Trust is the main word in my expectations of what I want in a woman:
1. She definetly has to be confident. Not only does it show me that she is proud of who she is, not only is confidence one of the sexiest features a woman can have, its also much simpler to interact with a woman that TRUSTS IN HERSELF (be it simply talking, or going out on a date and doing something)
2. She has to be open for new ideas. If she has solutions that work perfectly fine her way, thats great and I want her to be able to think of her own solutions (smart is sexy). But as much as there isn't only 1 logic system in our universe, that is a correct logic system, there isn't only 1 solution for a problem. TRUSTING IN ME when I also have a solution and being open to trying it out, is as important as her trusting in herself.
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I have to admit I married someone who is not really right for me, but I am bound to her, so this is what I have. In general, I believe it is best to look for someone who can help you where you need help, and whom you can help, as well. I would have preferred someone who is extremely bright, interested in everything (as I am), but someone who is adept socially (which I am not). I got half of that, which actually isn't bad. Smart, polite, even tempered, capable, and just attractive enough to get me aroused (that doesn't take much, of course), that's what I would look for.
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Every guy/girl choose a guy/girl on the basis of his/her : Looks, Nature, Smartness, Attitude and lastly Status.
For me, her nature is important first. She should be good and friendly in nature. And I will also say that she should treat, respect and love my parents as her parents.
2nd thing should be looks. I'll not say anything like looks doesn't matter bcoz in real life we get attracted to beautiful ones. I don't expect a girl like Cinderella but she should be fairly looking.
3rd is her smartness. I'll like a girl who has some ambition in life. Who wants to be something. Who wants to work for the betterment of society. I don't expect her to be of high iq level.
Any girl who would have these 3 qualities in proportion will be good for me.A complex answer would be required but if I was to put it blunt I'd say (not in order):
- Outdoorsy (because I am)
- Good looking (I don't mean make up)
- Down to earth but with a positive personality
- Fit (I mean just somone who looks after them selves, healthy food, cooks etc)
- Natural (I hate girls with a ton of makeup or the over girly ones, just a preference anyway)
- Intelligent (I don't mean genius but somone I can have any conversation with)
- Loyal
- Doesn't put money first
- Open personality (I don't like girls playing 'games', a bit hard to explain, but somone who doesn't present to be somone else.
- Caring (just because I have a protective but cold personality, I usually get along with caring/protective people)
- loves animals!She has to be confident and no matter what she's doing through her words and her actions shows are beauty on the inside rather than on the out side she must be passionate sexy seductive, be able to laugh about anything be able to take a joke and fire back must have compassion loyalty and a big heart
All the most important aspects are on the inside. The biggest are good Christian faith,(which includes kindness and whatnot), similar interests like video games and anime, and intelligence. My only major physical want is natural red hair. lol (also being virgin would be very nice, being one myself.) I’m also debating if I want a white or Japanese girl as I’ve dreamed to work for Nintendo in Japan.
Around my height and age, one who's active but also likes to stay in. Can cook, is tidy but not compulsive, works has a car, can be self sufficient but likes to be dotted upon. Good sense of humor , passionate , and is okay with her and I having our guys/girls night's
No. 1 - if we can make each other laugh
No. 2 - do we have a couple of interests in common
No. 3 - how attracted am I to her.
I have always found tgat my relationships have come out of people I would have been good friends with anywayOkay the first has to be her character and personality but she has to be averagely beautiful. Race is not a fact but she has to be beautiful. She has to care when I needed the most. Has to be intelligent as well and has to manage houshold matters after marriage as well as her job. Has to be funny and a positive thinker. Have to have positive thinking and views about life and relationship. That would be ok I guess
Honesty, openess, trust, sense of humour, personality. Pretty basic things. Can take a while to get a reading on people sometimes, even then you may never really know someone
Loves me truly, pure hearted... that's it... looks, average or below is ok as long as she has the previous two traits
If she looks ok, then ill observe her personality. Someone fun to be around, Understanding, supportive, loyal, and who isn't afraid to give her own opinion.
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