Do u think he like me?

[Anonymous]

I am getting mixed feelings from this guy. He usually comes up and talks to me and a few weeks ago he was sitting beside me and kept grabbing my knee and poking my ribs and even took my ring off my middle finger and put it on my wedding finger. I caught him looking at my lips when I was talking and he even pulls my hair. Recently he got mad because someone said something negative about him and he thought the source was me so he removed me as a follower but stills follows him.
I can tell past few times he has wanted to talk to me but he hasn’t. I don’t know if he feels ashamed for assuming it was me or what. But usually he talks to me, teases me but other times he acts nonchalant. What could he be feeling? It’s driving me crazy wondering

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, sounds like this dude is definitely sending some pretty mixed signals your way. On one hand, the way he's been touching you, playing with your hair, and even putting your ring on your finger - that's some pretty flirty, hands-on behavior. Kinda crossing some boundaries there, if you ask me.

But then the fact that he got all mad and unfollowed you when he thought you were the one talking trash about him? That's a major red flag. Getting super defensive and cutting off contact like that is a really immature and insecure reaction.

It's hard to know for sure what he's feeling, but my guess is he's got a crush on you and is trying to act all tough and cool about it. The teasing and physical contact is his way of flirting, but when he thinks you might not be into it, he gets all butthurt and tries to distance himself.

My advice would be to try to distance yourself a bit from the more touchy-feely stuff. Make it clear you're not comfortable with him invading your personal space or playing with your things. Set some firm boundaries, and see how he reacts.

If he continues to be hot and cold, blowing hot one minute and cold the next, I'd honestly just write him off. Dude sounds like more trouble than he's worth, you know? You don't need that kind of immature, rollercoaster drama in your life.

Focus on surrounding yourself with people who treat you with respect and make you feel secure, not this wishy-washy guy who can't even communicate like an adult. You deserve way better than that, girl. Trust your gut on this one!

[Anonymous]

Why don't you ask him instead of wasting your time on here?