Me and my fiancée got in a big fight about prenup and called wedding off. I wrote him to talk but no response. What is happening and what should I do?

[goldenbunny007]

We were supposed to be moving in 2 weeks to another state also so now it’s all confusing what’s happening

[Smoke-n-Growls]

That's a lot to unpack.

Call a couple's counsellor. Maybe call a lawyer (for the prenup and for the realtor).

But yeah, that's... One step at a time. Get yourself settled for now, and figure it out from there.

Do what you need to be safe and stable independently, then you can take time to untangle the mess.

[RuthlessAggression]

I wish girls didn't put up such a fight about prenups. I don't understand why it's such a big thing with them. Marriages can and often do fail. Why should we say we have to give up half our stuff, in case of a divorce or whatever it is. It's OUR stuff. You didn't buy it. WE DID

If you come to understand this, you'll be able to get married but right now, he's upset that's what you're doing. You're saying "I don't think this marriage will fail". But they do. From the sound of it already, it sounds like it will, too

[doe9de]

If you've gotten that far don't give it up instead make up. Arguments are the worst in a relationship its important to come to some sort of middle ground or just let one or the other have it there way time to time rather then argue about it.

[goldenbunny007]

He hasn’t responded to me in 5 days.

[doe9de]

Then go find him and get him to listen to you.

[Texasgal95]

Maybe y’all should have talked about it while y’all were still dating

[jshm2]

You tell me what's happening, you idiot.

Prenup should have been discussed before he signed up to be your fiancé.

[jahaims]

If you guys can't even agree on a prenup you shouldn't get married.

[Anonymous]

Why did you get in a fight about a prenup? Do you have a problem signing one? If so, he's doing the right thing.

[goldenbunny007]

No I want a prenup but the one he gave isn’t safe for me.

[Opinion Owner]

What was unsafe about it?