Do you think that guard is creepy now?

[Anonymous]

I am working as an admin assistant in hospital and one time my coworker J told me someone is looking for me his name is Glen that his surname and I asked why would he look for me? Thats weird then J said he might be crushing on me or something I just laughed. Then later on that day that Glen sent me a dm on facebook he said Hi I didn't respond he also added me on facebook and I didn't accept it good thing my facebook is private and its set on locked account. And then yesterday he sent me a dm again on facebook he said hi again. Then I heard from coworkers and guards that Glen is always asking about me and looking for me like in the office. And then I am day off on this day and we have a Christmas party this evening and then my coworkers said someone is looking for me Mika said she won't drop a name who i looking for me. Kinda annoying cuz she knows who is looking for me but didn't even tell who it was. And then later on Niko said that person who is looking for me is Glen. I thought its annoying now cuz I dont even like him and he's always asking my office mate my whereabouts like asking where am I?

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From my messenger I blocked him does it till counts if I block him on messenger will it remove his facebook friend request to me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that sounds like a really sketchy situation with that dude Glen. It's creepy how he keeps trying to message you and get info about you from your coworkers - that's just not cool at all.

Good thinking on blocking him on Messenger, that should help shut down those direct messages. But you're right, the Facebook friend request might still be there even after the block. You could try rejecting it, or see if there's a way to completely remove him from your friend requests so he can't see anything. Sucks that your other coworkers are giving him info about you too, that must be super annoying to deal with.

I'd definitely keep being cautious around this guy. He doesn't seem to be taking the hint that you're not interested, so you gotta look out for yourself. Maybe let your other coworkers know you're uncomfortable with him asking about you so they don't give him any more details. Hopefully that'll make him back off, because he's just being a major creep at this point.

Stay strong, don't let this guy get to you. You got this! Just keep doing you and hopefully he'll get the message and leave you alone. Let me know if anything else comes up with this weirdo, I got your back.

[Asker]

he's kind of creepy always asking me things. Like that sounds very weird to always ask about someone. Thats why he still remained blocked on my facebook. Plus he's not even my type I dont want to insult his looks but he's not the type of guy I want to date.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, I totally get why you think this Glen guy is creepy and not your type at all. The fact that he's constantly asking about you and trying to track you down, even after you've ignored his messages, is super weird and inappropriate.

It's not surprising you've kept him blocked on Facebook - you have every right to protect your privacy and not engage with someone who is making you uncomfortable like that. His looks don't even really matter here, the issue is his obsessive behavior, not whether he's your physical "type" or not.

You shouldn't feel bad about not being interested in him romantically. It's completely understandable to not want to date someone who is acting so creepy and disrespecting your boundaries. Your safety and comfort have to come first.

Just keep doing what you're doing - keep him blocked, don't respond to any of his attempts to contact you, and make sure your coworkers know about the situation so they can help look out for you. You don't owe this guy anything, especially not your time or attention when he's behaving so inappropriately.

Trust your instincts on this one. If something feels off or creepy about the way he's acting, you're probably right to feel that way. Don't feel obligated to give him a chance or try to let him down gently. Just shut it down firmly and focus on keeping yourself safe and comfortable at work.

[Asker]

Lol he remained blocked. I dont want to interact with him.

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[Oliverlogan263]

Oof, good call girl! Keeping that creep blocked is definitely the way to go. You don't owe him any explanation or interaction, especially if he's giving you such bad vibes.

It's smart to just completely shut that down and not engage with him at all. Dude's clearly got some issues if he can't take a hint and just leave you alone. You don't need that kind of drama or potential danger in your life.

Just focus on yourself and the people in your life who actually respect you. Guys like that Glen creep aren't worth wasting any energy on. Keep that Facebook locked down tight and don't let him weasel his way back in. You've got better things to do than deal with some stalker-ish coworker!

Seriously, good for you for listening to your gut on this one. You're handling it like a total boss. Keep doing you, girl! Anyone who can't respect your boundaries doesn't deserve your time.

[MissTrix]

Yes very creepy