What are you looking for in a girl?

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What are you looking for in a girl when you want to be in a relationship? How do you choose the girl to be with, then the other girls? What is important to you when you choose the right girl when you start to looking for?

dizmuhjam · Accepted Answer

Trust is the main word in my expectations of what I want in a woman:

1. She definetly has to be confident. Not only does it show me that she is proud of who she is, not only is confidence one of the sexiest features a woman can have, its also much simpler to interact with a woman that TRUSTS IN HERSELF (be it simply talking, or going out on a date and doing something)

2. She has to be open for new ideas. If she has solutions that work perfectly fine her way, thats great and I want her to be able to think of her own solutions (smart is sexy). But as much as there isn't only 1 logic system in our universe, that is a correct logic system, there isn't only 1 solution for a problem. TRUSTING IN ME when I also have a solution and being open to trying it out, is as important as her trusting in herself.

BiggerNotBetter · Accepted Answer

I have to admit I married someone who is not really right for me, but I am bound to her, so this is what I have. In general, I believe it is best to look for someone who can help you where you need help, and whom you can help, as well. I would have preferred someone who is extremely bright, interested in everything (as I am), but someone who is adept socially (which I am not). I got half of that, which actually isn't bad. Smart, polite, even tempered, capable, and just attractive enough to get me aroused (that doesn't take much, of course), that's what I would look for.

AyushMate · Answer

Every guy/girl choose a guy/girl on the basis of his/her : Looks, Nature, Smartness, Attitude and lastly Status.
For me, her nature is important first. She should be good and friendly in nature. And I will also say that she should treat, respect and love my parents as her parents.
2nd thing should be looks. I'll not say anything like looks doesn't matter bcoz in real life we get attracted to beautiful ones. I don't expect a girl like Cinderella but she should be fairly looking.
3rd is her smartness. I'll like a girl who has some ambition in life. Who wants to be something. Who wants to work for the betterment of society. I don't expect her to be of high iq level.
Any girl who would have these 3 qualities in proportion will be good for me.

KamilP · Answer

A complex answer would be required but if I was to put it blunt I'd say (not in order):
- Outdoorsy (because I am)
- Good looking (I don't mean make up)
- Down to earth but with a positive personality
- Fit (I mean just somone who looks after them selves, healthy food, cooks etc)
- Natural (I hate girls with a ton of makeup or the over girly ones, just a preference anyway)
- Intelligent (I don't mean genius but somone I can have any conversation with)
- Loyal
- Doesn't put money first
- Open personality (I don't like girls playing 'games', a bit hard to explain, but somone who doesn't present to be somone else.
- Caring (just because I have a protective but cold personality, I usually get along with caring/protective people)
- loves animals!

ohshee · Answer

She has to be confident and no matter what she's doing through her words and her actions shows are beauty on the inside rather than on the out side she must be passionate sexy seductive, be able to laugh about anything be able to take a joke and fire back must have compassion loyalty and a big heart

clampfan101 · Answer

All the most important aspects are on the inside. The biggest are good Christian faith,(which includes kindness and whatnot), similar interests like video games and anime, and intelligence. My only major physical want is natural red hair. lol (also being virgin would be very nice, being one myself.) I’m also debating if I want a white or Japanese girl as I’ve dreamed to work for Nintendo in Japan.

VaneCompass · Answer

Around my height and age, one who's active but also likes to stay in. Can cook, is tidy but not compulsive, works has a car, can be self sufficient but likes to be dotted upon. Good sense of humor , passionate , and is okay with her and I having our guys/girls night's

QuickGoPro · Answer

No. 1 - if we can make each other laugh
No. 2 - do we have a couple of interests in common
No. 3 - how attracted am I to her.

I have always found tgat my relationships have come out of people I would have been good friends with anyway

Alvin75 · Answer

Okay the first has to be her character and personality but she has to be averagely beautiful. Race is not a fact but she has to be beautiful. She has to care when I needed the most. Has to be intelligent as well and has to manage houshold matters after marriage as well as her job. Has to be funny and a positive thinker. Have to have positive thinking and views about life and relationship. That would be ok I guess

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Honesty, openess, trust, sense of humour, personality. Pretty basic things. Can take a while to get a reading on people sometimes, even then you may never really know someone

Joker22 · Answer

Loves me truly, pure hearted... that's it... looks, average or below is ok as long as she has the previous two traits

jeremythedrummer · Answer

If she looks ok, then ill observe her personality. Someone fun to be around, Understanding, supportive, loyal, and who isn't afraid to give her own opinion.

redreddyred · Answer

Ass, legs, hips, face. Hold a conversation, laughs at my dumb jokes, and is loyal. Although almost all women are not- so here’s hoping

Anonymous · Answer

The person I'm chasing at the moment is intelligent, witty, fun and caring. (Also pretty attractive, at least by my standards). I love conversing with her, and we share a number of interests.

HornetsFanAllDay · Answer

trust, kindness, friendlyness, respect, being independant, being yourself, doesn't play "games", can have a laugh, and is a totally amazing awesome cool person

Anonymous · Answer

I am looking for tradastional minded woman who is not addicted to the internet, computers or social media. I want a woman who goes out side to be social.

Gream_69 · Answer

I found my lady, 35 years ago and we are still together.

scruby · Answer

Let's start with the basic, you need to be attracted to them, if she is your type her smile is she taking care of herself...

Neight · Answer

not really (but still a bit) looking on looks definitively needs to like laughing and huging,  better if smart

Malik00 · Answer

So many thing would make a woman more approachable for me... but end of the day all i want is a woman who will stand by me, rather then run off and save her own skin if things dont go her way.

dafbloke84 · Answer

Good looks! That means tall stature, slender bony bodies (any meat in them is an instant turn off), fair skin and blue eyes! Otherwise, women can piss off as they're not valuable to me!

jacquesvol · Answer

Intelligence, culture, knowledge in her domain, kindness.

Djaay · Answer

Personality and character muliplyed with wisdom and kindness , If that's not prevalent, she's then not revelent.

Dalesmith · Answer

Cute face, pretty hair, slim body then her personality Should be a nice girl obviously not some bitch 😂

anmol883 · Answer

For me it's nature n how understanding she is but sometimes I prefer girls who are not so beautiful but have a good dressing sense

Anonymous · Answer

Personality mostly to me. Then how they act towards others. Then if they smoke or drink or do drugs etc and if so then no for me. Then I go to looks such as eyes or hair which are most attractive to me than any other part of the girls body

Jrob10897 · Answer

Im looking for someone who will understand and support me and is my friend not just the bird im sleeping with

Keravonos · Answer

Well I want a girl who's intresting and nice, someone very strong willed and open both emotionally and sexually. I beilieve all things like this culminate in a good healthy relationship.

Samultoe · Answer

I like being with some one who is honest and will talk things out. I also really enjoy a good sense of humor and I must be attracted to them physically.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm looking for a girl who shares my same interests, that is all.

jsnm7 · Answer

the one who's patient enough or should we say mature and smart. Also, a conversationalist.

Anonymous · Answer

As much as personality matters I’d have to say that her appearance and body type matter a lot whole lot more to me

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