Is it really that hard or difficult to get married?

[Sailormoon95]

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Nope.

My father got married three times, and one of my friends is about to get married for the second time.

[Wiredone]

I don't think anyone should get engaged until you have been dating for at least 5 years. On our 5 year anniversary I got on my knee and proposed. Three months later we got married.

[Wiredone]

Thanks for the mho

[Guy13]

Are you married? then Yes...

[Sailormoon95]

I’m asking for everyone. Cus I’m reading my other posts about my almost proposal and apparently, it takes a lot for a guy to put a ring on the girl. And no, I’m not married.

[Guy13]

It is like everything else... you know when you know...

[Sailormoon95]

Touché

[Guy13]

It is true though... not trying to be a smart ass.

[Anonymous]

Getting married is easy. Finding someone who is worth marrying it is the hard part.

[AsaKyo]

It is if you're me

[Sailormoon95]

Lol that’s kinda sad……tbh

[AsaKyo]

I know

[htmndg183]

Depends. In certain cultures its relatively easy.

[Sailormoon95]

For me, just to keep my so and I private it’s an interracial marriage.

[htmndg183]

Again, depends on both your cultures. Do you or him need family approval?

[Sailormoon95]

Not really

[htmndg183]

Then what seem to be the hurdles? In my culture family approvals are a must if going for a love marriage. Otherwise its very easy in cases of arranged marriage.

[Sailormoon95]

This isn’t about me personally, but a lot other girls seem to have a difficult time getting a ring on their finger. For me, it was around 2 to 6 months when he went down on his knees because we’ve known each other for a long time.

[htmndg183]

Ok. Then i guess its more of the cultural and family thing which can make things hard.

[Sailormoon95]

Probably, for me it was because there was personal things going on in my life when I couldn’t introduce my guy to the family and he would understand in my case.