All women, who want to marry they marry with money in their mind! How are men so ignorant?

[Anonymous]

Women, who want to marry will never marry a broke man (and for good reasons). However men are foolish to think women want to marry them because she loves him. Maybe for now she does. But ultimately they marry for stability. Or so they say.

The stability of securing money their way because as I said before they will never marry a broke man. If the marriage fails regardless who is at fault, alimony will go her way. They'll marry a broke man as soon as men start marrying fat girls, who won't even attempt to get in a better shape.

Women marry men with financial capabilities in their mind as much as men marry women for the regular s e x. They will claim otherwise "I love you not just because of your money/sex". Just look at the 50% divorce rates and you'll see what I mean.

Love is monetized. Marriage is monetized. Divorce is a big industry. Courting is being put on men. And men are vulnerable to being deceived by manipulators so much, that they trust them with their bank account. No real feelings. Everything is fake and plastic. Love is dead and marriage is about the money.

[Anonymous]

Most men are broke though. The average man isn't wealthy, so he can't complain about goldiggers. Money is the most important thing in life. Unless you've lived in real poverty, you'll never know the true value of money.

[Asker]

Damn right! So glad you understand this.

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for MHO

[Asker]

You earned it :)

[Anonymous]

And why do man live their mature well establish woman for a younger trashy woman? Can't find the right companion? I've seen this behavior in you man so don't come up to me telling me it is all woman's fault!

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a lot of broke men who are married - they married broke woman

[alice55]

Women marry because she love the man who's going to be her husband and also for money. Which person would be ok dating someone who's broke or who spend their money on useless stuff and end up never being able to invest into anything? (or keep some money to the side in case something bad happen like needing a new car, etc...)

Money is important but after nobody marry someone who they do not love (unless those people are gold digger or want to own the company of their husband wife family).

Is it foolish not to think about money when marrying especially if you plan to have children, if you plan to have children but marry someone who spend their money on useless stuff and end up not having enough money to buy food or clothes for the child to electricity then you're an idiot for marrying this person.

I don't think men are ignorant about it on contrary they know it and shame women for it (calling a woman a gold digger for no reasons at all and hating them for it). Those that call women gold digger for wanting someone who can manage money is just a lazy ass or just plain delusional. Love won't pay your bills, it work when you're very young but after it doesn't work anymore and is it especially bad if you have children.
At my sister work a woman who have children just spend 300 euros on make up for no reasons other then she have been watching her favorite YouTube and bought her youtuber favorite product. Her man still married her and had children with her, this is foolish and dangerous for the health and well being of the child which is the reason why thinking about money when marrying is actually important. Money isn't important in the case where you're a teenager living with your parents or a person who only want fling. If you want a long lasting relationship and child then money is important.

[hahahmm]

But the thing is that our ancestors didn't really marry for 'love'. It was always a business deal, even if it was a big benefit if you found your partner attractive. As long as a woman is traditional, I have no problem if she wants to marry for money, resources and all of the other stuff her ancestors got married for. I have a huge problem if she claims to be "strong & independent" yet wants the guy to put more into the pot than she does. I also can see the problem in a lot of relationships where the woman earns more because women actually feel that when a guy gives her a gift or takes care of her it is 'love' or a symbol of that. Obviously, if you do the math, if she doesn't actually need him to do any of that then there's a problem. Even hardcore feminists have admitted that they need a dude to spend money on them. It's why women complain about guys not behaving like men did 30+ years ago and aren't taking them out on dates & buying them flowers... They forget to ask what women have stopped doing that they used to do for men tho.

Yes, I do know of married couples where the woman is rich (millionaire) or doing mid six-figures level well and the guy only has an average income or less. In only 1 case I know of personally, does the couple even seem happy and they're in their late 20s. In all other cases I have seen, one or both people are miserable and the dudes cheat left and right cause hey, she didn't have a guy pick her so much as needed to leech. It's just not natural in male-female relationships to have things in this order.

[pleasestopthis]

To a certain point this is truth, though. I don't want to swim in piles of money, but won't marry a broke man who makes no efforts. I can be the breadwinner for some time but then when children come they need some stability.
Then with your point, men aren't marrying for love either, but for sex, so in that case women bring sex and men bring the money. Why would women bring sex and get nothing in compensation?
By the way, I don't care if the man makes less than me, but I do expect him to make efforts to find a job if he's jobless. Nothing is less attractive to me than a person who mopes around and do nothing to overcome a situation.

[Asker]

We often equate sex with love. There's a reason men hire escorts and hookers.

[pleasestopthis]

Aren't most men the ones who say love and sex are completely separate things?

[Asker]

I don't know but for me sex is like sharing intimate and romantic love. Even with a stranger. Some say we fall in love in 10 second or something 😂

[mindNsoul]

And all those broke folks marrying? or women taking care of bums and no good men? or gard working struggling couples? most people can't sustain a single income household and most societies have more poor people than rich and middle class. So the theory does not apply to majority of people

[Yads_Is_Back]

You must hang around bad women. Marriage isn’t about money. That’s why people who marry for money end up getting divorced. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Hm. You're right actually.

[Elsa143]

I am rich enough but I was a fool because I thought that my broke ex boyfriend loved me. But he was only planning to use me. That lazy gold digger.

[Anonymous]

If your point is valid, then,
All men, who want to marry, they marry with sex in their mind! How are women so ignorant?

[JaneDoe377]

Im sure there are many who do. Men marry rich women for money so what's the fucking difference? As usual another stupid generalization. This app is full of them.

[Avicenna]

Men do marry overweight women

Women sometimes marry guys who have little to no money

[dwiller943]

Again... A man who categorizes all women as the same;
despeite there being women out there that are not like most women.

[MzAsh]

I make more than my husband. I don’t mind. I just ask that he have a job doing something he likes.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

My wife makes more than me and she already did before we got married.
Not a lot more, still more. So you point goes to the bin.

[hahahmm]

That's like saying, because you saw a dog riding a skateboard, all/most dogs ride skateboards.

[Dave31989]

that and, they usually settle too. they'll post about "being engaged" on social media, thinking they're the "best out there"... only to then be divorced or broken engagement a few years later

[loveslongnails]

I take it you're single and currently without a girlfriend? :)

[Bluemax]

But my wife made a little more than I did.

[Asker]

Do either of you make a lot of money?

[Bluemax]

Middle class

[Asker]

Well that's something alright.

[Ally247]

That's really not true

[REDHOTLINE]

Marry or dating. they only loves money not men.

[KatherineJ]

No wonder you asked this anonymously...

[Iron_Man]

Yeah right