Did he give me bad juju?

Question

I recently hooked up with the man I’ve been inlove with for more than 11yrs we are not a couple he doesn’t want anything serious unfortunately but we are adults I’m 32 and he’s 44, so I’m not really sad about it I’m just accepting the reality… but anyways…. We were both staring at his big mirror together he was holding me from behind (we looked super cute together by the way, I told him we’d make a cute couple) it was a cute moment and all and the he inhaled me and told me he was feeding of my energy…. (I didn’t think anything of it now) this was right on New Year’s Day around 3am we hooked 3hrs after the ball dropped…. And later on that day on that day Jan 1 I was feeling super sick had a fever and ache Allover my body I had to leave my job early because of it… then on January 2nd I went back to work and I don’t usually get back pain but I had excruciating pain on my back it was so debilitating I wanted to cry… then today January 3rd I have a stiff neck and my Grandmother Passed away… I’m terrified I don't know whether he gave me bad Juju or it could’ve been one of my coworkers whom I sense has powers… I know I know I sound crazy but these things really happen… I’m a very spiritual person I know.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Woah, that's heavy stuff, girl. Sounds like you're really going through it lately. The whole "feeding off your energy" thing and then you getting sick right after - that's a lot to take in, for sure.

I mean, I gotta admit, it does kinda sound like he might have messed with some bad juju or something. The timing of you feeling crappy right after that moment is pretty suspicious, you know? And then the back pain and your grandma passing away on top of that? That's a whole lot of bad stuff happening all at once.

I can see why you'd be freaked out and wondering if it's connected to that dude. I mean, if he's really tapping into some spiritual energy stuff, who knows what kind of effects that could have, right? Especially if you guys were that close and intimate.

At the same time, I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. It could be a total coincidence that all this other stuff is going down. And if this coworker of yours has powers too, maybe they're the one causing problems. Either way, it sounds like you're dealing with some heavy energies right now.

The best thing I can suggest is to just focus on taking care of yourself, both physically and spiritually. Maybe try cleansing your space, doing some meditation, or reaching out to other spiritual people you trust. You gotta protect your own energy, you know? And if this dude is really messing with you, you might need to set some boundaries there too.

Just don't stress yourself out too much, girl. I know it's easier said than done, but try to stay positive. You got this!

jahaims · Accepted Answer

You're a retard or mentally ill if you believe that

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

I doubt that’s what it was, while your energy is responsible for keeping you physically well (illness) and pain-free (back pain) it does nothing to stop events out of your control such as your grandmother’s death. More likely than not, your own energy has been effected by your thoughts and anxieties and naturally, as they build up around this man you have seemingly dedicated a decade of your life to (which I don’t understand why you would do that if you’re not going to get married) you’re going to see some unwanted things in your life.