Why am I still single?

[cth2188]

Friends and family are married..

Is it due to lack of marriage mates?

[HollyK21]

I thought you were saying you’re done waiting around because you’ve been single most of your life? It’s cool if you do want someone, but you’re very stern about your expectations and they’re hard to find within one person. Pagan, unvaxxed, not many of those walking around. Maybe just focus on yourself until the right person comes along..

[cth2188]

No I don’t want anyone why is it a must I be involved if I’m asking a general question? This may have something to do with the quality of mates

[cth2188]

Even with my friends and family married their having a hard time within those marriages

[HollyK21]

But that just doesn’t make sense. You’re question is ‘why am I single’, then you listed off suggestions as to why. So if you don’t want anyone then what’s the point here?

[cth2188]

This has nothing to do with me being pagan and unvaxxed - this is in regards to a decline in the marriage and dating world - finding such a mate on my end would be hard

[cth2188]

Cause I need married people to answer to give me insight on marriage in this day and time

[HollyK21]

I’m saying those qualities are what you seek in someone, you literally told me that in our last conversation. You said he has to be pagan and unvaxxed.

[HollyK21]

So if you’re generally asking “why are people single?”, that is an outward question and makes sense. But you ask why YOU are single.

[HollyK21]

If you’re asking just a generic question then it probably would’ve been better to word it that way?

[cth2188]

I don’t date men so. I don’t know where your getting that information from and secondly I am not holding my breathe on an unvaccinated and pagan mate in today’s climate. My odds are already against me so I don’t bother. Those are qualities in a mate ( her.) if I were dating

[cth2188]

Due to dating of today it maybe why I’m still single same thing with the decline in marriage

[HollyK21]

How long is too long to be single? ↗

[HollyK21]

A link to our conversation where you said VERBATIM that the guy you want has to be vaxxed and pagan. That’s where I’m getting this information from so please stop making it sound like I’m making things up.

[HollyK21]

As I said before, if the question here is not in regards to your OWN dating life, then that’s fine. But your question is specifically “why am I (you as a person) single”.

[cth2188]

Your spending too much time analyzing my life

[HollyK21]

You’ve dismissed yourself, so go. Goodnight.

[cth2188]

You too and stoop stalking me and exposing my who private life - I don’t go around telling everyone oh I’m pagan

[HollyK21]

Also, no one analyzed your life. I just don’t appreciate you acting like we didn’t have a conversation about this yesterday. That’s not stalking love it’s still right there on my feed, I’m not on here much.

[cth2188]

That’s private

[HollyK21]

You told me you’re pagan. So what’re you talking about.

[HollyK21]

Then don’t share it publicly? I don’t know you, and you took it upon yourself to share that Information. That’s a choice.

[cth2188]

I don’t broadcast my life around your strange af -

[HollyK21]

Really? Because you’re sure did post it publicly and not privately. Maybe you have mental issues or something I don't know. Please seek help, if you aren’t already. I mean that in a genuine way, your behavior is very strange.

[HollyK21]

Anyway, you’ve said goodbye and so have I so let’s just hang up this pointless conversation. Have a good one, take care of yourself.

[JosyJosy]

Have been using every way of finding love? Have you been approaching?

[cth2188]

Me finding the type of partner I want extremely hard. I’m focused on other things right now

[cth2188]

I don’t care about love , but how dating is may contribute to why I’m still single

[JosyJosy]

So not being open to the guys interested in love already cuts away half of the guy population. That said, with high criteria of course it will be hard. But there is nothing wrong with it, as long as To Them you bring just as much to the table as you're looking for in a partner

[cth2188]

I don’t date men and if my partner is not what I’m seeking I won’t waste my time nor am I settling

[cth2188]

I’m lesbian so I don’t date men - if she is vaccinated it’s a big F no - not dating anyone vaccinated with snake venom in them

[Sixgunsound]

Looking for pagan AND unvaxed? Do you know any Asatru? If kids are even a possibility I can see why you would want a father whose genes haven’t been altered.

[cth2188]

No I don’t sorry ; it would be hard for find such a person in today’s climate. I’ve given up on the ideal now

[cth2188]

No I don’t want kids and I know all this with COVID-19 has F up a lot

[Berethor]

Because you choose to be single, it usually not hard for a woman to find someone.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenActWomenAre

[cth2188]

Partial- yeah it is due to beliefs if you have any

[Berethor]

Rare beliefs, yea.

[cth2188]

Yep why it’s so hard

[FunkyMonkee]

Been asking the same question for decades!!

[cth2188]

Do you think there’s a decline in marriage?

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, the dramatic increase in divorce doesn't help matters, much. You get married one day and a few months/years later, you get a divorce and try it again with someone else, get a divorce, look for someone else. Wouldn't it be much better to make sure it's the right person than to just rush into it?

[cth2188]

My sister got married last year and is about to divorce less then a year now - I don’t see the benefit of getting married nowadays

[cth2188]

I’ve come to the realization marriage is off the table

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, at least for guys!1 These days, it's more like, "You're the one I wanna give half my stuff to and most of my money to after we divorce!"

[cth2188]

Right it’s crazy

[Enigma07]

You told no to the man that wanted to give you everything.

[cth2188]

I don’t date men

[cth2188]

At this point I don’t want to date now - it’s too complicated to date now

[Enigma07]

I don't understand why is complicated if you only date men. If you date men, then I can tell you why, but if you date women I really don't understand why is complicated. Are you looking for a serious relationship? LTR?

[Enigma07]

* I don't understand why is complicated if you only date women.

[cth2188]

I don’t date men- men and women play games.. I put the dating world ; don’t know if I’m going back into the dating world

[Enigma07]

That's true, nowadays people are focusing in an illusion and forgetting their priorities in life. I can't never be gay, but dating an honest women is impossible. The most honest women that I have found are the ones that guys tend to throw rocks at them, unfortunately. Anyways I"m going to tell you something that you will not believe it. :D I was married for 14 years and I never cheated on my ex-wife. Even knowingly that she did and I wanted to get her back, I still couldn't, I don't know why. I always told the women that wanted to sleep with me this: "I know that I'm going to regret this for the rest of my life, but I can't"

[cth2188]

Realizing being single is better then dating nowadays

[Enigma07]

Unfortunately it is true for you. But not for men. You have the power to be single and live a happy life.

[Zygum]

You know the reason, not the GAG

[cth2188]

Nope I don’t why is there a decline in marriage in 2022

[Zygum]

I don't know your situation, never met you, so hard to tell the reason

[Enigma07]

I just divorce my wife about 2 month ago. All my friends are still married and that's because they cheat on each other, I guess that's the only way to stay in a marriage nowadays?

[Zygum]

@Enigma07 cheaters will be losers one day

[cth2188]

It’s pointless to get married