I have been talking to this guy for almost 3 months now. We have gone out twice. I asked him to hang out again and he said he couldn’t because he had finals, then he had Christmas, and vacation. Before he left he said sorry we haven’t hung out recently and that when he got back he wanted to face time and hang out more. He has been back for almost a week now. I asked him if he thinks we would go out this weekend and he said he’s busy which feels like a blow off especially since it has been 4 weeks since the last time we went out.
Another small detail is that he is 2 years younger than me. And that I asked him to a dance about a month ago and now the dance is 2 weeks away and he hasn’t mentioned it or asked what the plans are.
What do you think is going on and what do you think I should do?
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I think you should move on and find yourself a guy that makes you his priority , and not a convenience. You are just wasting your time thinking this boy actually wants to be with you. When a guy really likes a girl he makes her his priority, he calls her on a steady basis , he looks forward to seeing her as soon as possible , he doesn’t go days without contacting her. A guy that doesn’t really care about a girl , does what he is doing to you
lol, thanks I agree like if he wanted to he would and other guys would make time for me ven if it was just for 5 minutes. Good point I mean we do text all day. so what should I do? Should I
Ask him where he sees this going or should I just drop him as a date and take someone else? The thing is I really like him.
So he texts you all day but doesn’t want to see you as much as possible? So he only likes you as a friend but nothing more , unfortunately he doesn’t like you the way you like him. So that’s up to you if you want to keep wasting your time with him , but don’t get your hopes up because he clearly doesn’t want just you , he is probably keeping his options opened. So don’t get your hopes up with him whatsoever. Is this the same guy you are having sex with?
No we haven’t had sex all we’ve done is kissed. Good to know
Yea it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants to be honest , so you are best to back off of him for a bit and see if he comes on to you , don’t initiate anything and see if he does.
stop wasting your time... that's what you could do
Why can't he at least schedule a date with you... in his busy schedule...