Happy wife, Happy life... lets break that down
Happy wife does not mean that she is happy only because her husband is being her slave, or doing everything she wants.
She is happy because:
1. She has enough sleep
2. She has enough empathy given to her (from counselor or friends or other family members)
3. She has her psychological/mental, emotional and physical health taken cared of by her making time for it... reading good self help books, exercising or taking long walks, exploring and stimulating her life with happiness from traveling, hobbies, sports and religion
Happy life: what does this mean? Ok so the wife is happy because she does 1, 2 and 3. She has a happy life and she is happy because she made herself happy.
Her kids sleep on time, because she scheduled them, so then she sleeps on time. Meaning, happy kids, happy wife, happy life.
Her husband and her have no marriage problems because she reads all the books on how to have a good marriage, and she empathizes with him, encourages him and supports him by taking care of everything including all the finances. She does EVERYTHING, so he doesn't have to worry about anything. She is happy she is in control of everything, and knows everything is going well. he is happy because he doesn't have to worry about anything since he trust his wife and can go and do his job/career and then hobbies without care.
All you other people who thinks weird shit... well that's the shit you feed yourself.
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Depends how you interpret the term. It could be interpreted loosely as having a happy marriage means having a happy life, like the successful marriage is the reflection of, or the result of, your own happiness. It could also be interpreted as the opposite, meaning that if you keep your wife happy, you too will be happy. Either because bringing happiness to others is satisfactory, or because your wife won't make your life a living hell if she's unhappy lol.
Anyway, the first interpretation (being happy will reflect well on your marriage) I think is true. Usually when people are unhappy or depressed, it starts affecting their relationships at some point as well. In terms of the second interpretation (keeping your wife happy will make you happy in return) I think is true to an extent, most good people do find it enjoyable to keep others happy. But this could also become harmful, if you sacrifice too much for your wife and she isn't willing to do the same back. It's a two-way street, she should also do what she can to keep you happy. For the third interpretation (an unhappy wife will make your life a living hell) I think is kinda true, but not in all situations.
Bottom line is, being happy together with your wife is going to make your life happy overall. But your happiness shouldn't be dependent on another person, nor should you sacrifice your own happiness to keep them happy.
Very true
If the wife isn’t happy, that means the environment is negative, and I am not saying the husband is bad or whatever.
If the wife is unhappy, it means she won’t be able to give the affection to others, she will not have good control over her anger or most likely can’t communicate her feelings properly,
If that’s the case, then other family members, including the husband would become or are the same way.
If they are unwilling to get to know each other, it all equals to unhappy life
If you make the right woman happy, she will make you happy.
I have friends coworkers and acquaintances try to feed me, the Happy Wife, Happy Life crap a lot. Especially when they are doing things they hate and are making themselves unhappy, so the wife is happy.
I was in a marriage for 12 years, where my wife was happy while I was far from happy with the state of our relationship and marriage.
We all have to sometimes do thing we don't want to or like, to please a partner. But when you are doing that everyday, to keep someone happy there is something wrong.
I deal with a woman on a regular bases, that is always going on about how great her marriage and lifestyle is. How her husband does all these things to make her happy, she is clueless as to how miserable her husband is and how he hates the lifestyle they live and the people in her social circle.
unfortunately to many women are like this wife, as long as they are happy. They do not see or care, about if their husband is also happy. Ask any married man what things make his lady happy, and most will be able to tell you a few things that make her happy. Ask most wives what makes her husband happy, and most will tell you things that make her happy that the husband does to please her.
In my culture (which I hardly agree) guys are just there to protect and provide girls
Like whats the point of a man if cannot make his wife happy at first place? I've seen it... lived it and gonna follow the rule based on the community that I live in and it is 100% true
First: bad or bitchy wives make your life hell
Second: a guy's redemption is when his wife is happy in my daily culture... so basically people who grow up in communities like this they just wanna make a simple family and live a simple small passionate life in happiness... thats why a happy wife = a happy life
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These four words have to converted into four books, but people nowday do not have time to read it rather read magazine "bad wife. Bad life", because it is easy to lie but difficule to say the truth.
To certain degree, if you have a happy surrounding then your life should be less stressful.
Now I do try to make my main lady happy as possible but I’m realistic, if she starts trying to talk down to me or something to make her feel better or because she didn’t get what she wants then I will happily escort her to the doorfucks fucks fucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks fucksfucks
Sorry i dropped all the fucks i had to giveWell, if my wife isn't happy then what the hell am I god for?
No. Everyone must be happy for a relationship to work. It takes 2 people to make it work, but only one to mess it up. Each person has basic needs for happiness, and that's why compatibility is so important in certain areas. A relationship that is one way only is doomed to fail.
It implies that the husband has to be the woman’s slave to be happy. So I don’t think it’s true.
It is true. But according to me the meaning is a bit deeper...
Here's a thought... After marriage the wife is the one who leaves behind the house and goes and lives with the guy and his family (atleast in India)...
Also in most cases the wife is a home maker... Which makes four walls a place to live happily...
No matter how hard men try a women can only handle a family properly...
So if she is happy then obviously the family and life is happy...I live a quite happy life, and actually it's quite simple.
Happiness is doing what you really want to do. And paradoxically that solves many problems.
It makes you be more coherent, and do more purposely. So you end doing better than anyone else.There is a grain of truth in it but the way it is phrased is problematic and unfortunately it plays into today's epidemic of Female Entitlement Syndrome (FES).
The real truth is that neither spouse in a marriage will be happy if both do not do their part to make the other happy.Not necessarily. If she is a bitch keeping her happy could make the husband miserable.
That would also mean the unhappy wife spreads her unhappiness all over to others ruining everything just cause she isn't happy
Yup. Sounds Right sounds like a womenIn my experience yes. My first wife was an angry person, and I could never do anything to suit her. My current wife is thrilled to be with me and I am amazed that I have the love of such a wonderful woman.
No, not all the time. Your wife could be happy but you might not be and at other times it could be that her happiness brings you happiness but in all the term isn't really realistic.
No, happy wife means unhappy husband. Happy husband means happy wife.
Its why dominate women in relationships are miserable, they need and want the man to be a man.I'm not married, but I've seen many marriages gone bad (also luckily plenty that are still good) where the wife was not happy and made the man's life living hell. So there seems to be truth in the saying, although it a very sad one IMHO.
I can't stop laughing cause I wanted to write one word
Equality 😁
should rather be mutual happiness, right?Yes. Because she can make my life miserable if she is not happy.
I hear it all the time at work from married guys so there's some truth to it.
No, stay single. Lol relationships are suppose to be about comrpomise. A man should never allow himself to be walked on or taken advantage of just to please his wife. Fuck no, thats is miserable as hell. Both should be happy.
Oh of course it's true. If the wife is not happy no one is happy... Same goes for the girlfriend too, women make sure if they are not happy neither is anyone else especially SO!!!
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