What age do you think is right to get married?

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DJB72 · Accepted Answer

The age is immaterial. The issue is mutual maturity.

For a marriage to work you need to be able to communicate effectively with your husband/wife. That means being able to admit you're not perfect and acknowledge your own need for growth. It means both of you accept responsibility for any hurt - because if you're hurting there's a good chance they are, and if they're not you need to re-evaluate the relationship.

Marriage isn't about one partner "dominating" the other. It's about mutual submission. The most frequently misunderstood biblical teaching on marriage says the wife must "submit" to the husband. It usually stops there, twisting the original intent Paul had when he wrote it; husbands should show the same level of sacrificial love to their wives that Christ showed the Church, even to laying down their life for her sake. A lot of churches get very uncomfortable when you mention that.

Middleman · Accepted Answer

For marriage, I don't think there is really any real set age. People will mostly marry when they feel they are ready physically, mentally, emotionally and financially.

However for those who want to raise a family they do tend to be much earlier because most don't want to still be raising their kid/s when they are deep in their middle-ages, or/are physically less strong and ready for retirement (so are unable to support their kids). Also having children at a younger age tends to allow for a greater bond between the parents generally as the age gap difference is less, so when they get older they find they have much more in common.

cryscrys1 · Accepted Answer

There is no right age ,

Being married is like a full time job. It’s full of responsibilities/ conversations. Getting cleared like bursar at college!
You can’t go out partying late at night and come home at 3 am and tell your husband wassup ~

If you feel like you are mature enough to hold a family that comes with its responsibilities such as money , children, sudden life changes from the job , etc etc then go for it.

I’m not married but I have observed it from family members and seeing how they got divorced etc.

I just read a question here at gag age 25-30
asking “ I love my co worker I’m Married what do I do “
That’s observing too
See that goes right to my frontal lobe as a learning tool and observing!
Cognitive functions are there for a reason.

Use them wisely ⭐️

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Only lucky people get married at early age. I’m never going to be married so idc what age is good. But I guess when you are ready mentally and financially. I’m turning 25 this year and I feel ready have a boyfriend living with me and have life together but it’s impossible find a boyfriend to meet parents and want live with me. So I’m kinda stuck depresed empty in life rn as I’m ready follow a guy but I can’t so I’m empty. Instead of being happy glowing looking for apartment together dating daily weekly spending time with each others family like normal couples I’m just alone wasting my life away. I eat work sleep that’s it. I can’t cook for a guy and wait for him come home daily after work. I’m so ready that I have nothing left to do in life but that. Imgathering savings at moment for my future and baby but thats it.

Pinay_ako · Answer

There’s no right age, it’s at when you’re ready to commit to one person for a lifetime. You can be 22 or 40 or 60…

Qdbrown · Answer

I know everyone wants to get at somepoint. That said, the real reason is to start families.

Its best to get married after you finish your formal education, and not wait too long for fun. Many young people are told go live it up, party and do some stuff.

Here is the rub, the more relationships a woman has, the less important they are to her. After strings of relationships, she will have no problem moving on, if just bored. A woman with less partners will value her relationship more, and less likely to leave during the bad and hard times. There are exceptions, but that is pretty par for the course.

Of course, this is all dependent if a couple wants kids. If kids are not a thing, marriage is kind of an unneccesary pursuit. Stay single and live your life to the end.

Kaneki05 · Answer

+30 the reason is simple because you want to wait until a year comes along which don't have much celebrate then you can be bam here's a reason. I don't find marriage very important mind you, I just see it as a reason to throw a party. Because if you've committed to a person and already told them you love them a legal contract ain't needed to say you do.
But let's say it is important and you got together in your 20s by your +30 you would have been together long enough to know it's not rushing and you are made for each other.

Losalt · Answer

Well...
It depends...
But it's normal to do so late here.
And that also allow you to establish yourself and ensure that you have a strong foundation for a home for your kids if you want that *after* marriage as opposed to before.
Also, by then you actually know if you *want* to stay together for a lifetime.
Younger people think that they've figured it out.
But in reality they're still trying to figure things out...
Technically we are too, but adding a extra decade helps.
It would be nice to wait even longer, but girls are on a clock if they want to become pregnant (assuming pregnancy after marriage).

RedThread · Answer

Whenever people are financially and mentally prepared for that responsibility. People reach that stage at different points in life and there's nothing wrong with that. This answer is based on the assumption that the person even wants to get married to begin with, of course.

I voted 30+ since I'm 34 and unmarried. I'm kind of antisocial and introverted (not the same thing) so it doesn't matter to me whether or not I get married or have kids or end up with someone in any kind of romantic situation. If it happens then cool but if it doesn't that's cool too.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

If a girl gets married in her early 20's oh she's ruined her life so young. If a girl decided to get married at age 30 it's bad guys jump to conclusions that she was whoring around and no guy wants us why? Because 30 year olds Apparently are ageist!

AviatorTom · Answer

There is no ideal age number to get married. It really depends on each individual couple. Overall, from the three choices in the question, late 20s might be best... old enough to have experienced things and become more emotionally and financially stable, young enough to have many years ahead of them to raise a family, if that's what they want.

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letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

For women, probably around 21-25 and for guys, around in their 30s. Whenever a person is in their prime or close to it so they have the most options and don't get stuck in a bad relationship. Marriage is expensive and divorce is a wreck.

Twalli · Answer

I don't think there's an age. It should be based on relationship length and comfort. I think you shouldn't get engaged before dating 3 years, preferably living together for one of them.
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 4 years and 1 month. While we haven't lived together for a straight year, we would have barring COVID-19. So for her it's a bit different, because she spends every available moment with me, we just can't spend every day together.

Seinna · Answer

No sooner than 23, wait until your brain matures and you're more stable and know what you want... after that it's whenever you find the right person. If you are planning for kids then by 30 for women and by 35 for men.

LazerBean · Answer

When both people are mentally and emotionally capable of it, and when they have learned everything essential about eachother.

HighValue · Answer

For women: early to mid 20s.  For men: Never (unless there is a prenuptial agreement) then after 30 when they are more established in life.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

When you are both emotionally, mentally ready to. i went to school with kids who were married and 16 and 17 and are still married.

Reaper1985 · Answer

ideally couples should be together 5+ years before getting married and/or starting a family. so they have time to build a strong foundation and really get to know their partner before getting bond to them for life.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Everyone I know got married before 20, except me... all still happily married. I'd say any time when they feel they are ready to get married is fine.

SaoirseS · Answer

When both parties are ready. I got married three months ago at age 24 1/2, a year before that I would have likely said "not yet."

SolitarySolace · Answer

Where’s the never option?

Spiritofn · Answer

Whenever your happy I couldn’t be overly bothered if I seen 2 fifteen year olds seal the deal, however culture norms in North America would never even give it a possibility especially for certain individuals.

Rania05 · Answer

They say marriage between individuals of 28-32 are the lest likely to get divorce

Blackcosmo · Answer

As soon as they're financially and emotionally/mentally ready. So an estimate would be around 23 maybe but it depends on each person.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Honestly there is no right or wrong age to get married. It's when both people feel comfortable with each other enough to get married. They also have to be ready for all the responsibilities. They are the only ones who can say they are ready.

DoctorSex · Answer

For men mid 30's. For ladies 20-25 Kind regards, DoctorSex

Anonymous · Answer

The actual age is superficial. It depends on the lifestyle of the couple involved. If you do further education, you'll likely do the later. If you don't find someone appropriate, obviously later.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

I don't believe in marriage, the only thing it does now a days is help with taxes.

AsaKyo · Answer

25 to mid 30's seems like a good age range, I suppose  Anything younger than 25 seems kinda weird to me

MCheetah · Answer

26 to 32 is the prime age to get married. Of course, real life is rarely so convenient.

MUHAMMADSHAFFQAT · Answer

16 to 20 very enjoy full this age is original feeling for love

sea_09 · Answer

I think you should at least be 21. Give yourself some time to fully mature and turn into an adult before getting into anything too serious.

DermalPunch · Answer

In this day and age, sooner rather than later.

Titanic1912 · Answer

In-between 25-29. You’re still in young adulthood and the woman will have at least 10 more years for ovulating.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Basically when you have a good connection that uplifts both parties and you're ready to live together and have kids.

Gangactivities911 · Answer

The age that is before she fucked a bunch of other guys. Really before she fucked any other guys. So early I’d say. In fact at 30 I won’t even be interested unless the girl is much younger

notwoke · Answer

around age 65 or 70, a man should marry an 18 yr old girl so he can enjoy great sex during the final chapter of his life. Prior to this, marriage is just a life ruining prison for men.

Bmories99 · Answer

Really it's going to depend on the people involved and their maturity.

Sophia001 · Answer

I don't know why people think about marriage

exitseven · Answer

I was 25 but I was really not settled in my life so it was a hard adjustment. I say 35-29

Anonymous · Answer

25-29.. because before that your brain is still developing and you’re stupid

Cubus · Answer

Before 30.  After 30 fertility starts to decline.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

When you’ve met the right person, whether that’s 18, 35 or never.

OddBeMe · Answer

Hard to say. there's no script. No matter what your family says. Things happen in your life when they happen.

Anonymous · Answer

If your a woman it needs to be early 20s a man can wait until his 30s

Staximus · Answer

When you find somebody that really gives a fuck

maximumpower · Answer

>30 - only bc "never" wasn't offered as a choice. Marriage is a scam.

clampfan101 · Answer

Whenever you find the right person and can take care of yourself by yourself.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

at least 18, but i think it shouldn't be before 26

Guardian45 · Answer

When on is physically, mentally, emotionally and financially ready!

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

77. After you no longer have anything to really live for.

VaasMontenegro · Answer

Smart men don't get married. No wife, happy life.

WelcomeToTheSuck · Answer

Really interesting that women are looking forward to marriage than men.

Nikki1989 · Answer

25 and over. 😃

Jessica405 · Answer

143! Why bother getting married?

dustybiker · Answer

When a person is ready.

Miristheiss · Answer

Women: 19-25 Guys: 22-30

Anonymous · Answer

Whenever feels right in my opinion

Subarugirl · Answer

There is not right age...

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

I say early 30s is a good time to start

pizzalovershouse · Answer

When you can afford a house or nice place

Christian65 · Answer

Who the fuck is still geting married? 🤣

Anonymous · Answer

24 for women; 34 for men.

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