If your husband or wife was unable to have a kid, would you forfeit your dream of having a family, or you find a new partner?

[Trutention]

[Drew-1990]

If I married a woman and found out after she couldn't have kids I would be disappointed but not with her but the fact. But it is no reason to leave her at all. There is adoption and even then that isn't something she can control it's not here fault. Now I hope if she knew this before hand she would have said something before we got married because that would be a betrayal. Probably wouldn't let her still but we would need some work to fix that betrayal.

[LaurenM1997]

What if she didn’t want kids?

[Drew-1990]

We should have had the conversation long before we got married and if she hid that I would feel completely betrayed if I found out after marriage. I'm not sure what I would do if I found out after marriage that would be a huge betrayal and honestly we would have to do a lot of work to gain that trust back but I don't believe I would leave her but definitely angry and disappointed.

[abc3643]

I CHOSE my wife because she could not have kids.
In fact, my last two girlfriends (the last of which is my wife) both had hysterectomies before I knew them.
I got my heart devastatingly broken in 1992-1994 and decided I would not have kids after that.

[LaurenM1997]

I wouldn’t leave my husband if he couldn’t have children I don’t want children myself I want fur babies though

[MemeSupreme]

just adopt then

my genes are cursed so it'd work out lol

[AI Opinion]

Landing on the path of love and family often takes us through unexpected twists and turns. Navigating this with sensitivity and love in mind is key. If my partner couldn't have kids, abandoning ship wouldn't be my first move! Exploring alternatives together, like adoption, surrogacy, or fostering, could deepen our bond and expand our definition of family. Remember, families aren't just made; they're built with understanding, patience, and a lot of love. Let’s keep the dialogues open, hearts fuller, and options on the table. Life has a funny way of surprising us with the joy of unexpected stories of love and family!

[LaurenM1997]

What would you know? You are just a robot

[Finchie40]

I would stay with her and figure out an alternative with her , if we really wanted kids

[Princesspeach1411]

Look for alternatives to have a family. You could go down the path of IVF, surrogacy (if the woman is unable to carry a child) or adoption. If you love each other and it’s what you both want you will find a way.

[IslaTheWitch]

you can create a family for any of the existing kids who are missing one...

[sawno]

If its not meant to be its not meant to be. But I am not giving up a partner for that. She deserves my love and i'd do everything I can to ensure she knows i don't think any less of her.

[loveslongnails]

I really can't answer that because I've never wanted kids, so that's not a deal breaker for me. It's impossible for me to imagine that kind of desire to have a family at all, much less a family based only on my and my spouse's genetics.

[Dinklex3]

I don’t want to get pregnant anyways.

I’d talk to him about adoption.

[bowenw]

No as there are other options for having a family.

[Staximus]

Having kids is not something I consider necessary. People think they need to have kids but they don't. The world doesn't need any more resource vacuums. If I had a wife and she wasn't able to have kids, then oh well.

[laly520]

would stay with him but find an alternative way that isn't messed up or would cross our relationship boundaries

[wiltingrosepetal]

IVF followed by adoption if the former is unsuccessful. I'm raising kids either way

[DarkWinterNights]

If I was trying to have a child with a woman I would probably care for her enough to stick around and figure something out.

[Anonymous]

Neither because there are other ways out here. Never know what can happen for pregnancy. I seen a lot of miracles happen

[Agent_Elflord]

I'd stay with them of course, I made vows to their whole entire person, not just their reproductive organs.

[DrPepper12]

I would adopt and spoil the shit out of my nieces and nephews!

[Bobby88t]

Im unable to have kids and impotent with sterility. But i still like to find a girl and even allow her to be other guys

[nawtee_me]

There is always adoption…. To love a child no one else would is very satisfying….

[CubaPirate]

Seek fertility treatment or discuss adoption

[Anonymous]

There's other options of starting a family. I'm not going anywhere as long as she's willing.

[LazerBean]

There are other ways of acquiring a child

[Twalli]

I got a vascetomy to ensure we wouldn't.

[Slim57]

That'd be perfect for me

[JacobJordan]

New partner