How do you become wife material?

[Anonymous]

I was told by a guy that i like i wasn't wife material not to him but just in general. He told me that I don't know what it takes or have the qualities to be a wife when he asked me why do i think im wife material.

[Summeroflove]

Well number one you have to find the right guy and keep in mind the fact that what might be wife material for one guy isn't for another. You also need to find men who are into you for who you are and not having to change for people.

There are a few exceptions such as being a good moral person. I would say being a Christian and saving yourself for marriage are two major steps in the right direction for finding a good man.

Just because one guy isn't into you does not mean that no men are into you. I really don't know since I don't know you or how you are or anything else like that. So I am sorry to inform you that I really just simply don't know

[Hellraiser1984]

Being more about family than everything being about you. Be loving and understanding. Accept the fact that your dream guy is just that a dream. He doesn't exist. Let go of dressing risque and dress more conservatively. Your kids will be embarrassed if you dress like hooker. Also learn to accept his flaws. You can't party forever and keeping your booze intake under control is a must especially if you have kids. Get a job that is a reasonable job, not spending your time trying to mooch oof of guys or holding on to getting a dream job like an actor or full time musician. Learn to enjoy the suburbs because you're probably never going to be rich. Plus don't blame him for everything that goes wrong in your relationship and accept that you're both going to screw up from time to time.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

The guy probably just said that to piss you off, so I would take it with a grain of salt.

In my opinion, a woman who's wife material just means having a compassionate and modest personality (being a good person helps) and being modest in your clothing and dressing right helps. Getting married younger (before your 30s) and respecting your body, not wasting your time sleeping with multiple guys, is another thing many guys look for. Beyond that, depends on what kind of guy you want.

[Anonymous]

i'm pretty sure he's not husband material either, in the first place. don't feel too bad.

[Masonism]

So if he’s old fashioned wife material means you have the skill set required to take care of a household and a child. A more modern take is more about stability and ability to hold down a job. Of course he could just have commitment issues and making it a problem with you is just his way of reflection.

[Anonymous]

If you wants to be wife metarial than you should be master in cleaning house. Washing his clothes. Feeding his kids. Taking care of his old parents'.

In short you have to be his private slave in the day and in the night you should he his private prostitute.

[misogynistic_pig]

She has to be young, submissive and a virgin.

[Berethor]

You need to have a maternal instinct and not be a ho, cleaning and cooking helps too.

[abc3643]

How old is this guy?
I suspect he doesn't know his ass from his elbow.

[bamesjond0069]

Innocent

Not fat

Cook

Clean

Submissive sweet and agreeable.

[Pterodon]

Make yourself lovable and the rest is up to the other person

[Astarlessnightsky]

Step 1.
be yourself

Thats it.

[slatyb]

You stop listening to idiots.