Women benefit more in marriage, men benefit more in dating. Women are legally protected in marriage. They don't have to work, they have traditionalist behind them saying they can stay at home and be homemakers.. if a man leaves, she gets half, even if she doesn't work for it.. and man has to pay child support even tho he has the stable job and the house is in his name.. it's just a bad situation for a guy as far as the system is set up
If both didn't feel they benefitted why would they keep marrying each other, by the way your picture shows an equal scale, that's exactly it, they benefit equally
Both benefits from marriage because they both complete each other, no one benefits more and that's why after a holy marriage the couple become one and start a family...
Back when marriage became a regular practice the families of the couple benefited more than the couple, because the families would enter an alliance and be able to share resources with less risk of being stabbed in the back since their families were now connected. Eventually even the peasantry adopted the practice and would give the father of the bride goods or animals for the daughters hand in marriage which would eventually provide greater stability for both peasant families
Marriage was invented to protect women from being left with children and no way to provide for them. Men were given submissive mating opportunities for life in exchange. Women could hardly make it on their own and men wanted some guaranteed sex for life. It's not like that anymore is it? So men don't benefit from guaranteed submitted mating for life anymore. So it benefits the woman more then men in my opinion.
It’s both. That’s kind of how it works lol if you wanna marry someone, you guys respect each other, feel equal to one another, both love each other. So I don't know I’d say both
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The women. They get the spotlight from the engagement all the way to divorce. (If they get divorced)
I am actually going to get married in less than 3 months buddy. Also see my profile pic I do not have a neck beard. Good way to argument against me... or not.
I don't see any benefit in marriage. However, it's clear that women have more benefits in divorce since the court is much more likely do favor them, especially when it comes to custody.
Well statistics say that men who marry are happier whereas women are less happy, though that may be because the women who don't want to marry are happier anyways.
I think that men are more lone wolf by nature, but we still get lonely so if we don't settle down with somebody permanently, we don't find the friendship we need.
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I'd say the woman, but then again it all depends on situation
Women benefit more in marriage, men benefit more in dating. Women are legally protected in marriage. They don't have to work, they have traditionalist behind them saying they can stay at home and be homemakers.. if a man leaves, she gets half, even if she doesn't work for it.. and man has to pay child support even tho he has the stable job and the house is in his name.. it's just a bad situation for a guy as far as the system is set up
Because they will get the kids the house half his money!
The man will let that be for a peaceful life!
If both didn't feel they benefitted why would they keep marrying each other, by the way your picture shows an equal scale, that's exactly it, they benefit equally
Both benefits from marriage because they both complete each other, no one benefits more and that's why after a holy marriage the couple become one and start a family...
Back when marriage became a regular practice the families of the couple benefited more than the couple, because the families would enter an alliance and be able to share resources with less risk of being stabbed in the back since their families were now connected. Eventually even the peasantry adopted the practice and would give the father of the bride goods or animals for the daughters hand in marriage which would eventually provide greater stability for both peasant families
A while ago both did, but now feminists say expecting the woman to do housework and childcare is misogynist, therefore women benefit more now.
The State and all of its legal machinery. A great transference of wealth has become a huge business in the 10s of billions a year.
Where is the “none” button? Marriage is a lose/lose situation.
Well, neither is supposed to benefit more than the other. However, women typically benefit more divorce.
If the benefits aren’t equal, you shouldn’t be getting married...
Marriage was invented to protect women from being left with children and no way to provide for them. Men were given submissive mating opportunities for life in exchange. Women could hardly make it on their own and men wanted some guaranteed sex for life. It's not like that anymore is it? So men don't benefit from guaranteed submitted mating for life anymore. So it benefits the woman more then men in my opinion.
Thank you. I personally did not want to go that explicit, but you are totally right. The mariage balance is broken in favor of woman.
@JeremyT actually I think marriage is obsolete due to the fact that women can provide for themselves and their family now.
Equal benefits?
What do women benefit from that men don't?
Money
@SpunkNugget How do get money from marriage that men don't?
It’s both. That’s kind of how it works lol if you wanna marry someone, you guys respect each other, feel equal to one another, both love each other. So I don't know I’d say both
The women. They get the spotlight from the engagement all the way to divorce. (If they get divorced)
I think women however marriage is a very confusing and difficult subject
It's hilarious that so many women are delusional enough to have voted "Men" in this. Men get literally nothing out of marriage these days.
We get the same as women. Nothing more nothing less.
@ThisIsMyOpinion You have serious neckbeard atheist energy
I am actually going to get married in less than 3 months buddy. Also see my profile pic I do not have a neck beard.
Good way to argument against me... or not.
I don't see any benefit in marriage. However, it's clear that women have more benefits in divorce since the court is much more likely do favor them, especially when it comes to custody.
Well statistics say that men who marry are happier whereas women are less happy, though that may be because the women who don't want to marry are happier anyways.
I think that men are more lone wolf by nature, but we still get lonely so if we don't settle down with somebody permanently, we don't find the friendship we need.
Women on the other hand, get comfort from their girlfriends all their life.
Women, because there's actually nothing in marriage anymore for men.
What is there for women in marriage that there isn't for men and vice versa?