Do you agree or disagree: my friends says a marriage based on money or looks will not last?

[jennifer_bloom]

Agree

Disagree

[Dchrls78104]

Agree. Looks and money don't guarantee love or compatibility. Lots of money or eye-blinding good looks hardly compensate for unhealthy communication patterns or defective or unstable personalities.

[JesseJayNeak]

Definitely agree

[Tinana]

You need money long term. I really don’t care about looks just look normal 🥰 you can fall in love with someone but to get married you need to talk about finances because lack of money can leave you frustrated and then end the relationship. But if you fall for the money no feelings then know you’re settling for less emotionally and so it won’t last long term. You need to be in love and have good finances as well

[Anonymous]

Looks don’t last, show me any 50 yr old, 60 yr old, 70 yr old or 80 yr old that looks 20? In terms of money in this cut throat capitalist, high inflation system, good luck “saving” money. People in this generation who are young, brash and arrogant chasing perfection from this world use these ideas the same way they try to use drugs 🚬 and booze 🥃 to drown their sorrows, simply a facade.

Girls on GAG rip me apart throughout the years asking simple questions like how should I approach girls? I’ve used dating apps — Tinder, Bumble, Plenty of Fish, Happn and I have not met one girl on any app, ever. I will not find love, I will not have sex with a woman, I will not get married. For a guy who’s tried to be loyal and understanding and not a fuck boy. I officially give up and now I’m going to screw around with women and if that means I break their heart, so be it…Oh I fucking mean it. If any girls wanna dislike this comment, be my guest :-)

[ArrowheadSW]

Well, I know a guy who makes a decent amount of money, and he goes for the ladies with "the looks". He just divorced his 3rd wife and he is engaged to his 4th now. I really am not sure what his "issues" are, as I don't know him all that well. But he has this history of going from one to the next.

[Kaamraj]

It has been my experience in life that money can fix a lot of your problems. Marriage based on looks dont work because looks fade, that is the nature of looks. But money generally only increases with time, it gives a reason for the couple to stay together as they enjoy the collective wealth.

[horsenrhinounicorn]

Take a look at 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
In every place where there is love, does that mans name fit that characteristic. If you swapped his name in each spot where there is love would it be true?

[Mamaivie92]

Waow, wich religion do you follow? Answers based on de Bible are always the best answers

[horsenrhinounicorn]

@Mamaivie92 I don’t consider myself a religious person, by definition as some might say as trying to achieve religious acts before man, but rather having a personal relationship with my heavenly father who knows my heart and my motives. I believe that God so loved the world that he sent his only begotten son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish, but have everlasting life. God did not send his son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. I pick a church that lives in context with the written word rather than the motivation of the desire of the flesh.

[Anonymous]

I think that's the definition of a good marriage. Because both sides get a great deal. That's what most men and women want. The other equally important thing is the ability of both sides to manage the relationship. Add enough sex and an agreement on the number of children. There! You have a perfectly happy marriage. Love is B. S. 😍

[Nata2496]

Your friend is smart. People ought to be compatible to be married.

[WhitneySnow]

Real love on both sides is the best way to make any relationship last

[Hulk30]

because most people dont understand that sexual relationships especially are a business and who ya get married to is actually a business partner they also dont understand that marriage is spiritual not legal proof of that is no couple in the holy bible we're ever considered married until 2 things happened sex and a commitment afterwards a good youtube channel to watch provin that is diggin in the word with Mike Allen

[DaisyM23]

I mean, personally, it's terrible to base a marriage off looks or money because neither is permanent and it doesn't really guarantee love, but it can work for some people I guess

[Emilyis]

Only idiots get married for money. It can disappear in a heart beat. It's the same as getting married for sex when you have only had sex with them and Never made love. You are missing the point.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Money is a virtual concept and a very dependent on the nation at that. Beauty is temporary.

What do you think?

[exitseven]

These marriages can last. They are more like business transactions and sometimes people can make them work. I always say that if you marry for money you will ultimately pay for it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Partially disagree. Looks are a very important and natural part of sexual chemistry between two people.

[TacosRAwesome]

Kinda agree but a marriage with someone that doesn't excite you won't last either.

[Titanic1912]

I completely agree ! A marriage won’t last if Jesus Christ is not right in the middle of it.

[Mamaivie92]

Then make him b in de middle. It's always up to each single one of us.
Good comment!

[Creampiekarl420]

I disagree marriage has more to do with money than love and less to do with looks than happiness

[jennifer_bloom]

We all need money but God gives you money when you seek Him, not so you can buy a Benz but so you can have rice and fish.

[Creampiekarl420]

God can’t be counted on ma’am he doesn’t care about our lives here only life after death

[jennifer_bloom]

He does if you seek Him before it’s too late.

[Creampiekarl420]

Define seek him

[Creampiekarl420]

Because you people love saying that but not what it actually means

[jennifer_bloom]

I do it by meditating and repeating his words in the bible or by pursuing His presence by dwelling on it and thinking about it

[ACR130]

Agree, yet people keep doing it. Geez I wonder why? Probably because of the increase of idiots and increase of it will work out syndrome.

[yosef999]

Love and respect always work better than anything else

[Desiree41]

It may last for some time but you gotta remember, both money and looks isn't forever like love can be

[Guy__]

What's the point of this post?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

It will last as long as the money and looks last.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Sounds basic but correct

[Jltakk]

Money and looks are superficial.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah I agree

[Guardian45]

Your friend is wise!

[Anonymous]

That won't last.