Marriage & Weddings

Why is he really refusing to wear a ring?

He is 34 and I am 33. He told me he refuses to wear a ring and says it makes him feel gay like submissive. He told me that he doesn’t like wearing jewelry. We got into this big fight about it and basically he’s being manipulative saying that my feelings for him are only worth a piece of metal if that’s how I feel and I told him that’s not fair and that a lot of people think this way and want each other to wear rings. He said he was still marry me and then I will wear a ring. But he will give me a ring. I said I am worth it for him to wear a ring and it shouldn’t be that big of a deal. Basically we are taking a break now because it’s so important to me but he’s refusing and it’s hurting my feelings and it’s hurting my heart. Why is he like this I told him he could get a tatted instead. I don’t get why he’s being like this. And why he can’t just wear a ring I told him it solidifies our relationship and commitment And love it’s a symbol etc. It’s an honor thing and a respect thing. It’s being proud that you’re married man thing. And shows people you’re not single etc. like I don’t make the rules why can’t he just wear one. He treats me so good otherwise but this is very important to me why is he being like this. His dad never wore one and his parents are very happy and Ihave been together for years. But his dad was in the army and couldn’t wear one because of his job which is completely different. Anyway we’re fighting about this and we basically took a break and I can’t sleep my heart hurts and he’s hurt. Like I don’t understand why he’s hurt it doesn’t make sense
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WE aren't MARRIED YET. But have been talking about it for quite some time. He’s not cheating and he’s loyal
Why is he really refusing to wear a ring?
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