Traditional the women of this generation have gotten too big for their boots. They play games and mess with mens hearts because of equality and all that. Back then though I disagree with the treatment not the inequality of women at least they were respectful and nice and well what a woman should be to me anyway. Today social media phones all that rubbish and i'm not 40 here. Finding love for me is going to be the hardest thing ever in the traditional past it was like give a rose ask her out for dinner. Today do that and apparently i'm a creep who doesn't know her well enough to date her and i'm not man enough. And this isn't a one time thing dare I say it's the same for 20+ women.
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its up to her and I'd gladly take either, if she works then thats more money for us to be stable and have some to spend on fum things, the only issue with 2 workers is we would have different hours and planning time together might be a bit of trouble and I care about spending time with her more than the money so it all depends on how it works out
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I think I'd like her working at least part time or just putting something on the table.. but I definitely think I could enjoy this dynamic. Feminists say it's wrong but people, in general, were much happier in marriage back then and divorce rates were much lower. There's something to be said about that.
I'd rather have a sexy, submissive, traditional woman who cooks than a whiny, "independent" and stuck up modern woman.
I want some of this:
img.alicdn.com/.../T1HUaAXixgXXcFNkZ__080251.jpgWorking if she really wants to is fine, I mean I guess its more money. I've had to bare the brunt of work related stress before though & don't necessarily want her working if she doesn't have to. It makes things easier maintaining a household, & you don't have to worry about hiring a nanny to be with the children during very important developmental stages of their rearing. Modern doesn't necessarily mean good, & tradition is sometimes unyielding/arbitrary but is also not inherently bad.
Well I would like a girl who is traditional in the sense that she has a low number of sexual partners, hasn't sent nudes, hasn't had ONS/FWBs, and doesn't dress in trashy clothes.
However, I don't really care about having kids, so I would prefer someone who works. I don't care how much she makes, I just want her to contribute.
And with modern technology, I dont see maintaining the household as being that much of a challenge, especially if we don't have kids.You can be a traditional and modern woman. Women still do the majority of housework but men still do the majority of outside chores, DIY, home and car maintaince. Not to mention they take on more overtime and work more overtime than working mothers. Marraige is a team effort.
I'd vote B but I don't have a 7-figure salary with a few million saved-up, so, here in the modern world, I need that second income for us to survive together.
if i was a lazy fucker then it would be wrong to say i wanted a girl with traditional values but as a grafter working 12hr shifts i would like to know my home life is taken care of
If I someday can find a job in a traditional country with a traditional culture then I will and would rather date a traditional girl. Until then I am stuck with these substandard females if I want to date.
Deff Traditional. Men don't want 'a strong powerful woman' We want petite, dumb chill women. ... I mean why would I want a strong woman that makes me feel less of a man and intimidates me, know what I mean? haha.
I want to work with her as complimentary individuals who cover for each other. if I can make more money but she enjoys time with the kids then why should anyone question that. if she makes more and I like the kids time then who can question that.
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