A lot of girls begin looking in their late teens or even before that. I never wanted a husband until this year, because I was so religious that I thought I did not need a man to be happy in life. There is one thing which is that I really like desirable guys and they are basically all married unless there is something wrong with them or they are not too good looking or not too smart or they are way too young for me. My friend's husband found a very good house and bought it within 2 weeks of deciding to house hunt and buy a new home. So maybe I can get a husband at a very quick speed as well.
I did. My dream was to be a father and husband from the age of thirteen to twenty eight. That dream is dead, now. I haven't bothered even talking to people outside of work besides needed conversations and people I already know irl.
I've been rejected a lot over the years, been on one real date, and had two women interested in me. One was too much like my mom and the other I was concerned over long distance relationship that's started online where you don't know for sure who's on the other end.
Lately, I've had a few married women tease me - attendants at the laundromat, a few cashier's, and some random people I meet on the train. That makes me uncomfortable.
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That is exactly the way it happened. I had a long relationship with somebody for 4 years. We had been talking about getting married but I was not ready. We broke up and I dated several different girls in the next year. Each relationship was deeply flawed. I was planning on giving up dating for a while or maybe forever but the next day I met my future wife and it all of a sudden seemed like I was ready to get married.
When I was in my teens, there was a lot of pressure to get married young and I remember saying I’d get married to my then boyfriend when we turned 21. Between 21-25, I completely lost interest in the idea of marriage. I was more interested in travelling and partying while finishing my masters. When I turned 26, the pressure from family return and I ended up being in this rut between 26-29. Then I forgot once more.
Having my fiancé now at 31 and realizing it’s going to happen soon, I’m very excited to start my life. Without the pressure.
I never looked for a husband. I had no desire to get married, and I never did. Yes, all my friends are/ were married, and after 40 years we are all still friends. Marriage doesn't define you as a person. Owing a house doesn't "get" you a husband. Stop looking and you will find him. ✌️😊🇨🇦
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I had that feeling in last 2 years. I do want husband, I want my own man and own family. Because I'm so tired of being alone. Relationship doesn't go anywhere. I want to build a life with some, I want life partner, I want to be loved and feel like I'm home again.
You are way way to old with baggage.
First you were too busy F*** around drinking and clubbing.
Now you want a husband? Sorry If I was single I would choose a 25 year old virgin woman with no baggage.
You should had been married a while ago.
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I never had the thought that its TIME To get married, but I got the feeling that I found the right PERSON to get married to. Which I then did nearly three weeks ago. 🤗
My perspective may be a bit odd but it's never been time that made me feel like I should get married but the person. When you have a moment that would otherwise seem to be minor but makes you feel like you want to keep your partner with you forever... It's having moments like these that make me truly consider marriage.
I’ll be ready by 35+ years old and having my kid by late 30s maybe around 36–38! Since I only prefer 1 kid only
I find the thought less appealing now a days but I don't know i still somewhat hope to
When you meet the one you just know no hesitations or questions asked…. both of you are on the same page and have the same wants needs and goals
I've never once felt the need to get married.
Now considering that I'm in India, a lot of relatives do instead feel the need for me.I've never really thought about getting married before I mean me and my partner have talked about maybe getting married in the far future but obviously nothing is like set in stone yet
I don't know I’m with a girl now that I really like we took a break and then got back together now she is all I can think about
I am sure you will find a guy you look better then a 19 year old.
No. Never. I never want marriage.
Guys are sexual so be ready for that
Honestly. Your chances are pretty slim.
Nope and nope
I m married already
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