He and my boyfriend have 2 kids together but he doesn't want to get married to me but I want marriage. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your desire for marriage and your future together. Try to express your thoughts and feelings in a calm and respectful manner, and listen to his perspective as well.

It's possible that your boyfriend may have concerns or reservations about marriage that you are not aware of. Perhaps he is worried about the financial or legal implications of marriage, or he may have personal or religious beliefs that make him hesitant to get married. It's important to understand his perspective and work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

If you find that you and your boyfriend have fundamentally different values or goals when it comes to marriage, it may be necessary to consider whether the relationship is truly fulfilling for both of you in the long term. It's important to be honest with yourself about your needs and desires, and to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

Consider seeking the help of a couples therapist or counselor to help facilitate communication and work through any issues or concerns that may be impacting your relationship. They can provide guidance and support as you navigate this important decision.

[Ben487]

Have you identified why he doesn't want marriage? maybe he's just worried about losing have his stuff in a divorce or something. Some men will never get married with those guys it doesn't matter what you do or say it will never happen.

[slatyb]

Mary someone else