Isn’t it scary when looking for a spouse and then deciding when you want to marry someone?

[Anonymous]

I don’t have anyone at the moment. But it’s like what if you like or possibly love somebody, but you’re not sure if you want them to that extent, but if you let that person go there’s no guarantee you’ll find somebody else. It’s taking a chance. And if you are a moral person who has an issue with divorce, it makes it more complicated

[JustAnj]

It's frightening to not know you chose the right partner as life can be unpredictable as people.

When you feel ready to find that person you will know. Work on those fears and try to shift your fears into thinking more confidently.

Do not continue a relationship based off I didn't want to lose you cause I didn't know if I would find someone else.

You being ready and knowing how you feel towards the person your with will allow you that confidence.

You can also set boundaries and be open about possible divorce if the relationship is not working after trying all avenues to resolve what caused the issues in the marriage.

[Asker]

I am a Christian. I don’t believe in divorce unless the other person breaks their vows

[JustAnj]

Then trust that God will bring you the right person and be able to pull away from someone you know is not. ❤️

[LazerBean]

It is for many people. You just have to be careful and be sure before you marry someone. Let your brain do the thinking rather than your feelings or reproductive organs.

[jennifer_bloom]

I just think a lot of people fall into two categories: abusers and cheaters. I’m not talking about broken bones or murder but most relationships have micro aggressions such as angry faces or raised voices, so that is my biggest concern.

[Guy13]

People tell me it happens in 30 minutes.. that you know so Searching is not how that goes. Actively looking for sure BUT love finds you 😎

[FunkyMonkee]

Marrying should be about you being completely comfortable with that person, and vice versa.