Not for me. Trashy, insecure and slutty. They could as well as walk around carrying a billboard telling that she's had (lots of) dicks and I wouldn't care.
I prefer to look like a woman who has self-respect and knows the value of shame. I gotta look beautiful and pure. I'm my man's and ain't no other guy or even girl needs to know what I hide.
okay, fair enough. But men are no pure, innocent angels either. If a man wants a virgin, then he should keep it in his pants too. only fair, and no double standards shit. I know that since I am a virgin, I don't want some sleazeball who's juggled one whore per week in college.
I really don't care what women wear on their wedding day. There's always going to be someone who loves what they are wearing and those who don't. For me, personally - it's not my style. I would have to wear something more classy and elegant that reflects my personality and not my sexuality.
I think when a woman is being marries she ought to be giving up all sexual relations with men other than her husband. I don't think more sexually appealing wedding dresses communicate a desire to be faithful to one's partner. I may be wrong but that's what I think.
Well, the reason why women are rarely virgins on their wedding dates these days is because women get married much later than they used to. The average age to lose your virginity is increasing here in the United States of America though.
I don't mind it at all though. I would love to have a bride like this!
I am against the low cut dresses only because I actually prefer the older more traditional dresses worn on the wedding day. Though I don't really care if the woman is a virgin or not as long as the love is real. Personally I am probably going to be a virgin until I get married because I want the right person to make it memorable.
I'm all for people being sexually experienced before marriage, to me it makes sense to know what you want and make sure you and your partner are compatible in every aspect. I don't judge those who want to stay virgins until marriage, but I do understand the shift. As for the dresses becoming sexier, I don't care. It's their day. They can wear whatever they want. Get married in a bikini for all I care. Not affecting my life.
It's just a reflection of modern day values. Women now, more than ever, value more aspects of themselves, including their self-confidence and sexiness. The whole point of a long sleeved, poofy white wedding dress as it originated was the presentation of a pure, woman more or less as a gift. Nowadays, it's more about making sure the bride feels beautiful ad confidant, and that she is completely honouring her image of herself. I say hell yeah, ladies!
Looks trashy honest. Who are you trying to be sexy for? the guests? I don't know not my life so they do whatever try want. I'd not like it f my wife dressed like a hoe on our wedding day
A dress is a dress. You could be covered up to your damn neck and have slept with 100 guys, not including your husband to be. Every bride is gonna say yes to a dress. The choice of dress shouldn't matter. Would I wear that particular dress? No. But I'm not gonna judge the next girl for wearing it.
judge, you're all preaching about being such good humans who wouldn't dare judge. Yet i see the complete opposite daily, so-called "friends" bashing other women for daring to look sexier, prettier, and hotter than them.
@DianaWest bro, you flip out on anyone that has a different opinion than you. You don't know me. Idc what you see everyday. Take your insecure ass somewhere else with that.
@DianaWest who said I was perfect? No one is, but I do go around talking shit about people and things that aren't my business. I've been on the tail end of people's judgment, trash talking and bullying for most of my damn life. Like I said, you don't know me. You're talking crap about what everyone else is saying, but commenting about being a prim and proper virgin like that makes you above someone else. Go somewhere.
why are you getting so ass hurt about my opinion, all I said was that EVERYONE judges, not just you specifically, and it is funny when people pretend to be these great human beings who don't judge others. I'm sure you've eyed plenty of women, but guess what, I don't really care. I wasn't talking shit, I was just stating what science and sexual evolution has. We are all judgmental beings, and to pretend otherwise means you're full of shit. And where am I to go? Why are you on the internet if you get so ass hurt by everyone's opinions? As for the whole me flipping out at everyone who doesn't share my views, that is wrong. I only tell people the truth, no flipping out necessary. Unless they say bigoted racist or sexist shit, then I flip out. Yeah, I flipped out at the idiot who said all beautiful women are stupid, arrogant, and boring, I flipped out at the dumbass who said white people have no culture, and I flipped out at the man who called children parasites. My comment to you was not
me flipping out. Just my mere opinion. And don't worry about my ass, it is not insecure at all. in fact, it is nice and taut. And being a virgin does not make me think I am above others, but it does give me a slightly higher level of dignity, when compared to a lady who's spread her legs for 10 men in college. I was answering the asker's question in an honest way, you have an issue with that? Why should I sugar coat anything? No, in fact, judging from other people's comments, they seem to share similar views. You may have also missed the comment where I raised issue with double standards, and how if women are expected to be virgins until marriage, then so should men. Anyways, whatever. I don't care one way or the other what others do with their lives, but this question is asking for judgement, so don't expect one type of answer. Expect there to be people who disagree.
@DianaWest because you could've saved the comment for your own response. That's why. I don't get ass hurt by anyone's opinions, but I do get annoyed when people leave pointless responses to my opinions. But cool, keep telling your non-sugarcoated truth girl. As if what everyone said was a lie. Ok then. Good day.
Damn, look at the tits on barbie. All eyes will definitely be on her. And all the groomsmen will be sure she's adequately liquored up to make some bad decisions. Good thing its white because any other color wouldn't hide all the jizz stains that she's gonna get on it.
Against. Especially if done at the church. Wedding must be about true love not lust (that's how I personally see it at least) so no sexy dress. Plus I wonder what it would look like on family pics, what would she tell her children?
I think it's pointless and distasteful. Why would you want to be eyecandy for all the male guests? Your husband is gonna get to see you in all your glory that evening,
makes sense since we've moved more and more away from a taboo culture regarding our body's. there was a time when you would only see some neck and a head. even showing arms was taboo, let alone shoulders, cleavage, etc.
Okay, I have to say we are a society of extremes. In the 20s, if women showed their fucking ankles they were whores. Now, showing your ass is "normal." Honestly, i'd like there to be a nice fine line in the middle. Where is it? I don't want to wear a freaking muumuu on my wedding day, I want to feel beautiful, elegant and yes, sue me, even a bit sexy. But not to the point where you might see my nipples if I make one wrong move. I personally think that is disgusting. I think women nowadays have been so brainwashed by mass media, Madonna and all those celebrities who claim that their stringy lingerie is an "outfit," that brides feel like they need to dress as scantily as possible in order to stand out. Bullshit.
@DianaWest well if more modest dress makes you feel beautiful and elegant why shouldn't another girl feel that same way in a low cut dress? If she's confident in her body why shouldn't she wear something that shows that? And I'm not trying to sound like a creep who's saying this just to look at women in low cut dresses I'm saying it to ask why other women are being shamed for wearing something that they're comfortable wearing. Or anyone for that matter. The issue should be with the people talking shit and judging her for how she dresses rather than on the bride
@availableuponrequest oh don't give me that bull. A woman who shows her vagina and her nipples on her wedding day is nothing less than a whore. All that "confidence" talk is utter bullshit. What should I expect and think of someone who wears lingerie to a wedding ceremony happening in a Church? I don't really care one way or the other, of course I wouldn't call her a whore to her face or talk to others about it, but that is what I would be thinking. Don't get me wrong, I ain't a jealous fat bitch or anything. I could pull off something sexy too, but it is not in my character to be that "confident." And think, how would you feel if your bride to be, in front of your old man, mother, brother, grandmother, and young sister showed up wearing a dress with a corset that was see through, and a plunging neckline that would show her nipples if she made any sudden movements? Would you be okay with that? The only time she needs to feel THAT confident and beautiful is in the bedroom with herhusband
you aren't a whore because she show skin. you may be an exhibitionist, showing off too much but it doesn't say anything about a person's sexual promiscuity simply wearing certain clothes.
we aren't a society of extremes because in the 1920s showing your knees was one thing and now showing your ass is the same. it shows that society is progressing towards less taboo feelings regarding women showing their bodies. perhaps YOU feel there is a line of what is acceptable and what isn't and that's fine. you are entitled to your opinion but people should be able to wear what they want frankly. what you think is ok some may say is slutty or whorish so we can do this dance all day. the reality is people just need to worry about themselves and if they find some manner of revealing dress too much they should just look away
Okay, yeah, I agree with you on that. I don't care what others do with their lives, I could really care less. But people asked this question, and people are going to have contradictory views. Of course I won't think highly of a woman who wears fish net stockings and a miniskirt that shows her ass. Apparently neither does most of society, who requires "professional attire" for "formal occasions." But whatever, the only time when I will care is if my own daughter were to dress scantily. Then I would say something about it.
@DianaWest precisely. and you are right that most will frown on such dress (fish nets and mini skirt wedding dresses). i personally would feel it was tacky as well.
I agree with the comments you posted here from the NPR article. Times are changing, women are not innocent virgins, and many of them like to feel sexy all the time. It's not necessarily a good thing, as I believe we already put too much emphasis in sex. That's whole other topic, though.
time and a place for everything, im no prude but you need to think ahead, will you regret that look when you're older? I think a bride should look tasteful and restrained, not like she's on her way to a seedy nightclub.
You want my honest opinion, that picture or if a girl or a woman wore a dress like that for a wedding or some type of function, I would probably be holding my drinks heading back to the table, would continue checking her out, and accidentally hit my balls on the door knob.
But in all seriousness, a woman should conduct herself with grace on her wedding day, if you want to wear something sexy and be revealing, do it for your man, your husband, not for the public to see. I mean there are little kids who go to weddings and if they see that there going to assume it's okay to dress like that if not worse.
@Goodwifie i think at this point it won't. Hoes and thots will always be and there will always be some dog, who believes can transfer a slut into a faithful housewife. Those will have it coming at them. *coughmgtowcough*
Women are not innocent anymore so they no use in hiding it... Everyone girls be sucking dick at 15 and have fucked like 80 guys by the time they leave college. Ain't no man falling for the "innocent" trick these days...
Oh the generalization. Not all of us do that. I settled down at 19 and have only been with 5 guys, the 5th guy being the guy I settled down with at 19. I'm 28 now and in college.
Some of us actually go to college to learn, we don't buy $1000s of dollars to be a slut when you can be a slut for free.
@ciitruskiwi *most girls go to college and spend the weekend on their knees. Yeah they go for education but also for the partying, and on the weekend at a frat, 9/10 college girls will be getting fucked. I guess the super hot ones don't but the rest do. Most girls have over 50 partners by the time they leave college. You must be an exception. But I was referring to most not all...
@navyrobin Men were never expected to. Shows how far women have fallen. Sucking some guys dick you just met in the bathroom has replaced dating and marriage. The only ones losing is women..
So just because they were never expected to behave respectfully means that they can behave like dirty ass idiots? Lol. I completely disagree with you there bud.
So instead of focusing on another person’s choices I suggest you need to take a look at your own wrongdoings. It seems like you need serious self reflection
@navyrobin what are you talking about? I'm literally stating the facts about modern women. You're the one who can't accept that. So what if women are individuals? They can fuck 2000 guys at college, I don't care. However I find it funny how girls are always complaining that there are no good men yet they be taking a new dick every weekend. So if women choose to be treated like sex objects and used rather than date find love than that's their choice. I never said it wasn't. I just find it sad that that's what women are now reduced to.
I find it sadder that complainers are the only women you focus on. Not everything is our fault, and men love but ABSOLUTELY LOVE placing the blame on women for everything. Women love sex and we love dick. Get the fuck over it.
@navyrobin Og my god you still do not understand simple English. Yes I know that women like sex, women typically have more partners than men. Like I said multiple times, it's just sad that the modern woman prefers sucking some random dick in a bathroom than find love and date. Women are the only ones losing out really and if they want that then so be it. I never said they didn't but choosing to be used rather than love doesn't shine well on your gender.
Lol, I do understand it. But it doesn’t seem like you understand simple logic. If women like to feel good about fucking a random guy, I don’t see how that is “Women losing out”. It’s something those specific women enjoy. How are they losing out? 🤣🤣🤣
@navyrobin in general they are. If they enjoy being hoes I mean that's cool. If they enjoy being thought of as a sex object well they can be my guest. It still is sad. It's like a heroin addict. They would say that they enjoy what they do but it doesn't mean it's not sad. Is that hard to understand?
@logan27 lmao that is a terrible example. Heroin is terrible for you, it ruins your body, your health, your life, everything. It takes everything away from you. Casual sex doesn't do that. How are those two even comparable?
@logan27 You’re clearly still not understanding the idiocy and the double standard that you’re portraying. It takes two or more people to be involved in sex. Why does it have to be the woman who you claim that is “used as a sex object” when in fact it’s both of them that are taking part of the same act? Lol. Your double standard is hilarious and naive at the same time. You obviously can’t analyze simple things that’s why you’re a sheep who just follows every social norm that’s established without thinking twice about it.
@ciitruskiwi He thinks sex is a condemned sin for women. Oh, but it’s totally fine if men do it. that’s the flaw in his “logic”. If two people take part in the same act, they should both be seen the same way whether it’s in a positive light or a negative light. You can’t blame one person when they both did the same shit.
Wow, Logan, you must be a pure and divine angel? Never done any of the partying, booze drinking yourself eh? I've never done it, i am 19 and in college too, got a 3.7 GPA at a top university. Why are you spewing sexist shit for? Girls are on their knees? Yeah, so are guys. In fact, guys will outnumber their amount of sexual partners far sooner than most girls will.
Logan, yeah by your logic, men have always been expected to kiss women's ass. Thanks for the high regard you hold women to. After all, it is usually college guys who chase after women's ass, not the other way around.
guess what hot shot? Men are the ones who pay to go to strip clubs and get "services." And oftentimes, a lot of women are forced to do that shit and they have no other choice, if they don;t want to get killed that is. SO enough with your sexist bullshit.
@navyrobin Oh wow! A bunch of triggered Feminists who think every guy has to bow down to their wishes. I didn't say women could not like sex or that it was a "sin". I simply stated that women these days get ran through yet they expect some good guy to treat them like classy ladies. That's ridiculous. If you wanna be a hoe, be a hoe but accept the consequences of doing so. All I stated is that it's kinda sad how women would rather get fucked in a toilet by a guy they just met than be loved by a guy that actually respects them and shit. Also fuck off with this double standard shit, as if there's no doubles standards that benefit women such as oh I don't know "Real men don't hit women" and "men should always pay on dates". Oh and guys that sleep around also get viewed negatively, they are called "fuckboys" and women just want one night stands from them. Also women have a lot more sex partners than guys so don't give me that. Most girls have over 50 by the time they leave college.
You know why women have more sexual partners? Because ***some men are desperate little puppies who drool after anything they can get. SO we ain't the hoes, men are because they are the ones who run around with their tail between their legs, and the women feel pity for you. If we reject you, we get raped anyways or get called stuck up bitches, if we have sex with you, we are submissive whores, if we try and defend ourselves against bigoted sexist assholes, we are fucked up feminists. I am not a feminist, I don't agree with the path they have taken, and I am not against men. in fact, there are some men whom I highly respect and love, I just have no time or respect for douchebags. So yes, double standards bullshit. You get called a fuckboy? Poor baby. Yet we get called sluts, whores, bitches, trash, worthless, and other less derogatory terms. But I am sure that when someone calls you a fuckboy and a manwhore and a ladies man you feel very hurt and demeaned. Society can't even designate
sex-specific terms to pertain only to men. If you are being an ass wipe, you get called a son of a bitch. Really, why get your mother involved? If you stick it everywhere, you get called a ladies' man and a womanizer, or a man whore. You get called a pussy if you are weak or flaky. Guess what, vaginas are a lot stronger than weenies. Your own tiny little ass popped out of one. so the next time a man demeans you, or you want to demean a man, don't call them a pussy because that is actually a compliment. And if you are going to say most women are hoes, maybe you should wonder why that is. I mean, most guys have no issue chasing after ass. Most men will get into a woman's pants right away. You are the ones offering, we ain't the ones begging you for it.
@navyrobin lol, thank you. You too, you were rocking it. Too bad man is so head strong. can't argue with people who have iron skulls. nothing can get through to them.
@ciitruskiwi ha ha, thanks hon. You too gave him a run for his money. I think he's a hopeless case though. A guy who thinks he knows everything even though he's barely out of high school.
@logan Really? Why is it always the case that angry and sour little boys like you always call women “angry feminists” when you get triggered? Lol. It seems like projection to me.
Also yes it’s a double standard. Both the man and the woman are taking part of the act. Men can’t say “I want a good virgin woman” if he’s sleeping around either. He’s already had “his cherry popped” 😆
@navyrobin Girls have more partners because they're sluts that go home with a guy every time they are drunk. I still don't get how you idiots don't understand what I'm saying. Girls are hoes and prefer random cock to love and dating, hence why marriage and dating are in rapid decline... also because men don't want women's used pussies these days.. But the biggest issue is that women get upset when you cheat on them, which is hypocritical. If sex is such a meaningless, fun thing then how come cheating is seen as a bad thing? Makes no sense and just highlights how girls are irresponsible gold diggers.
@logan OOOOH I get it now. You’ve been used and dumped by multiple girls who didn’t see any further value in you so now you’re spewing out bs and lies and sourness here on GAG bc she made u mad :p I see I see.
Well, idiots like you can’t really argue properly anyway. 🤣
oh please, like I said Iron Skull, you are the ones offering your weenies, we ain't begging for them. And we don't need your one bedroom apartment, we can get into law school on our own, as some of us have proven. We can get 3.7 GPAs without men. And yes, I think your bitterness is the result of having been dumped multiple times. I wonder why those girls got sick of your ass? You seem like such a kind man.
"men don't want women's used pussies" you say? really, seems like you have no issue with hookers/strippers/porn stars. They seem decent for your sensibilities i'm sure.
@DianaWest love the way you keep showing off how you got a college education. What's up with women thinking they're special for doing things men have been doing for hundreds of years ahahah. Million of people are college graduates. You're not special. But I suppose your feminist morals make you think you are better than everyone else just because you're a woman.
Hundreds of years, yeah, that's because iron skulls like you would stone us to death and tie us to our beds if we even so much as cracked open a book. Only big boys with weenies were capable of reading letters on a page, but the real issue was that big boys with weenies were threatened by women's brilliance. They couldn't have a woman who was a mere pleasure tool for them actually excel at anything. A few decades ago, we weren't even "persons."
@DianaWest I agree. Have you watched the film “Big Eyes”? It’s about a woman who got her paintings stolen from her husband (not surprised) and he took all the money and fame and credit that she deserved.
Men are selfish dumbasses who can’t admit it when women win, and when women are better at them in many areas. They’re deluded as fuck.
yeah, and men in developing nations sell their 6 year old daughters into prostitution to feed their little humans with weenies. Women in developing countries are forced to abort their babies if they find out they are girls, or even forced to kill them after they are born. You really want to get started with this? i am not saying all men are like this, or that there aren't some very troubled women out there, but don't start playing Angel. You ain't.
oh, abortion is only the result of the woman's actions, right? Not like big boys go around sticking their weenies everywhere, and not like the sex trafficking that contains 80% women and children exists, primarily controlled by men, and not like some abortions that do occur are the result of rape. Please, blame this all on women, because all men have to do is stick around for 5 minutes. They tell the women they love them, that they'll do anything for them, the women believe this bullshit, and then they get pregnant, while the Angel Boy has a chick on the side and maxes out his pregnant fiancé's credit card. Yup, totally women's fault. Always.
@logan27 yeah cause 19 year old boy who will never carry a baby knows exactly how women feel about it. Unless you magically grow a working vagina and uterus I suggest you shut the hell up because everything you are saying and continue to say makes you seem even more bitter and ignorant. I suggest you leave while you still have a shred of dignity if you do still.
@ciitruskiwi don't talk to me about "dignity" when women pay to open their legs and let some random person vacuum their baby out. And yes clearly abortion is not a difficult thing for women otherwise they wouldn't support it and be so obsessed with it.
@logan27 or show me a study where it has proven that women happily abort and think of the baby as a piece of trash and sorry to say your ass doesn't count as a source.
And while we are at it, why didn't your mom happily abort you? She obviously didn't do a very good job at raising a kid unless she purposely raised you to be so ignorant and bitter.
@ciitruskiwi how am I ignorant and bitter? I'm sick of women parading abortion around and making out like it's a perfectly OK thing to do and that it's a right. It's unfair that women can just escape from pregnancy - it's unfair that men have no say and that women just abort so easily. Most women wouldn't think twice about aborting and that's just sick. Actually one study showed that most women felt "relief" after an abortion. Relief. As if the gross parasite inside them has finally been removed - that's how women think. You ask how I am bitter, how are women so bitter that they kill their own babies?
@logan27 oh you are avoiding my question. Guess you do only have balls when hiding behind keyboard. Wouldn't dare say what you are saying about women right now to your mother's face would you? No of course. You didn't answer my other question either. If women are so quick and ready and willing to abort why didn't your mother abort you? Why do we have so many babies being born if women love to abort according to you?
@logan27 Literally all the shit you were talking about women in this conversation. I dare you to say it ALL to your mother's face. I dare you. Because chances are you don't have the fucking balls to do it. Oh and if you do it record it and put it on YouTube. I want proof.
@ciitruskiwi well my mother is pro-life so she would probably agree with me on a lot of things so... but let me guess she's somehow gonna be in the wrong too huh? I guess people are only allowed opinions when they agree with you're legal baby genocide...
@logan27 okay and? I doubt she'll agree with you calling all women evil and sluts. Your mother isn't wrong for being pro life but you are wrong with your fucking attitude and personality. Nothing wrong with being pro-life but when you come across it the way you are doing so that makes it wrong. You can be against abortion, that's your own choice and I don't care but when you act like a fucking asshole about it then people will care. You are exactly like those pro life people who are for pro life but go burn down an abortion clinic without thinking twice that someone might be in there and be seriously hurt or killed by that fire? You fucking call that pro life? If you do then you are more ignorant than I fucking thought.
@ciitruskiwi As much as I love to enlighten people who aren’t this prideful and egocentric, this guy is literally a lost cause. I think the females who use and dump him are doing the right thing at this point. I’d honestly do the same thing for such useless trash 🤣
@ciitruskiwi if you two are so great.. how about you try a counter argument for everything I have said rather than simply deny it and then insult me. It makes you two seem silly.
@Logan27 We did... there’s a difference between giving an argument while you respond to that argument, AND totally ignoring what we said and resort to personal attacks.
You’re doing the latter. And will continue doing it. Even if every scientist in the world disagrees with what you say, you’re the kind of person who will stick with his delusions. That’s why we’ve stopped, because arguing with a narcissist is like arguing with a wall lol.
@logan27 because you are a fucking lost cause and it wouldn't be worth it. It would go in one ear and out the other. You are way too fucking close minded to consider anything other than someone agreeing with you so what's the point? No point in arguing with someone who refuses to listen to the other side's argument.
@ciitruskiwi you did not disagree with me and present counter arguments. I just said that women must have no value for life as they abort so much and all you said was that is a lie and that I'm bitter. You attacked me , not the other way around...
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Not for me. Trashy, insecure and slutty. They could as well as walk around carrying a billboard telling that she's had (lots of) dicks and I wouldn't care.
I prefer to look like a woman who has self-respect and knows the value of shame. I gotta look beautiful and pure. I'm my man's and ain't no other guy or even girl needs to know what I hide.
It shows that the women that want to get married and sluts and just want to use the guy for whatever she can get out of him. Not surprised.
Men shouldn't get married, and good women should understand why until the laws are changed so men won't get abused so much.
okay, fair enough. But men are no pure, innocent angels either. If a man wants a virgin, then he should keep it in his pants too. only fair, and no double standards shit. I know that since I am a virgin, I don't want some sleazeball who's juggled one whore per week in college.
@DianaWest Makes sense. No good moral person should want someone that does casual hook up/ONS BS.
I really don't care what women wear on their wedding day. There's always going to be someone who loves what they are wearing and those who don't. For me, personally - it's not my style. I would have to wear something more classy and elegant that reflects my personality and not my sexuality.
I think when a woman is being marries she ought to be giving up all sexual relations with men other than her husband. I don't think more sexually appealing wedding dresses communicate a desire to be faithful to one's partner. I may be wrong but that's what I think.
Well, the reason why women are rarely virgins on their wedding dates these days is because women get married much later than they used to. The average age to lose your virginity is increasing here in the United States of America though.
I don't mind it at all though. I would love to have a bride like this!
I am against the low cut dresses only because I actually prefer the older more traditional dresses worn on the wedding day. Though I don't really care if the woman is a virgin or not as long as the love is real. Personally I am probably going to be a virgin until I get married because I want the right person to make it memorable.
I'm all for people being sexually experienced before marriage, to me it makes sense to know what you want and make sure you and your partner are compatible in every aspect. I don't judge those who want to stay virgins until marriage, but I do understand the shift.
As for the dresses becoming sexier, I don't care. It's their day. They can wear whatever they want. Get married in a bikini for all I care. Not affecting my life.
It's just a reflection of modern day values. Women now, more than ever, value more aspects of themselves, including their self-confidence and sexiness. The whole point of a long sleeved, poofy white wedding dress as it originated was the presentation of a pure, woman more or less as a gift. Nowadays, it's more about making sure the bride feels beautiful ad confidant, and that she is completely honouring her image of herself. I say hell yeah, ladies!
Looks trashy honest. Who are you trying to be sexy for? the guests? I don't know not my life so they do whatever try want. I'd not like it f my wife dressed like a hoe on our wedding day
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A dress is a dress. You could be covered up to your damn neck and have slept with 100 guys, not including your husband to be. Every bride is gonna say yes to a dress. The choice of dress shouldn't matter. Would I wear that particular dress? No. But I'm not gonna judge the next girl for wearing it.
judge, you're all preaching about being such good humans who wouldn't dare judge. Yet i see the complete opposite daily, so-called "friends" bashing other women for daring to look sexier, prettier, and hotter than them.
@DianaWest bro, you flip out on anyone that has a different opinion than you. You don't know me. Idc what you see everyday. Take your insecure ass somewhere else with that.
my insecure ass, no, merely stating fact. As if you are a perfect human being who never judges others.
@DianaWest who said I was perfect? No one is, but I do go around talking shit about people and things that aren't my business. I've been on the tail end of people's judgment, trash talking and bullying for most of my damn life. Like I said, you don't know me. You're talking crap about what everyone else is saying, but commenting about being a prim and proper virgin like that makes you above someone else. Go somewhere.
why are you getting so ass hurt about my opinion, all I said was that EVERYONE judges, not just you specifically, and it is funny when people pretend to be these great human beings who don't judge others. I'm sure you've eyed plenty of women, but guess what, I don't really care. I wasn't talking shit, I was just stating what science and sexual evolution has. We are all judgmental beings, and to pretend otherwise means you're full of shit. And where am I to go? Why are you on the internet if you get so ass hurt by everyone's opinions? As for the whole me flipping out at everyone who doesn't share my views, that is wrong. I only tell people the truth, no flipping out necessary. Unless they say bigoted racist or sexist shit, then I flip out. Yeah, I flipped out at the idiot who said all beautiful women are stupid, arrogant, and boring, I flipped out at the dumbass who said white people have no culture, and I flipped out at the man who called children parasites. My comment to you was not
me flipping out. Just my mere opinion. And don't worry about my ass, it is not insecure at all. in fact, it is nice and taut. And being a virgin does not make me think I am above others, but it does give me a slightly higher level of dignity, when compared to a lady who's spread her legs for 10 men in college. I was answering the asker's question in an honest way, you have an issue with that? Why should I sugar coat anything? No, in fact, judging from other people's comments, they seem to share similar views. You may have also missed the comment where I raised issue with double standards, and how if women are expected to be virgins until marriage, then so should men. Anyways, whatever. I don't care one way or the other what others do with their lives, but this question is asking for judgement, so don't expect one type of answer. Expect there to be people who disagree.
@DianaWest because you could've saved the comment for your own response. That's why. I don't get ass hurt by anyone's opinions, but I do get annoyed when people leave pointless responses to my opinions. But cool, keep telling your non-sugarcoated truth girl. As if what everyone said was a lie. Ok then. Good day.
Damn, look at the tits on barbie. All eyes will definitely be on her. And all the groomsmen will be sure she's adequately liquored up to make some bad decisions. Good thing its white because any other color wouldn't hide all the jizz stains that she's gonna get on it.
Hahahaha 😆
Shieeet.
That was savage. Just shieeet.
Against. Especially if done at the church. Wedding must be about true love not lust (that's how I personally see it at least) so no sexy dress.
Plus I wonder what it would look like on family pics, what would she tell her children?
I think it's pointless and distasteful. Why would you want to be eyecandy for all the male guests? Your husband is gonna get to see you in all your glory that evening,
makes sense since we've moved more and more away from a taboo culture regarding our body's. there was a time when you would only see some neck and a head. even showing arms was taboo, let alone shoulders, cleavage, etc.
Okay, I have to say we are a society of extremes. In the 20s, if women showed their fucking ankles they were whores. Now, showing your ass is "normal." Honestly, i'd like there to be a nice fine line in the middle. Where is it? I don't want to wear a freaking muumuu on my wedding day, I want to feel beautiful, elegant and yes, sue me, even a bit sexy. But not to the point where you might see my nipples if I make one wrong move. I personally think that is disgusting. I think women nowadays have been so brainwashed by mass media, Madonna and all those celebrities who claim that their stringy lingerie is an "outfit," that brides feel like they need to dress as scantily as possible in order to stand out. Bullshit.
@DianaWest well if more modest dress makes you feel beautiful and elegant why shouldn't another girl feel that same way in a low cut dress? If she's confident in her body why shouldn't she wear something that shows that? And I'm not trying to sound like a creep who's saying this just to look at women in low cut dresses I'm saying it to ask why other women are being shamed for wearing something that they're comfortable wearing. Or anyone for that matter. The issue should be with the people talking shit and judging her for how she dresses rather than on the bride
@availableuponrequest oh don't give me that bull. A woman who shows her vagina and her nipples on her wedding day is nothing less than a whore. All that "confidence" talk is utter bullshit. What should I expect and think of someone who wears lingerie to a wedding ceremony happening in a Church? I don't really care one way or the other, of course I wouldn't call her a whore to her face or talk to others about it, but that is what I would be thinking. Don't get me wrong, I ain't a jealous fat bitch or anything. I could pull off something sexy too, but it is not in my character to be that "confident." And think, how would you feel if your bride to be, in front of your old man, mother, brother, grandmother, and young sister showed up wearing a dress with a corset that was see through, and a plunging neckline that would show her nipples if she made any sudden movements? Would you be okay with that? The only time she needs to feel THAT confident and beautiful is in the bedroom with herhusband
you aren't a whore because she show skin. you may be an exhibitionist, showing off too much but it doesn't say anything about a person's sexual promiscuity simply wearing certain clothes.
we aren't a society of extremes because in the 1920s showing your knees was one thing and now showing your ass is the same. it shows that society is progressing towards less taboo feelings regarding women showing their bodies. perhaps YOU feel there is a line of what is acceptable and what isn't and that's fine. you are entitled to your opinion but people should be able to wear what they want frankly. what you think is ok some may say is slutty or whorish so we can do this dance all day. the reality is people just need to worry about themselves and if they find some manner of revealing dress too much they should just look away
Okay, yeah, I agree with you on that. I don't care what others do with their lives, I could really care less. But people asked this question, and people are going to have contradictory views. Of course I won't think highly of a woman who wears fish net stockings and a miniskirt that shows her ass. Apparently neither does most of society, who requires "professional attire" for "formal occasions." But whatever, the only time when I will care is if my own daughter were to dress scantily. Then I would say something about it.
@DianaWest precisely. and you are right that most will frown on such dress (fish nets and mini skirt wedding dresses). i personally would feel it was tacky as well.
I agree with the comments you posted here from the NPR article. Times are changing, women are not innocent virgins, and many of them like to feel sexy all the time. It's not necessarily a good thing, as I believe we already put too much emphasis in sex. That's whole other topic, though.
Looks trashy. The dress doesn't have to be long af and cover her like a nun but a bride shouldn't look like she's on her way to a club.
time and a place for everything, im no prude but you need to think ahead, will you regret that look when you're older? I think a bride should look tasteful and restrained, not like she's on her way to a seedy nightclub.
but hey, no judgement, whatever floats their boat
You want my honest opinion, that picture or if a girl or a woman wore a dress like that for a wedding or some type of function, I would probably be holding my drinks heading back to the table, would continue checking her out, and accidentally hit my balls on the door knob.
@Stephen5577 it's a joke relax man.
But in all seriousness, a woman should conduct herself with grace on her wedding day, if you want to wear something sexy and be revealing, do it for your man, your husband, not for the public to see. I mean there are little kids who go to weddings and if they see that there going to assume it's okay to dress like that if not worse.
No Thank you !
I want my future wife to look like a bride on my wedding day, Not to look like a Slut/Whore
All these women downvoting you must be the ones who look like the sluts/whores 😂
@LatinTango0614 hahaha yeah
For My downvoters, This is for you guys :
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Hahaha, damn right my dude. The whores downvoted you 😂
The truth must often be too painful to bear.
@Unit1 hahahaha
It's just a fashion trend that's all but hopefully it'll die out soon.
@Goodwifie i think at this point it won't. Hoes and thots will always be and there will always be some dog, who believes can transfer a slut into a faithful housewife. Those will have it coming at them. *coughmgtowcough*
Transform* not transfer
Women are not innocent anymore so they no use in hiding it... Everyone girls be sucking dick at 15 and have fucked like 80 guys by the time they leave college. Ain't no man falling for the "innocent" trick these days...
Oh the generalization. Not all of us do that. I settled down at 19 and have only been with 5 guys, the 5th guy being the guy I settled down with at 19. I'm 28 now and in college.
Some of us actually go to college to learn, we don't buy $1000s of dollars to be a slut when you can be a slut for free.
Don't pay $1000s*
@ciitruskiwi *most girls go to college and spend the weekend on their knees. Yeah they go for education but also for the partying, and on the weekend at a frat, 9/10 college girls will be getting fucked. I guess the super hot ones don't but the rest do. Most girls have over 50 partners by the time they leave college. You must be an exception. But I was referring to most not all...
“Women are not innocent anymore”
My response? Men were never innocent either. So I don’t see why you have to exclude that in your comment
@navyrobin Men were never expected to. Shows how far women have fallen. Sucking some guys dick you just met in the bathroom has replaced dating and marriage. The only ones losing is women..
So just because they were never expected to behave respectfully means that they can behave like dirty ass idiots? Lol. I completely disagree with you there bud.
@navyrobin Men have lost respect as well but not as much as women have.
@logan Women have made their own choice because they’re -surprise surprise- individuals. Women are people! So shocking right?
So instead of focusing on another person’s choices I suggest you need to take a look at your own wrongdoings. It seems like you need serious self reflection
@navyrobin what are you talking about? I'm literally stating the facts about modern women. You're the one who can't accept that. So what if women are individuals? They can fuck 2000 guys at college, I don't care. However I find it funny how girls are always complaining that there are no good men yet they be taking a new dick every weekend. So if women choose to be treated like sex objects and used rather than date find love than that's their choice. I never said it wasn't. I just find it sad that that's what women are now reduced to.
I find it sadder that complainers are the only women you focus on. Not everything is our fault, and men love but ABSOLUTELY LOVE placing the blame on women for everything. Women love sex and we love dick. Get the fuck over it.
@navyrobin Og my god you still do not understand simple English. Yes I know that women like sex, women typically have more partners than men. Like I said multiple times, it's just sad that the modern woman prefers sucking some random dick in a bathroom than find love and date. Women are the only ones losing out really and if they want that then so be it. I never said they didn't but choosing to be used rather than love doesn't shine well on your gender.
Lol, I do understand it. But it doesn’t seem like you understand simple logic. If women like to feel good about fucking a random guy, I don’t see how that is “Women losing out”. It’s something those specific women enjoy. How are they losing out? 🤣🤣🤣
@navyrobin in general they are. If they enjoy being hoes I mean that's cool. If they enjoy being thought of as a sex object well they can be my guest. It still is sad. It's like a heroin addict. They would say that they enjoy what they do but it doesn't mean it's not sad. Is that hard to understand?
@logan27 lmao that is a terrible example. Heroin is terrible for you, it ruins your body, your health, your life, everything. It takes everything away from you. Casual sex doesn't do that. How are those two even comparable?
@logan27 You’re clearly still not understanding the idiocy and the double standard that you’re portraying. It takes two or more people to be involved in sex. Why does it have to be the woman who you claim that is “used as a sex object” when in fact it’s both of them that are taking part of the same act? Lol. Your double standard is hilarious and naive at the same time. You obviously can’t analyze simple things that’s why you’re a sheep who just follows every social norm that’s established without thinking twice about it.
@ciitruskiwi He thinks sex is a condemned sin for women. Oh, but it’s totally fine if men do it. that’s the flaw in his “logic”. If two people take part in the same act, they should both be seen the same way whether it’s in a positive light or a negative light. You can’t blame one person when they both did the same shit.
Wow, Logan, you must be a pure and divine angel? Never done any of the partying, booze drinking yourself eh? I've never done it, i am 19 and in college too, got a 3.7 GPA at a top university. Why are you spewing sexist shit for? Girls are on their knees? Yeah, so are guys. In fact, guys will outnumber their amount of sexual partners far sooner than most girls will.
Logan, yeah by your logic, men have always been expected to kiss women's ass. Thanks for the high regard you hold women to. After all, it is usually college guys who chase after women's ass, not the other way around.
guess what hot shot? Men are the ones who pay to go to strip clubs and get "services." And oftentimes, a lot of women are forced to do that shit and they have no other choice, if they don;t want to get killed that is. SO enough with your sexist bullshit.
@DianaWest 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@navyrobin Oh wow! A bunch of triggered Feminists who think every guy has to bow down to their wishes. I didn't say women could not like sex or that it was a "sin". I simply stated that women these days get ran through yet they expect some good guy to treat them like classy ladies. That's ridiculous. If you wanna be a hoe, be a hoe but accept the consequences of doing so. All I stated is that it's kinda sad how women would rather get fucked in a toilet by a guy they just met than be loved by a guy that actually respects them and shit. Also fuck off with this double standard shit, as if there's no doubles standards that benefit women such as oh I don't know "Real men don't hit women" and "men should always pay on dates". Oh and guys that sleep around also get viewed negatively, they are called "fuckboys" and women just want one night stands from them. Also women have a lot more sex partners than guys so don't give me that. Most girls have over 50 by the time they leave college.
You know why women have more sexual partners? Because ***some men are desperate little puppies who drool after anything they can get. SO we ain't the hoes, men are because they are the ones who run around with their tail between their legs, and the women feel pity for you. If we reject you, we get raped anyways or get called stuck up bitches, if we have sex with you, we are submissive whores, if we try and defend ourselves against bigoted sexist assholes, we are fucked up feminists. I am not a feminist, I don't agree with the path they have taken, and I am not against men. in fact, there are some men whom I highly respect and love, I just have no time or respect for douchebags. So yes, double standards bullshit. You get called a fuckboy? Poor baby. Yet we get called sluts, whores, bitches, trash, worthless, and other less derogatory terms. But I am sure that when someone calls you a fuckboy and a manwhore and a ladies man you feel very hurt and demeaned. Society can't even designate
sex-specific terms to pertain only to men. If you are being an ass wipe, you get called a son of a bitch. Really, why get your mother involved? If you stick it everywhere, you get called a ladies' man and a womanizer, or a man whore. You get called a pussy if you are weak or flaky. Guess what, vaginas are a lot stronger than weenies. Your own tiny little ass popped out of one. so the next time a man demeans you, or you want to demean a man, don't call them a pussy because that is actually a compliment. And if you are going to say most women are hoes, maybe you should wonder why that is. I mean, most guys have no issue chasing after ass. Most men will get into a woman's pants right away. You are the ones offering, we ain't the ones begging you for it.
@DianaWest 👏👏
@navyrobin lol, thank you. You too, you were rocking it. Too bad man is so head strong. can't argue with people who have iron skulls. nothing can get through to them.
@ciitruskiwi ha ha, thanks hon. You too gave him a run for his money. I think he's a hopeless case though. A guy who thinks he knows everything even though he's barely out of high school.
@DianaWest lol thanks and yeah pretty much.
@logan Really? Why is it always the case that angry and sour little boys like you always call women “angry feminists” when you get triggered? Lol. It seems like projection to me.
Also yes it’s a double standard. Both the man and the woman are taking part of the act. Men can’t say “I want a good virgin woman” if he’s sleeping around either. He’s already had “his cherry popped” 😆
@navyrobin Girls have more partners because they're sluts that go home with a guy every time they are drunk. I still don't get how you idiots don't understand what I'm saying. Girls are hoes and prefer random cock to love and dating, hence why marriage and dating are in rapid decline... also because men don't want women's used pussies these days.. But the biggest issue is that women get upset when you cheat on them, which is hypocritical. If sex is such a meaningless, fun thing then how come cheating is seen as a bad thing? Makes no sense and just highlights how girls are irresponsible gold diggers.
@logan OOOOH I get it now. You’ve been used and dumped by multiple girls who didn’t see any further value in you so now you’re spewing out bs and lies and sourness here on GAG bc she made u mad :p I see I see.
Well, idiots like you can’t really argue properly anyway. 🤣
@navyrobin Yes I can argue as I successfully triggered 3 feminists.
It’s cute how you keep saying we’re feminists just because we’re women and because we don’t agree with you. LOL
oh please, like I said Iron Skull, you are the ones offering your weenies, we ain't begging for them. And we don't need your one bedroom apartment, we can get into law school on our own, as some of us have proven. We can get 3.7 GPAs without men. And yes, I think your bitterness is the result of having been dumped multiple times. I wonder why those girls got sick of your ass? You seem like such a kind man.
"men don't want women's used pussies" you say? really, seems like you have no issue with hookers/strippers/porn stars. They seem decent for your sensibilities i'm sure.
@DianaWest love the way you keep showing off how you got a college education. What's up with women thinking they're special for doing things men have been doing for hundreds of years ahahah. Million of people are college graduates. You're not special. But I suppose your feminist morals make you think you are better than everyone else just because you're a woman.
Lmao he keeps saying we’re feminists. This is beginning to make me feel sorry for this nigga
Hundreds of years, yeah, that's because iron skulls like you would stone us to death and tie us to our beds if we even so much as cracked open a book. Only big boys with weenies were capable of reading letters on a page, but the real issue was that big boys with weenies were threatened by women's brilliance. They couldn't have a woman who was a mere pleasure tool for them actually excel at anything. A few decades ago, we weren't even "persons."
@DianaWest I agree. Have you watched the film “Big Eyes”? It’s about a woman who got her paintings stolen from her husband (not surprised) and he took all the money and fame and credit that she deserved.
Men are selfish dumbasses who can’t admit it when women win, and when women are better at them in many areas. They’re deluded as fuck.
Think what you want but women murder their own babies for convenience. That's pretty selfish and mean to me.
Lmao
Sorry that women tend to use and dump you so easily. That must’ve taken a toll on you 🤣
@navyrobin ah completely ignore what I said. That's how you know you lost.
No. I ignored what you said because you clearly don’t have the slightest clue of what you’re talking about 😂😂
@navyrobin I'm referring to abortion. Legalized murder that women use to escape from the situation they put themselves in...
yeah, and men in developing nations sell their 6 year old daughters into prostitution to feed their little humans with weenies. Women in developing countries are forced to abort their babies if they find out they are girls, or even forced to kill them after they are born. You really want to get started with this? i am not saying all men are like this, or that there aren't some very troubled women out there, but don't start playing Angel. You ain't.
oh, abortion is only the result of the woman's actions, right? Not like big boys go around sticking their weenies everywhere, and not like the sex trafficking that contains 80% women and children exists, primarily controlled by men, and not like some abortions that do occur are the result of rape. Please, blame this all on women, because all men have to do is stick around for 5 minutes. They tell the women they love them, that they'll do anything for them, the women believe this bullshit, and then they get pregnant, while the Angel Boy has a chick on the side and maxes out his pregnant fiancé's credit card. Yup, totally women's fault. Always.
@DianaWest that's bullshit. Women usually willingly and happily abort. They thing of the baby as a piece of trash, that's why.
Also a lot of women abort behind their husbands back so...
@logan27 yeah cause 19 year old boy who will never carry a baby knows exactly how women feel about it. Unless you magically grow a working vagina and uterus I suggest you shut the hell up because everything you are saying and continue to say makes you seem even more bitter and ignorant. I suggest you leave while you still have a shred of dignity if you do still.
@ciitruskiwi don't talk to me about "dignity" when women pay to open their legs and let some random person vacuum their baby out. And yes clearly abortion is not a difficult thing for women otherwise they wouldn't support it and be so obsessed with it.
@logan27 or show me a study where it has proven that women happily abort and think of the baby as a piece of trash and sorry to say your ass doesn't count as a source.
And while we are at it, why didn't your mom happily abort you? She obviously didn't do a very good job at raising a kid unless she purposely raised you to be so ignorant and bitter.
@logan27 do you have the balls to say that your mother or your grandmother to their face? Or do you only have balls when you hide beind a keyboard?
@ciitruskiwi how am I ignorant and bitter? I'm sick of women parading abortion around and making out like it's a perfectly OK thing to do and that it's a right. It's unfair that women can just escape from pregnancy - it's unfair that men have no say and that women just abort so easily. Most women wouldn't think twice about aborting and that's just sick. Actually one study showed that most women felt "relief" after an abortion. Relief. As if the gross parasite inside them has finally been removed - that's how women think. You ask how I am bitter, how are women so bitter that they kill their own babies?
@ciitruskiwi say what to my mothers face?
@logan27 oh you are avoiding my question. Guess you do only have balls when hiding behind keyboard. Wouldn't dare say what you are saying about women right now to your mother's face would you? No of course. You didn't answer my other question either. If women are so quick and ready and willing to abort why didn't your mother abort you? Why do we have so many babies being born if women love to abort according to you?
@ciitruskiwi 1 in 4 babies are aborted! That's extremely high which proves my point.
@logan27 Literally all the shit you were talking about women in this conversation. I dare you to say it ALL to your mother's face. I dare you. Because chances are you don't have the fucking balls to do it. Oh and if you do it record it and put it on YouTube. I want proof.
@logan27 give me the source otherwise I will assume it came from your ass. If you give statistics you gotta give proof.
@ciitruskiwi well my mother is pro-life so she would probably agree with me on a lot of things so... but let me guess she's somehow gonna be in the wrong too huh? I guess people are only allowed opinions when they agree with you're legal baby genocide...
@Logan27
Dude lmao.. I suggest you stop arguing. You’re embarrassing yourself at this point. Lol...
@logan27 okay and? I doubt she'll agree with you calling all women evil and sluts. Your mother isn't wrong for being pro life but you are wrong with your fucking attitude and personality. Nothing wrong with being pro-life but when you come across it the way you are doing so that makes it wrong. You can be against abortion, that's your own choice and I don't care but when you act like a fucking asshole about it then people will care. You are exactly like those pro life people who are for pro life but go burn down an abortion clinic without thinking twice that someone might be in there and be seriously hurt or killed by that fire? You fucking call that pro life? If you do then you are more ignorant than I fucking thought.
@navyrobin at this point, he's far from embarrasment. I suggest we all just leave him alone. He is more than a lost cause.
@ciitruskiwi As much as I love to enlighten people who aren’t this prideful and egocentric, this guy is literally a lost cause. I think the females who use and dump him are doing the right thing at this point. I’d honestly do the same thing for such useless trash 🤣
@ciitruskiwi if you two are so great.. how about you try a counter argument for everything I have said rather than simply deny it and then insult me. It makes you two seem silly.
@Logan27 We did... there’s a difference between giving an argument while you respond to that argument, AND totally ignoring what we said and resort to personal attacks.
You’re doing the latter. And will continue doing it. Even if every scientist in the world disagrees with what you say, you’re the kind of person who will stick with his delusions. That’s why we’ve stopped, because arguing with a narcissist is like arguing with a wall lol.
Anyway. Have a nice day to everyone who had to deal with the spam notifications lmao.
@logan27 because you are a fucking lost cause and it wouldn't be worth it. It would go in one ear and out the other. You are way too fucking close minded to consider anything other than someone agreeing with you so what's the point? No point in arguing with someone who refuses to listen to the other side's argument.
@navyrobin those women are dodging one hell of a bullet 😂
@ciitruskiwi you did not disagree with me and present counter arguments. I just said that women must have no value for life as they abort so much and all you said was that is a lie and that I'm bitter. You attacked me , not the other way around...