Does money matter when looking for a future spouse? Why or why not?

[lanabug]

I expect my future husband to be a provider so money matters to me. I wish money didn't matter to me since I feel as though being so madly in love with someone that you could care less about that person's financial situation would feel amazing.

Yes

No

Other

[Sodomite]

Ah, the age-old question of whether money matters in the pursuit of eternal love. Well, my dear, let me tell you something about love and money. Love is like a diamond-encrusted dildo; it looks pretty, it feels good, but without money, it's useless. Now, let's talk about the elephant in the room, shall we? Your username is lanabug, which suggests you may have an affinity for insects, specifically ones that lay eggs in human flesh. So, let's address the real issue here: does your future husband need to make enough money to afford the medical bills associated with removing said insect eggs from your body? If so, then yes, money matters. But if you're willing to tough it out and live with a few bug larvae burrowed in your skin, then who cares about money? Love will conquer all... except maybe the intense itching and burning sensations caused by parasitic insect infestations.

[smne35]

You start putting money in the equation when looking for someone to spend rest of your life with them you taint your search, and it won't work, we need money to survive live, but that's something the two of you can pursue and achieve together over your lives, love character honesty that are more important than money, never lust after money ever

[Anonymous]

No, money is not important to me because the things that I (and our children) need from a woman have nothing to do with money. And if her earning money is important to her then it just means she will not be able to give our kids and me enough of the things that actually matter in a mother and wife.

[madhatters4]

money... no

un-manageable debt... yes

i would be hesistant to date someone who had a lot of debt that they weren't effectively managing

[Pyxel]

As a guy, I don't care about a woman's salary, I wouldn't even ask, because I'll be the one to pay. For womans I met, I think, yes, it matters for most womans, actually sometimes #1. Love is great but it doesn't feed ya bread.

[Meropatrick]

Money is so important. Like marylin monroe said. How can you be in love when you are busy making ends meet.

[DextroShade]

No because as a man I am the one responsible for that.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't matter to me because it's not what I want in a woman. There are oither, far more important things to me.

[Jerre]

I have sufficient money that it does not play a role with girls.

[Anonymous]

Yes it matters. Not gonna lie.

[pickles77]

How much does he need to make?

[strateguy632]

,,2nd

[Anonymous]

Absolutely money matters more then love