When people use being in a relationship to try to control their partner... Relationship doesn't mean you own that person..
When people think of only "their" happiness/unhappiness and not that of their partner.
Lack of trust...
Poor communication...
Having expectations of your partner you don't fulfill yourself..
People not realizing compromise is a two-way street...
Letting others thoughts/, opinions of your partner/relationship matter more than that of your partner..
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I think many human to human problems come from not being on the same page.
I cannot think of a scenario where not being on the same page isn't the core issue. Speaking in terms of marriage.
The only example, I can think of at this moment, is if two people have zero desire to be in any romantic relationship with anyone anymore.
Then those people are on the same page about separating.
In summary, I'm saying, I personally think the #1 problem is not being on the same page or not have a page to begin with. Page = Vision For Relationship/Life
Ephesians 5 for BOTH Man and woman, Proverbs Wife, Christian family radio etc
I have a whole list that will never ends. For example not spending enough time with spouse. Putting friends and other people first before you're spouse. Not loving your spouse. Videos games. Treating your spouse like the wall. Making your spouse cry. Verbal abuse. Not taking consideration to your spouse opinion. BEING A MOMMAS BOY. Putting your mom first before your wife. Once you are married forget your mother even exist your wife and kids is all that matters. I can't stand intrusive mother in law's.
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Two hard headed and selfish people who don’t compromise
Mostly two people who are not compatible with each other.
But also, many times, one or both partners (but many times just one) is a terrible person with a complete trash personality and narcissistic tendencies and toxic views who just should never be in a relationship with anyone.Lack of honesty and communication. Trust and communication is key to the survival of any relationship and the lack therefore makes a very messy mairraige.
Lack of communication and any interest in working on any issues that arise within the marriage.
If one or both people isn’t happy. If one person ain’t happy. Nobody is so
Poor communications, one-sided companionship, Male dominance or female dominance. Locker love. Lack of caring. Alcohol and drugs. Lack of honesty. Infidelity
No communication, always arguing, greed. The two people are only together because of a child or doing it to show off their peers. There's no love or care in the relationship, just sexual lust.
Not being able to understand eachother. Its one of the worst things to happen.
Lacking what strong love requires, like having good communication and understanding.
When two dominant people want to assume control and do not compromise.
Dishonesty, selfishness
No communication.
No emotional connection
Cheating and lying
People lacking unconditioned love
A narcissistic wife
Boredom
Bad people.
Expectations.
No sex!!!
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