What makes a woman “Wifey Material” to you?

[Littlered23]

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I think I’m gonna become a lesbian… these answers are so sad.

[MCheetah]

These are the traits and qualities that make up my "Dream Girl" partner.

First, the mandatory things. She MUST be heterosexual, MUST be monogamous, and MUST be politically sane. Loyalty and respect are also mandatory! These are completely unnegotiable.

Kindness is important to me. I am intelligent, have a sense of humor, and strong work ethic, so I expect the same in a partner, and at least ONE of these three are required. Being accepting and open-minded are kinda important for me, because I am like this as well (to a degree; some things I simply will not be open-minded to, like degeneracy).

Being patient, artistic, or nerdy are not requirements, but are strongly desired and would be very appreciated.

Besides the obvious that she MUST be a 100% biological female, she also needs to be feminine and look, dress, and act like a woman. A butch or masculine female is not someone I'm willing to be with. Her having impeccable hygiene is mandatory, too.

As far as her actual body goes, I'd very much like her to be curvy, plus-sized, full-figured, or BBW, as that's my physical type and really the only superficial thing I ask for; big boobs, nice thick thighs, a fat booty, and so on. A great smile and good teeth is also a turn on, as well.

As for the more flexible things, I VERY much would like a girl who’s tall, which in my opinion, would be at least 5'9"/175 cm. Her being a redhead (or even a blonde), regardless of ethnicity, is very much a turn-on, too. Lastly, I'd like her to be between 20 and 34 years old, as I don't like older women as much.

PERSONALITY:

1. (Mandatory) Strictly heterosexual
2. (Mandatory) Strictly monogamous
3. (Mandatory) Politically moderate; not too liberal or conservative
4. (Mandatory) Loyal/faithful
5. (Mandatory) Respectful/classy/ladylike

6. Kind/positive
7. Intelligent
8. Strong sense of humor
9. Strong work ethic
10. Accepting/nonjudgmental
11. Open-minded

12. (Optional) Patient; not easily offended or bothered
13. (Optional) Artistic
14. (Optional) Nerdy; into video games or superheroes

PHYSICAL:

15. (Mandatory) Strictly female
16. (Mandatory) Feminine style
17. (Mandatory) Good hygiene

18. Curvaceous; big boobs, big booty, thick thighs, etc.
19. Great smile and good teeth

20. (Optional) Tall: 5'9" to 6'5" (6'2" to 6'5" is ideal)
21. (Optional) Redhead (or strawberry blonde, or blonde)
22. (Optional) Young: Between 20 and 34 (23 to 30 is ideal)

[ZackBan]

A quick test would be if I get into a fight with someone will she lunge at them and fight along side me or hide and scream?

It might be extreme but in my head a wifey is a "ride or die" your best friend the one who's got your back when the going gets rough and kows how to take and make jokes when we're chilling

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s someone that you are emotionally linked with.

where words are not really required.

where you can feel their emotions.

someone who is confident, independent, intelligent (not degree type intelligence), her own self, individuality,

has drive and determination to move forward in life, over comes problems.

[Chris7094]

She's got to make my life better in some way, and be serious about monogamy and commitment. Pretty much the opposite of my first wife, who made most days more stressful then was needed, and she didn't have any real integrity when it came to her vows.

[Staximus]

First and foremost she has to be a good person. Good to others and to herself. She can't be a liar or drug addict. She has to be emotionally stable and not on psych meds. She has to be strong willed, stubborn as a mule, never give up, stand up for herself, and never take shit from anybody. She has to have a kind heart and be nice to kids and old people.

[Staximus]

I forgot to say has good judgement and doesn't make poor life decisions and is street smart enough to keep herself safe and out of trouble

[Staximus]

And tell every other guy that's romantically or sexually interested in her to fuck off

[Staximus]

Not have a secret life behind my back

[Staximus]

These answers are sad or you're sad? They are pretty basic

[DevinAM]

Wants to have at least 2 children, does not want to be a stay at home mom, will breast feed the babies, non-smoker/doesn't do drugs, won't have any male children circumcised because that should be a personal choice.

Loyalty is important as many have said, I don't be wantin' a cheater.

[Staximus]

How is she going to breastfeed the babies if she's not a stay at home mom, genius?

[bamesjond0069]

@Staximus exactly. Some of these dudes are so clueless.

[DevinAM]

@bamesjond0069 saved up breast milk, of course there could be a period of time she doesn't work until they're old enough that they can eat solid food.

I already know someone who wants to breastfeed her children once she has them & thinks being a stay at home mom is stupid so...

[DevinAM]

@Staximus it doesn't necessarily have to be straight from the breast as long as the children are drinking breast milk when they're still young enough for it.

[Staximus]

So if you don't want the mother of your children being a stay at home mom, who's going to watch your children when they are too young to go to school yet? Jesus? The family dog? It's better for the parents to raise the kids instead of paying for daycare, which costs a shitload. Unless your future wife is making a shitload of money, there's no reason to pay a babysitter or daycare when she or you can do it yourself. There's no point in working all day and not being with your kids just to spend it all on day care. You obviously know jack about shit when it comes to raising a family.

[DevinAM]

@Staximus we would work different shifts like my own parents did, are you really that stupid?

[Staximus]

And how is the person who works at night supposed to get any sleep when they have to wake up early to watch kids, dipshit? You could just get your bum ass a better job and have your wife stay home you fucking wook

[Staximus]

Plus you still never see your wife of she works a different shift. You're fucking clueless

[DevinAM]

@Staximus clearly you're the clueless one seeing as my own parents worked different shifts, raised 3 sometimes 4 children & still had time to be together with us or just to themselves, not to mention some jobs have 3 shifts & I never said we both had to work full time, part time jobs keep some money coming in but don't require as many hours invested.

[blissinanarchy1]

Loyalty, Honesty, Open communication, intelligence, effort in the relationship, emotional support, no talking to anyone she slept with in the past, no onlyfans.

[bamesjond0069]

Feminine

Cook

Clean

Submissive

Sweet and caring

Loves kids

Low to no body count / no past casual sex.

Basically the same things is been for all time.

[Adam1978]

I guess it's the law book. If it contains bad laws no woman is wifey material.

[Imsmurter1]

If she's hot and willing to get on her knees and swallow haha jk that's all a minimum but she's got to be a good life partner for like finances and stuff.

[Imsmurter1]

@update lol I'm sorry please don't be sad we are not being serious.

[Imsmurter1]

@Littlered23 sorry you feel like these answers are sad hope you don't think all men are gross and bad. There will be a lot of men out there who will treat you nice and be a good partner.

[Avicenna]

No dealbreakers, can deal with adversity, and is someone I'd have a family with

[bean2k21]

She will sign a prenuptial agreement, and is basically a beautiful and intelligent whore.

[JSmuve]

Instagram model with the personality of a saint.

[legalboxers]

someone who completes me, someone who knows what Im thinking, and feeling, someone who will stand beside me and with me through all the hell

[MountAverage]

I'm not interested in "wifey" women.

[Guanfei]

Loyal, family oriented, complementing, respectful, humble and funny.

[Anonymous]

"I think I’m gonna become a lesbian" as we always said being gay is CHOICE.

[oldhabitsdiehard]

her dedication to keeping things together, no matter the circumstances.

[oldhabitsdiehard]

mature women, who is dedicated in her life and goals have some morals, willing to sacrifice, can cook good food and is good in bed.

[Berethor]

If she not a ho.

[NeffexSelfMade]

i DO NOT DATE OR MARRY

[Brad951]

Loyalty is the biggest thing

[altdbob]

Nothing