1. Men don't want to be tied down just yet and that's just fine. Everyone doesn't want to be tied down by commitment and responsibilities.
2. Women are picky as heck.
3. Some men are actually legitimately scared to get married for reasons other than commitment. Marriage is legal and gets federal super quick. So if something were to happen to get the government involved, they are more inclined to listen to the lady than the guy.
4. Because they can.
5. Marriage is usually the last thing on our minds because we're too busy living our best lives.
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You need to understand that a guy's brain doesn't even fully form till about 25. They have no business making any life-changing decisions till after that.
In many cultures around the world the women actually love and respect their men. Something sadly missing in American culture. Here the girls think they're the boss, are a princess, and everybody should bow down to them.
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Probably the guys who are keeping the marriage rate from getting into the teens percentage.
If you really look close at what the majority of these "older" men who get married look like what they do for work, hobbies and if you can their overall general health and you'll will find they always had disabilities that denied or greatly diminished their chances of sex their whole lives and the only thing they have/that they had to work years for to get is money. Typically most of the men in the group are over 34 marry mostly younger women by a few years but not the norm of close to ten years younger for men who marry earlier. \
So in conclusion these are the men who never got the kind of sex (some none) and in the amounts desirable men their age had when they were younger and it took them till they were much older to get the money to attract women and get a decent amount of sex. But they will never know the feeling of having lots/great/often sex as only a young man can. They are the bottom of the barrel aged leftovers.I married at 23
My sister married at 19
My brother married 21
My mom married at 17
Honestly feel like it depends on how you were raised, how the economy looks, if you found the right person, or if you got pregnant that one was a big factor back then.
Everyone seems to miss the when your ready but being married and having a family helps you grow.
From what I have heard guys most of the time are not ready and women are tired of bad relationships and sacrificing thier youth for a possible failed marriage. A lot of women are now expressing thier sexuality like men and do not want to be attached.
A lot of men are not as confident in themselves and media kinda pushes sex as thier main importance as well as being the economy how it is it leaves them dependent on others which also makes them feel less of themselves.
You look at back then to now you can see the big difference in maturity and influences.Because in America women have initial value in their beauty and fertility with decreases over time while men’s value is at its lowest early in and grows as he accumulates wealth, status, maturity.
1. While women have something of a timer on their beauty or fertility men have a longer period to shine.
2. It’s normal here for people to prioritize the present over the future and selfishly pursue personal desire. As women’s and men’s value peaks they can’t help but take advantage of it. Women start early sleeping around and partying while men tend to start later when the men have enough value to women to get laid. Then after their done having fun both sides settle down.
3. Men often see women as dangerous so their more uncomfortable and less likely to pursue. Both in society and court women’s opinions are treated as more valuable and their word is truth while men are lying.That's a common thing in most of the west
a lot of people don't really seek marriage anymore mostly due to financial reasons
Marriage isn't cheap and the number of skilled labourers in the world is plummeting, and thus not many people are making decent wages until they are olderLife in the US is rough right now. Many men are very poor and very stressed out.
50% of all men under 30 in the US can't afford to live alone in an apartment.
That's why. Then, on the other hand, those who got good incomes at 23 got greedy and had too much random sex with random people. So we got two extremes with no happy mediums.I think foreign women are ideal for marriage. American women are as a whole woefully pathetic and unmarriageable. Men wait because we see crap women available to us at 18 so we work hard and keep looking then we are in our 30s and we are now thinking we can get better women and we find out the women are just as shitty and useless its just easier to get them.
When i say useless i mean they are all sluts or fat or have zero wife skills. How can a man marry someone like that? Wtf?Because are are tired of it:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/14EsY2YagbQI’d prefer a foreign woman, American women are all neurotic attention whores, 40 pounds overweight and think they are Gods gift to men.
there's no age limit on marriage. and some will be happy to marry foreign people yes, don't see the reason for the caps XD
When Men enters their 20s its a time to find ourself inside and out. then we marry in our 30-40 or if things dont go well we stay single n keep searching
Two reasons, we need to get our life in order, I wasn't stable until I was 28.. And the foreign question. Probably the same reason I married a small town conservative girl. They are just better. Modern leftist women aren't women..
Do they? doesn't sound really true at all. But a lot of people date late in the US because of the drinking age being 21 so they only really start going to bars after that. Might have something to do with it
I wasn't aware they did. I learn something every day.
American women want a 7ft tall billionaire athlete. Online dating has made them unwilling to settle for an equal. So most men I know ether gave up dating entirely or go overseas.
American court system benefits women to much.
And women are whores who only date rich men.. and men don't get rich until later on in lifeBecause we want to fuck around as much as we can before we say I do and We want to be 100% sure. Because women have the power to fuck over men in a divorce
Men should marry late, its only later in life that men achieve their full potential and achieve comparable sexual market value as women do in their youth (late teens and early 20s) so why not?
You said > Why do American men marry late? LİKE 35-40 AND DO THEY LIKE TO MARRY WITH A FOREIGN?
Maybe they prefer to marry late as then they know the person they're marrying has proper grammar and spelling abilities. Kids whose parents can write above 8th grade usually do better in life.
I'm sorry but your question makes little sense. You're half whining they marry late & then the "do they like to marry with a foreign (aka foreigner) implies you're wanting to know if older men marry foreigners rather than whining about it.Some men do marry foreign women, but a foreign woman isn’t going to be interested in marrying a guy until he is making decent money
Can't seem to find a serious relationship. Yes I would marry a foriegn woman.
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