Is it bad to think about wanting to have a family and get married in the future?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I would say yes. If you’re doing things backwards, this according to a few financial experts is one sure way to end up in poverty. The suggestion is that you finish school, maybe college or trade school, meet someone, date, marriage then kids. I’m sure just like me, we all know people who did things backwards who are now living paycheck to paycheck. Not all, but a good amount.

[one1wild00]

Nope, not at all, sounds like you are like me and many others where the drive to have a family and kids is very strong.

[Sour-rose]

That has to be the dumbest thought I've heard today. Honey, what do you think? Eventually, you gonna die. And no one is gonna judge what you want in the future... because no one will care but you.

[eblehe]

Hahah true that

[Smoke-n-Growls]

No, it's actually really good. Taking time before you get to that stage to explore and think through what you want out of life is a good thing.

[Markie-mark]

No, reproduce and multiply, don't sterilize and nullify

[Anonymous]

Why would it be bad? Have you been reading too many feminist books or something?

[TuxTheAstronaut]

no nothing wrong with that

[TheMajesticKing777]

Nope.

[Asker]

A lot of people I know say stay single don't have kids

[TheMajesticKing777]

That is because these people know they aren't up for the responsibility, if you know you are up for the responsibility and you are willing to make sacrifices and you know you are then you thinking about having a family in the future is something you should think of if it's what you want, what people say isn't always right, do what you want to do with your life not what other people say

[BCRanger10]

No. Why would it be?

[Asker]

People say I'm too young to think about that

[BCRanger10]

How old are you, if I may ask?

[Asker]

20...

[BCRanger10]

You're fine. We as a society would be much better off if people would start making these decisions closer to your age, where ad many today don't seem to give it a passing thought until their late 20s and early 30s. Marriage is about growing with and adapting to another person for life growing in love with them. It's easier to make those decisions and changes when you're younger.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Yes it is bad...