What makes a woman “wife material”?

[Anonymous]

Why did you choose her over all the others?

[burlen]

It is not appropriate or respectful to reduce a woman to a checklist of qualities that make her "marriage or wife material." Each person is unique and should be valued for their individual qualities and characteristics, not just their perceived ability to fulfil a societal role or expectation.

Furthermore, the idea of "marriage or wife material" reinforces traditional gender roles and expectations, which can be harmful and limiting. Instead, it is important to approach relationships with respect, empathy, and a willingness to build a partnership based on mutual love, trust, and compatibility. These qualities are not gender-specific and should be valued in both partners.

Ultimately, the decision to marry someone should be based on individual preferences, values, and compatibility, rather than a predetermined checklist of qualities.

[OddBeMe]

1. Well flesh and blood helps, you know being the same species.
2. Having the right parts for sex. I know I may seem antiquated, but it’s important. And haven’t decided on whether I’d date trans if the parts were there. Huh. I don't know.
3. No astrology.

[jillybeanns]

There is no such thing. There is no global “wife/husband material” checklist. It depends on the person and what they specifically seeking in a wife or husband, etc.


If you want to be reduced down to a checklist of “wife material” qualities, you would have to ask the person you are dating what they are looking for in a wife.

[jillybeanns]

Which, I wouldn’t see that being a problem (asking the person you are dating what they seek in a wife). But asking a public forum will warrant a wide spectrum of qualities that will likely conflict one another.

[melanieeeB]

Nothing, that term is such a bullshit that some "alpha" "males" made up to made themselves feel important and categorize and minimize women again lol

[melanieeeB]

You can try to be as much of a "wife material" as you want, it won't change anything. Either the other person loves you and wants to marry you or they don't. It's so simple. You either have feelings for someone or you don't. Nothing that can be changed by how "wifey" you act

[Anonymous]

I chose my wife for a lot of reasons. She's a kind person with a good heart, unselfish, generous, affectionate, honest, loyal, values family above all else, has a good sense of humor, has traditional values, and it doesn't hurt that she's very sexy.

[inhua]

how are people offended over this question?

if such a question was asked about men being "husband material" it would fine and it is fine to ask such a question.

[Berethor]

Not being ho and having maternal instinct, good looks, cooking and cleaning helps too.

[OfMiceandMen]

"She cook". A quote from modern man...

modern man

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Godly Christian.
Smart.
Great sex.
Isn't annoying.

[MadAndBankrupt]

By being a virgin

[Anonymous]

Effort.