Is bad that I don't feel interested in marriage anymore?

[Anonymous]

So I made less money than my fiance and he was saying how we're not equals, I need to make more money, he doesn't want to get married yet. So now I make more money (more than him) and he's adamant about marriage and now I don't feel interested in it anymore. He made me feel bad about money and not being an "equal" I just don't feel excited about it anymore...

[Anonymous]

that's the reality of the world tho... you have to be financially stable in marriage or else it can fall apart. you both need to be able to provide. money problems is the number one cause of divorce so... i don't blame him.

you need to talk this out with him.

[Asker]

I made good enough money to provide equally but it just seems he wanted more. I don't think it should be the main reason to marry someone

[Opinion Owner]

well it seems like money is his main reason so you either need to chat with him or rethink your decision to even marry him in the first place.

[Guy13]

That’s how it is…it’s a rollercoaster ride and only God can get us through it

[TroyDT2]

Not really. He set a standard that he now does not meet.

[Asker]

Yeah I don't care about money, like if he makes more/less. I just want to be treated with respect.

[misogynistic_pig]

If you are young and fertile, yes.