched and then had me suck him off while I climaxed for the 5th time as he was cumming too.

[SnowedIn]

What does this have to do with the asker's question?

[jorfan3]

@SnowedIn XDXDXD

[jorfan3]

First of all, I think the word you're looking for is "significant", not effective.

Secondly, consider your defect a gift. Having a physical deformity will chase away shallow people, and leave you with more genuine, wholesome people to pursue. Work with what you've got, and I'm confident your personality will attract the person you're meant to be with <3.

[SnowedIn]

I'm not sure the word you want is "effective". Effective means "successful in producing a desired or intended result". I don't think you're asking whether physical imperfection produce good relationships. You may want to consider an update.

The answer to your question, though, is maybe. But I doubt it. I think if you can carry on a conversation and you're thoughtful and nice, people will respond to that. Squint eyes and scoliosis aren't something I think that's going to get you instantly rejected.

You ask what can you do? Go out. Enjoy people's company. Talk. Be interesting. Engage with other humans and you're going to find one you click with.

[Summeroflove]

Nobody is perfect. People who think men or women they’re going to find someone perfect. Not gonna happen

[In_Trance]

I think you answer your own question