If you were to propose or be propose to, how would you like it to go?

[Anonymous]

[MrtoddsWildRide]

The only time I ever proposed was with my ex-wife. We were living together before marriage and I had this whole romantic thing planned with taking her out to dinner at a place that had beautiful indoor gardens. I was going to suggest a walk through them and ask her there on one knee.
When the morning of the big day came, I got up before her and was unable to wait. I woke her up with the ring and asked her. She cried and was unable to answer in actual words so she just let out an "uh huh" with a big teary smile.
For me, that was perfect.

[Kkstarzz96]

What changed?

[MrtoddsWildRide]

@Kkstarzz96
I wish I could tell you. I spent the last few years of marriage asking her what had happened that she didn't love me anymore, how could I fix this, what did I wrong, etc...
She never gave me an answer, just "I'm angry with you, but I don't know why"

[Kkstarzz96]

Oh, aw. Well if nothing traumatic happened other than the fact it didn't work, then you don't have to feel guilt that you can't properly love someone, it wasn't you.

[BCRanger10]

I'm already married. However, if I had the chance, I'd propose to my wife again, only the way I had originally intended to.

I wanted to take her to this fountain where we had our first kiss and propose to her there. The problem is the weather that day was terrible and she and I were both feeling a little bit sick. So I proposed to her in the front hallway of the house I lived in at the time. I still feel bad that I couldn't make it as special as I thought it should have been.

[jennifer_bloom]

A lot of guys like the surprise technique but I hate that cause a ring hidden in your food is a choking hazard and a ring hidden in your belongings might accidentally get thrown outs My dream proposal is a valentines teddy bear on a day other than Valentine’s Day, carrying a pouch or bag with a ring in it and a home made strawberry shortcake cake for dinner and a holiday costume party where we dress up like anime characters or cartoon ones or puppet characters.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Something intimate and private. Showing that he has put effort and thought into it.
Something that will represent our relationship.

I don't like being specific when it comes to something like that.

And I am very much against public proposals.

[Asker]

Would a public yet somewhat secluded area work for you? Like beach, movie theater, a large park, etc

[Little_Bumblebee]

Not a movie theater.
But if the place had a significant meaning to our relationship and we were secluded, then yes.

Personally, I really love bridges over water and if there were nature around and lights in the dark, giving that romantic atmosphere.

[Kkstarzz96]

Well I didn't think this through since it's all on the guy but when I was a senior in high school I knew how I wanted to be asked to prom, I wanted a guy to ask me to meet him later and find clues that would lead me to the orchestra room where they'd play something, it just has to have music. I hope he just asks cause I want to hear what he feels about me between us, I feel like it's intimate why someone chose to ask you, but it's okay if other people watch and admire. I'm not big on flowers since they're usually used to apologize for something lol and balloons go to waste. I just hope he smiles big while he's talking so I know he's happy and doesn't feel like he has to ask me, he wants to.

[ghostfacesoldier]

Honestly anything that isn’t in a public setting. Personally I would absolutely hate for it to be a big grand gesture in front of people where all eyes are on us and feeling pressured to say yes.
I personally would much rather an intimate setting between us. Doesn’t even have to be anything fancy whatsoever. As long as it isn’t cliche in a restaurant, in front of fkn Mickey Mouse etc.

[brezzybaby]

I have been dreaming of the day I get proposed to and get to walk down the aisle ever since I was a little girl. I can't wait for that day and I hope it goes smoothly but I won't be the one who asked him to marry me cause I feel like that is the man's job , and I am all about morals and shit.

[cryscrys1]

No proposing
I’m very impatient lol I’m from the Balkans short tempered
He should be like - here is your ring without a box pulling it out from his pocket is enough and say let’s get married.

[yofuknutz]

Fuck it let's go for it bro!

[cryscrys1]

😂😂

[yofuknutz]

There is one caveat I have learnt this the extremely hard way it was also a warning on how things were going to be but I was young and naive turn off your cell phone or put your cell phone on airplane mode so nobody can interrupt us because when that happens it really makes the moment priceless actually worthless

[Anonymous]

An intimate setting. Maybe Rose's everywhere. That's it

[Anonymous]

I would like something as simple and beautiful as possible.

[Anonymous]

you're dumb hole do not answer your cell phone how about that

[BCA6010]

Well hopefully she'd say yes...

[lilaccc]

simple will do. and not in public😅