If you married a much older person and couldn't have kids as a result? What would you do?

[Anonymous]

Say you couldn't adopt and want your own children.

[designer1]

If the woman is older then maybe try to get medical help to have children. If it is the man who is older, this can’t be the reason why he is infertile. Men stay fertile throughout aging. Women, on the other hand are not as lucky. If it is the man though, maybe the woman can get pregnant using someone else’s sample. If it is the woman, maybe the man can give his sample to a woman willing to carry and deliver the child (I forgot the name) so that way they will be at least partially related to the parents by blood. Of course this is all assuming adoption is off the table.

[annabananna]

See if he is ok with having a child via sperm donor.

[Spiritofn]

Be very bitxhy... I'm 27 and no longer have child sex drive & I'm now confused with ready to have one or as fast as possible, frustrating.. Wanted to pop a baby or at least step baby dad it since I was an adult.

[Still-alive]

Either accept it or its time to divorce.

[Nikki1989]

I married an older guy, and we did want children, but that time has passed now. Work and other commitments have taken over.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Well I don't want any kids, so the biggest issue would be that I wouldn't be able to relate to her, because women older than me are not into video games, sci-fi, or anime.

[exitseven]

I was undecided about having kids. I could have gone either way. There are a couple of people i our neighborhood that do not have kids. They travel and eat out a lot and seem to be happy.

[CreatingWonders]

If I married her it’s because I love her if she can’t have children then so be it, I’m not bothered either way really.

[dreamstar72]

Depends on why, if possible go with the surrogate mother way.

[Chrystalynw1]

Talk about adoption… but those kids have baggage

[art84]

Would never date someone older than my age.

[megabamse]

Either adopt or get to the terms of not having kids. The last option is to leave the person if having kids is more important.

[Anonymous]

Definitely wouldn't marry a much older woman in the first place!

[misogynistic_pig]

I would never marry an older woman.

[Kelly6]

ask some young girl to carry my baby hehe

[KostasKouvalis]

Natural insemination

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd accept it.

[Fuentes]

I would never marry someone older then me

[SpokenTruth]

Adoption.

[cryscrys1]

Try ivf

[dudewithnoname]

Not have kids

[Pterodon]

Accept it