Would you rather marry someone modern or traditional?

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And why?

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

Bwhaha and yeah i dont think modern men do at all. Most guys i know hardly get laid. Its pathetic.

SpaceGalaxy · Accepted Answer

Modern in bed traditional in public

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think a traditional guy but I also want to have my own career in the unlikely scenario the relationship breaks down due to him passing away or getting severely sick and unable to work.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am a traditional man and I want a traditional woman.

coachTanthony · Answer

Traditional all the way. I don't need my masculinity bumping with female masculinity. Most modern women today don't know how to drop into their feminine due to high pressured jobs or positions they might hold. No masculine traditional guy wants to be around a woman who never let's him do things for her. The "I can do it myself" is not attractive to the traditional man.

pjf1958 · Answer

You can have a healthy combination of both. In order to thrive in this day and age, everyone should become internet savy. It's imperative, not only from a social network perspective, it's increasingly necessary from an employment perspective. There is nothing that gives you a well grounded sense of who you are than to have a deep understanding of your roots and traditions. That entails traditional ethnic cuisine, the way you dress, the history of your people etc. This is where self confidence originates. It is also the foundation of how you navigate into the future. It is where you attain your quiet dignity.

TruthBringer · Answer

Traditional for sure. I myself and the people around me consider me traditional. Wouldn't strike anyone as a surprise considering I've been raised in a traditional family setting. I bear the burden of performance within a relationship (being the leader, work, paying bills and much more). I'm currently with a traditional girl who takes care of me (cooks, cleans, regular sex etc.) and the relationship keeps getting better and better. Studies have shown that traditional relationships are of higher quality than non-traditional relationships.

The last thing I would do date some "modern" woman who thinks everything should be "equal". Those are the same women who want the benefits of a traditional man while not being traditional themselves.

Finchie40 · Answer

I am more traditional, I have always been a hard worker and I am very content , I don’t really need materialistic things to make me happy , I love the outdoors , fishing and bonfires etc for my leisure , so I would prefer a traditional girl over a modern girl for sure , don’t get me wrong I do like nice things but I am happy with the things I feel that are cool , I can’t stand one uppers , people that see what you have and then go and buy something they feel is better then what you have , I can’t stand those type of people , it’s like Dude live your own life don’t follow my foot steps and try to be better than me , I just shake my head when people do that , I pretty much remove them from my life cuz I realize how pathetic they really are.

jerdanro · Answer

I want a traditional woman who is feminine, strong, and intelligent. A woman who understands that she can be a woman, a traditional women without being weak or inferior.

To allow a man to be a man isn't a threat. Allowing the man to lead doesn't mean that she is incapable. Women keep our families, and communities together. Women civilize men. Woman are better than most men at nurturing and creating communities. But God help anyone who threatens her children.

Men are inherantly more agressive and violent. But with the love of a good woman, friends, and family, a man's instincts can make him a loving protector and provider. The proper use of our instincts make us strong, but kind.

Okay, I'm rambling. Suffice it to say, the differences between the sexes are to compliment eachother, not alienate eachother.

Lliam · Answer

I'm not sure how to define those terms.

I guess I'd say traditional, since things have gotten incredibly weird over the past few decades. I'm not interested in a modern feminist. Neither am I interested in a woman who is old fashioned and conservative like, say, conservative religious values.

I like women who are intelligent, motivated, capable and are nobody's door mat, but who also appreciate the idea of ladylike and gentlemanly behavior.

They have to be feminine. Is that traditional?

averageguy4 · Answer

Depends on your definition. I don't want a woman that just cleans, cooks, and raises kids. That's boring. I want an equal. My current girlfriend both helped remodel our house 1 piece of wood at a time. Traditional women don't do woodworking. My girl knows how to use a buzz saw. So i want the modern woman that is part of the team, not cooking a meal subserviently while i talk about how my big dick helped me make lots of money at work.

loves2learn · Answer

Not really sure how you define those terms. I had a traditional wedding. We have a pretty traditional marriage. Only have sex with each other. 2 kids.
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I have my own thoughts and opinions and I like us to make joint decisions so I suppose that could be considered modern.

JackSmy · Answer

I'm sick and tired of the BS women, just "waiting" for Prince Charming, while PROCLAIMING their EQUALITY, but never ACTING LIKE AN EQUAL!
I don't want any submissive little 'girl' in a cute dress, to stay at home, and raise children! Screw that!
I want an EQUAL, a confident, REAL WOMAN, and we'll sort the rest out!

SaoirseS · Answer

More on the Midwestern traditional side. I was raised by pretty old school parents in a mostly conservative area.

Avicenna · Answer

Rather than giving broad or vague labels, I'd just say I'd like her to be someone who wants a family, prioritizes education, is loving and affectionate and also prioritizes good health and athletics.

MasseurDeMojo · Answer

You are right about modern men. That also goes for a lot of modern women!! I really hate to be the teacher, on things that she should already know from her parents!!

I guess with that, I am more geared towards traditional!!

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

A lot comes down to interpretation of Modern.

for me I would chose a modern girl, but this type has always existed.

confident, independent, feisty, intelligent, her own person etc.

At my age i am obviously not a modern guy, however with something I am very much ahead of others I’ve seen posting on here, especially in regards to gender, sexuality and other socially modern things.

Azura_88 · Answer

Ofcourse traditional but he should also respect my wish to have a childless marriage.
I might adopt later but I'm not gonna go through painful hell, weakness and loss of 2 years for a man to bring him his kids.

Iron_Man · Answer

traditional girl you don’t have to worry about teaching me anything been there done that. Been to survival camps

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

When it comes to marriage I rather marry someone modern & not the down to earth kind of a girl more of an outer space out of the box kind of a girl. Someone fun, someone lovable, huggable & spontaneous all the way.

Gray-Wisp · Answer

For me it would be a mixture and there would be leniency in certain areas and not so much in others.

However, you seem to want a modern man when it comes to sex. A modern man would be the one with 1,000 previous sexual partners so that they're experienced in bed. A traditional manq likely wouldn't have sex until marriage. I guess the traditional guy could have a lot of failed marriages but I wouldn't want a spouse with a string of failed marriages.

Miah02 · Answer

Not traditional. All they do is pretend they are perfect and judge everyone else. Why would i wanna spend my time dealing with that mess.

hahahmm · Answer

Traditional. Because only a traditional minded person truly values anything beyond the superficial.

0112358 · Answer

Either, as long as they pull their weight. Lazy versions of either don't work for a serious relationship, hard working responsible of either can work well.

msc545 · Answer

I would marry someone who had qualities of both things. Someone who is too modern would probably be a little too independent and not meet my needs and someone who is too traditional would probably be too needy and clingy and would drive me nuts. Something in between these two extremes would be nice.

007kingifrit · Answer

traditional, modern women are just slutty and trying to do everything at once. they have mental disorders and anxiety because you can't do it all you can be a career woman or a mother

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I'd probably go with Traditional; modern women are more trouble than they're worth.

Redstang88 · Answer

Leaning more toward modern, mostly because I have 0 interest in kids

Apple1996 · Answer

100% traditional! I love that my husband is a traditional man that loves taking care of his family. I could never be with a modern guy that only thinks about himself and doesn't want the family life.

Nafff · Answer

Traditional all day everyday! Modern sucks, it doesn’t work that’s why they all end up in divorces. As long as both people want to be traditional out of choice it works! Men and women are generally different in nature, modern standards kind of teaches us that we’re the same. We’re equal but not the same!

Киттйлинк · Answer

I'd rather marry someone that honestly loves me whether it's traditional or modern or whatever. Just no fakes. no fake love.

NathanDavis · Answer

if I married her... is because she doesn't fit a label or standard, if she comes with a tag, it'll say " wholesome AF "

pink_and_inlove · Answer

My boyfriend acts like an old man and I love that lol

he-takes-a-part · Answer

There is duality in human race, where there is modernity, traditional will be found there itself. Guess this is more realted to thinking pattern or mindset. On that i abide to follow the principle that there is a very thin line b/w liberal and indiscipline girl. I go for the former

SamA_nold · Answer

Depends on their definition of modern. Somewhere in between preferably

Andres77 · Answer

My wife used to be "modern" but has become more traditional. Kids today... kinda weird and scary, the way they think. I think a dad in the 60's would probably say the same thing.

Floppy2112 · Answer

I prefer traditional, the way it has worked for thousands of generations seems to be the best of all possible ways of pair bonding. I don't want a masculine woman, it's such a turn off.

micheal727jovanie · Answer

She needs to be a virgin or at least have had little to no partners. Most Modern girls be catching more bodies than the first 48. Just saying...🤷🏽‍♂️

kkirk4442 · Answer

More traditional for me, but not entirely traditional.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Traditional all the way. When you raise your own children, you get a much superior result, and can teach them morals like public education can't.

CentralPerk77 · Answer

May I ask - what do you mean modern or traditional?

ariadneR · Answer

Traditional, it fits better with my morals and values. The family dynamic, the respect for others.

TurboKid · Answer

Traditional enough to recognize the beauty of it but modern enough to challenge some ideas of it.

Caliguy88 · Answer

A mix. Traditional in the sense she can act respectable at a county club but modern in the sense of travel and enjoy city life.

dray995 · Answer

Traditional because if something works great, it doesn’t need to be changed.

Nikolai2004 · Answer

I'm traditional and I would prefer traditional women.

Danish87 · Answer

Traditional with a pinch of modernization to add test to married life.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

A decent mixture of both, inclined more towards traditional.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Someone that's free and can think for herself and isn't bound by expections of tradition nor anyone and has a good personality and is Godly Christian for me is what matters.

Sarahnah · Answer

Modern. I want to have a partner, not be someone's pet.

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

To fuck is to betray.
If modern means 'to fuck around' that is not marriage, that is communism.
To marry is a contract of financial and sexual complete fidelity. So there is no 'modern marriage' - that is like saying 'a square ball'

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

It depends how you define “modern” and “traditional.”

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

My man is a mix of both and I hope I get to marry him!

Yellovv · Answer

I need both, woman should be smart and clever (don't get me wrong) sometimes their family doesn't let them go to school or work..

RingOfFire · Answer

"I don't have time to teach a modernized guy how to fight, fish, fix things, or f&$k" 🤣🤣🤣

Guanfei · Answer

Traditional if possible, but not "middle age" traditional, I want a wife, not a servant.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

I think I would be able to deal with both types, so I do not have a preference. At least I prefer to believe this.

crmoore · Answer

Both/a combination. There are aspects of traditionalism that I like, and aspects of modernism that I like.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I am ok with either sort of woman, I just doesn't hurt to be a heartless jerk.

Justneedtokno · Answer

Both please. I like to consider myself Traditional with a modern twist

Rennitenn · Answer

Traditonal on all points. Non traditional has lent itself to toxic in recent times. Used to be dead opposite. I hated traditional. Live and learn.

OddBeMe · Answer

Traditional: having her father paying me a dowry and me having the right to rape her at will.

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