Men, What Makes A Woman Wife Material?

[BlckGrl]

What are her characteristics? Does she cook? Clean? Is she A working woman or housewife?

[HighlyVolatile]

I was pretty pragmatic about it. The way I see it is like we click well and get along very well on dates, then we try living together and if we click well and get along very well, then marry. That's what I did with my wife.

I don't care so much for the traditional or obedient housewife type at least. One reason is that I can and prefer to do my share of cooking and cleaning (I never wanted my wife to resemble a mother cooking and cleaning up after me). I tend to favor more independent and assertive types of women; my wife is that way.

But above all else, I think the most important quality to me is basically compatibility and maybe maturity where it counts most to form and maintain healthy relationships and healthy and productive styles of communication.

[HighlyVolatile]

I'm kind of a fun-loving and adventurous type as well as a bit of a thrill-seeker. So I always wanted a woman who is like my lifelong partner in adventures and fun. Of course, I value the usual things like devotion, trust, and open communication; those tend to be essentials. Yet beyond the essentials, I wanted a woman with whom I could really enjoy going on life's adventures together with lots of laughter reflecting upon our shared experiences.

[BraveRiver]

The longer I’m married I’m falling more in line with traditional husband/wife obligations. Earlier in life I was all about finding my equal and associated equal to mean equally ambitious, financially stable, equal passion in interests ect…

Now I’m seeing my equal as the person who elevates me to balance and equalizes me. I need someone to fill in my weaknesses, her strengths are where I lack which ironically fall in line with the nuclear family stereo type.

She’s my equal because I depend on her equally or more than she depends on me.

With all that said in short form: supportive, common beliefs, nurturing, sexual, wants to please me as much as I want to take care of and provide for her.

[DaySpring]

* Tolerant
* Courteous
* Above average Open-mindedness
* Creative Vision
* Keen sense of Justice/Honesty
* Physically health
* Highly developed Love for Me
* Loyal
*Tactful
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Personal bias:
*Romantic
*Affectionate
*Playful

[Lionman95]

For me it´s mostly that she shows that she´s trustworthy and has a stable personality meaning she´s not jumping around in her opinions like enjoying something one day and disliking it the next day.
I would like her to be able to cook and clean as well. I would leave it to her if she wants to be housewife or not, because that should be her decision.

[kinggeorge007]

I'm addition to the qualities she needs to be a team player, walking towards the same goal, tolerance, be okay with chores, matured enough not to jump into conclusions right away.

(These goes with both genders ie both have to come to a middle ground upon these conditions. That's why it's a team effort)

[Zenit93]

Anyone can learn how to cook or clean. What stands out to me in a woman is selflessness. Honestly, a woman who's selfless will make you the happiest man in the world. Selfless women don't cheat. Selfless women aren't fixated on themselves. Selfless women don't have inflated egos. Selfless women will take joy in caring for you and supporting you in life.

[BLP11520]

A little of everything, Steady character, willing to do what is needed. Handle tough times and good times. Cook? yes, clean? who wants a slob? Men should be able to do most everything in a pinch. When my wife was laid up ( hurt) I did everything!! plus work 2 jobs... much more to marriage than sex and good looks. Who wants a wife who lays on the couch and does nothing? Most couples both must work to make it. Inflation is putting a strain on most couples/families.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, no; you've got it all wrong. It doesn't have anything to do with tasks that she performs. It has to do with her interpersonal relational skills. And her character.

[Stevefiveo]

Cook, cleaning, pretty, good at blowjobs are definitely wifey material. Probably lean towards a housewife.

[MTC29]

It is far cheaper to hire a cook and a maid than to have a wife. I would need a career woman with a good job. Kids? no interest in brats at all.

[Gangactivities911]

I met her when she was young is by far the most important thing. But what is also essential is our personalities clicking well and us having shared values and I have to like spending time with her and we have to match sexually.

[Fireguy17]

She is your partner, your friend, someone you can trust day in day out, she is the one you would sacrifice everything for.