Am I wrong for not waiting to get married?

[Anonymous]

So my fiance said he wants me to make at least $30k a year to get married and I get disability now I do make $30k+ but I don't work just go to school to finish my degree. He still doesn't want to get married til I graduate college and get a job in my degree but it'll be years like 5 more years. I told him I don't want to wait that long.

[Gent207-2]

Are sure you want to marry him?

If you two can't agree on a set of goals or a vision of the future, what else can you not agree on?

Kids? - their values or beliefs? Discipline? Circumcision for boys? When to have kids and how many?

Sex, money, kids and in-laws are the pillars of a marriage with some room for compromise.

[Lenell]

If you want to marry for benefits like a business ok but the issue shouldn't come up for a love based marrige.

[Guy13]

Your decision 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

i don't know what to tell you...

[In_Trance]

what's your hurry?

[Asker]

I don't want my time wasted

[In_Trance]

So a piece of paper validates time well spent?

[Asker]

I don't believe it's just a piece of paper, marriage is important to me and I don't wanna wait so many years and it doesn't work out

[In_Trance]

I didn't ask if it was important I asked what your hurry is. If it's meant to be it will happen. If it's not you'll go your separate ways whether there's a piece of paper or not