Either, as long as they pull their weight. Lazy versions of either don't work for a serious relationship, hard working responsible of either can work well.
I would marry someone who had qualities of both things. Someone who is too modern would probably be a little too independent and not meet my needs and someone who is too traditional would probably be too needy and clingy and would drive me nuts. Something in between these two extremes would be nice.
100% traditional! I love that my husband is a traditional man that loves taking care of his family. I could never be with a modern guy that only thinks about himself and doesn't want the family life.
Traditional all day everyday! Modern sucks, it doesnāt work thatās why they all end up in divorces. As long as both people want to be traditional out of choice it works! Men and women are generally different in nature, modern standards kind of teaches us that weāre the same. Weāre equal but not the same!
There is duality in human race, where there is modernity, traditional will be found there itself. Guess this is more realted to thinking pattern or mindset. On that i abide to follow the principle that there is a very thin line b/w liberal and indiscipline girl. I go for the former
My wife used to be "modern" but has become more traditional. Kids today... kinda weird and scary, the way they think. I think a dad in the 60's would probably say the same thing.
I prefer traditional, the way it has worked for thousands of generations seems to be the best of all possible ways of pair bonding. I don't want a masculine woman, it's such a turn off.
She needs to be a virgin or at least have had little to no partners. Most Modern girls be catching more bodies than the first 48. Just saying...🤷🏽āāļø
@chris_987 nope. Never found the right person. And I'm not the type of person to have 3 baby daddies with 4 children or 3 ex husbands. When I marry its one and done
No Iām not trying to be mean I just think that if a beautiful girl canāt get married there are other reasons why, like either your standards are too high or you donāt really like men as much as you think you do. Either way I want to get to the bottom of it so you can be happy with someone you love. Now my next question is are you a virgin?
@chris_987 hell no. And it's not that my standards are high. I know what im worth. Amd I don't deserve to be treated like dirt or anything less than what I am.
@chris_987 did you really expect me to be a 40yr old virgin. Or when I'm in a relationship not have sex? I am a woman, a sexual being and I get just as horny as any hot blooded man.
But thatās my point though, your willing to sleep with a guy that isnāt husband material so what does that say about the guys your choosing? I think weāve solve the issues tbh
@chris_987 so inquisitive. We work well together. We uplift and support each other. Doesn't matter what it is, I have his back and I know he has mine. And I can't imagine sharing my life with anyone but him.
Well most women donāt want to respect a men enough to listen to him. Thatās why I like girls that trust my judgement. If you think you always know better than me then is not gonna work.
But tv shows have brain washed women to believe that men canāt function without them. As if a men will be lost without his wife. All that propaganda plays and important roll into why women donāt think much of men today.
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Traditional. Because only a traditional minded person truly values anything beyond the superficial.
Either, as long as they pull their weight. Lazy versions of either don't work for a serious relationship, hard working responsible of either can work well.
I would marry someone who had qualities of both things. Someone who is too modern would probably be a little too independent and not meet my needs and someone who is too traditional would probably be too needy and clingy and would drive me nuts. Something in between these two extremes would be nice.
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traditional, modern women are just slutty and trying to do everything at once. they have mental disorders and anxiety because you can't do it all
you can be a career woman or a mother
I'd probably go with Traditional; modern women are more trouble than they're worth.
I think
Leaning more toward modern, mostly because I have 0 interest in kids
Makes sense
100% traditional! I love that my husband is a traditional man that loves taking care of his family. I could never be with a modern guy that only thinks about himself and doesn't want the family life.
Traditional all day everyday! Modern sucks, it doesnāt work thatās why they all end up in divorces. As long as both people want to be traditional out of choice it works! Men and women are generally different in nature, modern standards kind of teaches us that weāre the same. Weāre equal but not the same!
I'd rather marry someone that honestly loves me whether it's traditional or modern or whatever. Just no fakes. no fake love.
if I married her... is because she doesn't fit a label or standard, if she comes with a tag, it'll say " wholesome AF "
My boyfriend acts like an old man and I love that lol
Me too!
There is duality in human race, where there is modernity, traditional will be found there itself. Guess this is more realted to thinking pattern or mindset. On that i abide to follow the principle that there is a very thin line b/w liberal and indiscipline girl. I go for the former
Depends on their definition of modern. Somewhere in between preferably
My wife used to be "modern" but has become more traditional.
Kids today... kinda weird and scary, the way they think.
I think a dad in the 60's would probably say the same thing.
I prefer traditional, the way it has worked for thousands of generations seems to be the best of all possible ways of pair bonding. I don't want a masculine woman, it's such a turn off.
She needs to be a virgin or at least have had little to no partners. Most Modern girls be catching more bodies than the first 48. Just saying...🤷🏽āāļø
More traditional for me, but not entirely traditional.
Traditional all the way. When you raise your own children, you get a much superior result, and can teach them morals like public education can't.
May I ask - what do you mean modern or traditional?
Traditional, it fits better with my morals and values. The family dynamic, the respect for others.
aren't you married at 42 though
@chris_987 nope
Hmmm why do you think that is? Are you a single mother?
@chris_987 damn dude
@chris_987 nope. Never found the right person. And I'm not the type of person to have 3 baby daddies with 4 children or 3 ex husbands.
When I marry its one and done
Good for you
Same here
Thank you. Goes back to the morals and values I have
No Iām not trying to be mean I just think that if a beautiful girl canāt get married there are other reasons why, like either your standards are too high or you donāt really like men as much as you think you do. Either way I want to get to the bottom of it so you can be happy with someone you love. Now my next question is are you a virgin?
@chris_987 hell no. And it's not that my standards are high. I know what im worth. Amd I don't deserve to be treated like dirt or anything less than what I am.
So how is it possible that you can find someone to have sex with but you canāt find someone to marry, that doesnāt makes sense to me.
@chris_987 did you really expect me to be a 40yr old virgin. Or when I'm in a relationship not have sex? I am a woman, a sexual being and I get just as horny as any hot blooded man.
But thatās my point though, your willing to sleep with a guy that isnāt husband material so what does that say about the guys your choosing? I think weāve solve the issues tbh
@chris_987 fair enough. Relationships teach us a lot of things and I am happy to say that the person I am with right now is husband material.
How do you know if your wife material, have you ever ask yourself that question.
@chris_987 I know I'm wife material.
How so? Iām curious to know what makes you so sure
@chris_987 because im a catch, and I'm not being facetious. I'll enrich my husbands life just as he will enrich mine.
So anything tangible that you can name? Iām actually genuinely curious
@chris_987 so inquisitive.
We work well together. We uplift and support each other. Doesn't matter what it is, I have his back and I know he has mine. And I can't imagine sharing my life with anyone but him.
Ok but now my question is do you listen and do what he says or do question everything he says to do.
@chris_987 I listen. I'm not a brat and throw tantrums when I don't get my way
Well most women donāt want to respect a men enough to listen to him. Thatās why I like girls that trust my judgement. If you think you always know better than me then is not gonna work.
@chris_987 thats just rude af in my opinion.
Itās what there taught, men arenāt looked at as competent. So obviously women donāt respect men like they used too
@chris_987 see I don't agree with that at all. Men are just as competent as women.
But tv shows have brain washed women to believe that men canāt function without them. As if a men will be lost without his wife. All that propaganda plays and important roll into why women donāt think much of men today.